For me, I need my wife to be eager. If I initiate things and she seems apathetic ot neutral? Instant and major turn off. The same goes for if she initiates and she doesn’t seem all that excited (after 9 years, some nights just wont work), again huge turn off. - C
Does your sexual partner being eager for sex a major turn on for you.
Of course, knowing he wants me....how can that not be a "turn on". I know he gets turned on by me wanting him too. That is why, after thirty years of marriage, we still are hot to trot. We both desire each other....daily. In all kinds of ways. Yum.
What am I missing? Is this a question or point farming?
Actually, one famous movie star, during a BITTER divorce, said she was "tired of him desiring sex from her all the time", so I guess there are folks who don't find their spouse "desiring them" to be a turn on. That sure isn't me.