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Often times when having sexy time with my wife, I have to nudge her legs fully open to please her in the best ways possible. She tells me she sometimes doesn't feel confident enough to just spread them right away. Eventually she knows a fun
Often times when having sexy time with my wife, I have to nudge her legs fully open to please her in the best ways possible. She tells me she sometimes doesn't feel confident enough to just spread them right away. Eventually she knows a fun time is in front of her so she doesn't argue much.
When she is really turned on or drunk, the legs could not be wider.
Wow. Interesting. How long have you been married? I cannot imagine being shy in front of my hubby at this point in our lives, or even when we were pretty newly wed. You need to make sure she knows that you love everything about her. Build her confidence by making sure she understands she has "no flaws" in your eyes.
The only time I recall being shy at all was when we were first married and my hubby, after about half an hour of giving me oral bliss, asked me to "turn around and get on all fours", thinking that he was going to "take me" doggy style. However, his plan was to continue using his talented tongue and lips on me...including my sensitive tush. Just being there, in that position, with him looking at my rear and like a bowl of candy, made me momentarily embarrassed, but his next words of "I so adore seeing you this way, it brings me such pleasure and I hope to return the same to you", just put that all aside. I still hear those words in my ears. Now, I would think nothing of it...but then, it made a world of difference.
Let her know, in any position, she is your most precious beauty. Sure cannot hurt.