If you had a threesome for your partner would you think that entitles you to have a threesome of your own?

AliMc AliMc
I'm a little curious about MMF threesomes but have no desire whatsoever to take part in a MFF one. If your partner wanted to have a threesome (whether with two guys or two girls) would you feel like they owed it to you to have a threesome the other way too?
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Yes, an eye for an eye.
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No, it doesn't work like that.
16
Other... ?
11
Total votes: 36 (35 voters)
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11/07/2012
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If I wanted one and he wanted the other than I'd say some negotiation would be on the table. If he wanted one and I was uninterested in the other I wouldn't ask for it just to play tit for tat.
11/07/2012
DomonCoshu DomonCoshu
I think that if he asked you to do it and you agreed to help him live out a fantasy or whatever then yes, I think if you are wanting to to do whatever then you are more then entitled. If you did something for him and now he wants you to do something an you are not interested then no. You shouldn't be forced to do anything you don't want to.
11/07/2012
Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
Relationships are not a quid pro quo system and I consider entitlement a dirty word, but I think partners should keep an open mind where desires are concerned. I love my partner (husband), so I'm willing to explore. But if I do something I'll do it because I decide I want to try it, not as some type of emotional currency I can "cash-in" for something I want later on—i.e. "I did X so now you have to do Y."
11/07/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by AliMc
I'm a little curious about MMF threesomes but have no desire whatsoever to take part in a MFF one. If your partner wanted to have a threesome (whether with two guys or two girls) would you feel like they owed it to you to have a threesome the ... More
Maybe.
11/07/2012
pirata pirata
We both want to try FFM, so no need to do that lol
11/07/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Quid pro quo Clarice... Ha! I couldn't resist.
11/07/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Talk it over - everything doesn't have to be equal - it depends on how your partner feels about it.
11/08/2012
Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I wouldn't be having one in the first place.
11/08/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
I think it is reasonable to at least ask and discuss it and why you feel you both should get one.
11/08/2012
Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by AliMc
I'm a little curious about MMF threesomes but have no desire whatsoever to take part in a MFF one. If your partner wanted to have a threesome (whether with two guys or two girls) would you feel like they owed it to you to have a threesome the ... More
No i dont thisnk thats right or fair either
11/08/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I think if your partner is expecting you to be open minded about it, than they should also be open minded to something that you'd like. That being said, I don't think it's something that should be tit for tat either. There needs to be openness all the way around!
11/08/2012
Nurse Katie Nurse Katie
Quote:
Originally posted by AliMc
I'm a little curious about MMF threesomes but have no desire whatsoever to take part in a MFF one. If your partner wanted to have a threesome (whether with two guys or two girls) would you feel like they owed it to you to have a threesome the ... More
Yes, I think if one partner wants a MMF threesome and the other wants a MFF threesome, then its most fair to do both.
11/08/2012
Bodhi Bodhi
Well I think people should be fair.

But that sort of mentality gives me the impression the person isn't 100% into it, I really don't think it's healthy to have sex you're not into it.
11/08/2012
naturegirl naturegirl
It's not a case of an eye for an eye, hubby and I wanted to give one another the gift of pleasure so we tried both! In the end we both found a MFM arrangement worked better that a FMF. He found it visually exciting and I found it physically more satisfying. (I voted "other")
11/08/2012
CaliGirl CaliGirl
Hell yes!
11/08/2012
edeneve edeneve
not that it's "owed", more that you have the same right to.
11/08/2012
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by AliMc
I'm a little curious about MMF threesomes but have no desire whatsoever to take part in a MFF one. If your partner wanted to have a threesome (whether with two guys or two girls) would you feel like they owed it to you to have a threesome the ... More
That would be information that should have come up in conversation before anything took place.
11/09/2012
LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
Quote:
Originally posted by AliMc
I'm a little curious about MMF threesomes but have no desire whatsoever to take part in a MFF one. If your partner wanted to have a threesome (whether with two guys or two girls) would you feel like they owed it to you to have a threesome the ... More
Each partner should be willing to compromise you can get what you want and he can get what he wants
11/09/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by AliMc
I'm a little curious about MMF threesomes but have no desire whatsoever to take part in a MFF one. If your partner wanted to have a threesome (whether with two guys or two girls) would you feel like they owed it to you to have a threesome the ... More
I would never expect a guy to do MMF and then tell him he couldn't have MFF.
11/10/2012
Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
I wouldn't see this as a bartering sort of situation
11/12/2012
Taylor Taylor
I think that it's something you would really have to discuss with your partner. I almost think it might go better to play with a couple in this particular situation.
11/12/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Quote:
Originally posted by Taylor
I think that it's something you would really have to discuss with your partner. I almost think it might go better to play with a couple in this particular situation.
I agree.
05/19/2013
Rawr4483 Rawr4483
Should go both ways
05/19/2013
Total posts: 24
Unique posters: 24