I need a crash course in 3-Way 101

Morganna Morganna
My long-term boyfriend and I have been talking about how much we want to try adding another party to one of our 'play' sessions. I can understand that there may be a bit of jealousy but I'm not anticipating too much of it because I think it's more my idea than his.

Anyways, I was wondering if someone could give me some tips on how to go about looking for someone to do this with. I'm not going to just pick up any girl off the street of Criaglist it. I don't have many girl friends so that's kind of out. Anyone have any tips or anything to offer?
02/20/2011
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Morganna Morganna
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02/21/2011
Rockin' Rockin'
I recommend talking through the issue with your boyfriend and trying to cover all the bases of things that might come up during the threesome that could cause problems. Then talk about what type of person you both want so you're on the samne page when you take steps toward approaching people.

After that, I'd recommend getting a profile on OkCupid if Craigslist isn't your thing, and you don't have people in your life already who might be game for it. Check out other profiles of people looking for an additional person for their play time, or for people who are interested in being an additional person, just to see what's out there and how they describe what they want. Use those profiles to help you polish your own.

Good luck!
02/21/2011
Morganna Morganna
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Originally posted by Rockin'
I recommend talking through the issue with your boyfriend and trying to cover all the bases of things that might come up during the threesome that could cause problems. Then talk about what type of person you both want so you're on the samne page ... More
Thank you so much. This was helpful.
02/21/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Morganna
Thank you so much. This was helpful.
For more really helpful advice on this sort of thing check out the polyamory section of the forums.
02/21/2011
Morganna Morganna
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
For more really helpful advice on this sort of thing check out the polyamory section of the forums.
Okie doke, thank you.
02/21/2011
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