If a committed, married couple you knew, suddenly invited you to join them for a threesome (out of the blue), would you say YES or NO?

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If a committed, married couple you knew, suddenly invited you to join them for a threesome (out of the blue), would you say YES or NO?

Bignuf Bignuf
That would me JUST you....even if you are in a relationship or married, since only YOU would have been "invited" by them to play. Happened to me once. I said...."NO THANKS".

Would YOU?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
YES...I would join in. What the heck...offers like that don't come along every day.
6
No...just wouldn't do it.
37
Maybe. Depends on how well I know them and who they are.
30
Other?
2
Total votes: 75 (72 voters)
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02/23/2012
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Elnoa Elnoa
Although it wouldn't matter to me if they were committed or married, just that I knew them both well.
02/23/2012
Taylor Taylor
I doubt I would agree to it, but maybe with the right set of circumstances I would say yes.
02/23/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
One of my friends asked me and I just could not do it.
02/23/2012
sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
I've been asked at random(at the mall) to have a threesome before and I said no... I wouldn't be interested whether I knew the couple or not
02/23/2012
Tork48309 Tork48309
I could risk the loss of the relationship. This has a tendancy to change things.
02/23/2012
Nazaress Nazaress
It depends on who they are and if I'm in a relationship or not. I would only do it if the couple were lesbians (because I'm not really into men, besides my boyfriend) and I would only do it if I was single or MAYBE if my boyfriend gave me the go-ahead.
02/23/2012
TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I probably would. Most of my friends know I have been in group sex scenarios before and have often been a third to couples. So I would assume the reason they were asking is because I have experience in that area. Before agreeing to anything though I would make sure that they BOTH really wanted it and it wasn't something one person was doing just because the other wanted it.
02/23/2012
Rossie Rossie
I don't really care if they're committed to each other or not, I will not participate in group sex.
02/23/2012
punkstar283 punkstar283
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
That would me JUST you....even if you are in a relationship or married, since only YOU would have been "invited" by them to play. Happened to me once. I said...."NO THANKS".

Would YOU?
No thanks
02/23/2012
All His All His
No, I am happily committed to only my husband
02/23/2012
switzerland switzerland
personally, no. 1) commitment to my man 2) sex ruins friendships, i feel like it could get incredibly awkward afterwards, or if it was fantastic sex - i would want threesomes all the time! haha
02/23/2012
jokerzwild jokerzwild
Ya depends on how good of friends we were and their personalities. Good friends no, friends I don't see much anymore maybe, acquaintances probably. Oh and I knew they understood there would be no play between the guy and I.
02/23/2012
catgirl9 catgirl9
Absolutely not.
02/23/2012
Sir Sir
It truly depends on who they are and in what capacity they are wanting me to enter a session with them.
02/23/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
No, if they're married and you know them, that's asking for trouble later.
02/24/2012
xoxo xoxo
I think that's kind of weird to do.
02/24/2012
Ansley Ansley
Sex between friends muddies the water and is something one should tread carefully with and that being said, I checked "maybe". It really does depend on who they are and all of that. I've found that it's almost impossible for us, as a couple, to make meaningful relationships with other couples. There's usually way too much drama going on and I'm so over that kind of stuff.
02/24/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I wouldn't do it especially since I'm in a relationship and they weren't invited.
02/24/2012
namelesschaos namelesschaos
It ultimately depends on the couple and the circumstances, would have to tread incredibly carefully but i'm not going to categorically say no.
02/25/2012
ac0313 ac0313
It depends on many things. Since I'm in an open relationship, it would depend on the friends' situation and reasons for doing this. In fact, my SO and I have brought in another female friend, who is married, a couple times in the recent past. As long as everyone involved is in agreement and understands what is happening, I see nothing wrong with participating!
02/25/2012
yeoshua yeoshua
Quote:
Originally posted by Tork48309
I could risk the loss of the relationship. This has a tendancy to change things.
I don't understand your reply--you could risk the loss of the relationship by having sex or you would not risk the loss of the relationship and not have sex? Just curious.
02/25/2012
yeoshua yeoshua
Quote:
Originally posted by ac0313
It depends on many things. Since I'm in an open relationship, it would depend on the friends' situation and reasons for doing this. In fact, my SO and I have brought in another female friend, who is married, a couple times in the recent past. ...
Did her husband know about it?
02/25/2012
yeoshua yeoshua
Many years ago I was in a spontaneous 3some--well, it was a guy and a girl--the guy brought her back to our place and when he got tired he passed her to me and it went back and forth but we never really were all 3 together. I didn't enjoy it very much because I wasn't able to feel comfortable with a woman I did not know (neither of us ever met her before that night--this was before HIV was a big thing) and I couldn't respect her. Just not me.
02/25/2012
hippie hippie
I think this could potentially be fun, but it really depends on everyone's comfort level. Personally I think I would enjoy a threesome, but I would prefer it being my boyfriend and I, and an added girl.
02/26/2012
richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
That would me JUST you....even if you are in a relationship or married, since only YOU would have been "invited" by them to play. Happened to me once. I said...."NO THANKS".

Would YOU?
No...just wouldn't do it
02/26/2012
shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
That would me JUST you....even if you are in a relationship or married, since only YOU would have been "invited" by them to play. Happened to me once. I said...."NO THANKS".

Would YOU?
no..wouldnt do it with anyone I knew..would cause to many problems after
06/26/2012
digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
That would me JUST you....even if you are in a relationship or married, since only YOU would have been "invited" by them to play. Happened to me once. I said...."NO THANKS".

Would YOU?
nope
06/26/2012
hillys hillys
If they were my best friends in the world and that is what they both wanted then yeah sure.
06/26/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
That would me JUST you....even if you are in a relationship or married, since only YOU would have been "invited" by them to play. Happened to me once. I said...."NO THANKS".

Would YOU?
Hmm, I'd consider it.
10/07/2012
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