Ladies, when your lover is "fingering" your vagina, do they also have a finger in you "back there"?

Bignuf Bignuf
I did not put this under "anal", since that category might be looked at by more anal leaning lovers. The question is, how common is it, among the whole group here, to have the "two finger" event...one in the vagina, one in the anus, at the same time, verses just in the vagina (or actually, just one in the anus)?

When my lover "fingers me, most of the time it is......"
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
A finger in the vagina only.
Rossie , CamoCutie , HannahPanda , Cosmonaut , Rory , funluvinmama , flameworker , wicked48 , PepperPot , surreptitious , Cinnyree , CoffeeCup , matry , Husband and Wife , Subska , pirata , konicaguy , kozykitten65 , Taylor , Ly-Ra , KittyGoesRawr
21
A finger in the vagina and one in the anus too.
Amber Sweet , Bignuf , peppermintgal , nichole413 , Mark and Carleen , sweisb4100 , Happy Kupple , Herzer , Genderfree
9
A finger in the anus only.
Other?
Rossie , SecretKinksters , C&K0143 , Terra Fae , Gunsmoke , underHim , Nympho88 , 02022013 , HisLittleFiend , Ashley91
10
Total votes: 40 (39 voters)
Poll is closed
07/12/2013
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Rossie Rossie
Fingers in the vagina only -- if I want simultaneous stimulation in my other hole, I'll use my Pure plug. I always worry he might forget which finger was originally in my back hole, and accidentally stick the same finger into my vagina later!
07/12/2013
CamoCutie CamoCutie
I am not an anal person, tried it and it just wasn't for me, so we stick to fingers in the vagina only. However I would see how some people would feel the same way as Rossie said.
07/13/2013
HannahPanda HannahPanda
I like it occasionally.
07/13/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
50/50. Sometimes both, and sometimes vaginal only or anally only...we always mix it up, nothing is 100% of the time.
07/13/2013
Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
Usually just the vagina. Occasionally a finger will go back there.
07/13/2013
Rory Rory
My back door is for leaving only - NO ENTERING!!
07/13/2013
funluvinmama funluvinmama
Prefer vaginal only. Not a big fan of anal here.
07/14/2013
C&K0143 C&K0143
I usually prefer 2 or 3 fingers in my pussy and one at most anally. That is only once in a while too. - K
07/14/2013
Terra Fae Terra Fae
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
I did not put this under "anal", since that category might be looked at by more anal leaning lovers. The question is, how common is it, among the whole group here, to have the "two finger" event...one in the vagina, one in the ... More
I prefer one OR the other, never both. But I love both.
07/14/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I anally penetrate my partner with a finger fairly often - but mostly with vaginal toys.
07/19/2013
underHim underHim
It is fairly difficult for him to get one finger in each hole and get a rhythm and angle that really works to stimulate me anally really well and hits my g spot. More often he will use his mouth to stimulate me one place and his hands the other.
07/19/2013
wicked48 wicked48
Vagina only. Totally agree with what Rossie said.
07/19/2013
Nympho88 Nympho88
It depends...... Sometimes both and sometimes just one or the other! I like it either way
07/19/2013
Nympho88 Nympho88
It depends...... Sometimes both and sometimes just one or the other! I like it either way
07/19/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Nympho88
It depends...... Sometimes both and sometimes just one or the other! I like it either way
Looks like you like it so incredibly nice, you liked it twice!!!
07/20/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Terra Fae
I prefer one OR the other, never both. But I love both.
Never both? Interesting. One I never, honestly, heard from anyone before. Is it just the desire to focus on one "stimulation" at a time?
07/20/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Fingers in the vagina only -- if I want simultaneous stimulation in my other hole, I'll use my Pure plug. I always worry he might forget which finger was originally in my back hole, and accidentally stick the same finger into my vagina later!
We avoided that issue early on by actually considering the way his hand works best. Index finger in vagina, and second finger in anus. No mix up. Only other way we might do it is right hand thumb in anus,again, index finger in vagina, and that free's his second finger to rub my clit! It's all good, and avoids "cross contamination" issues. Plus, we keep antibacterial wet wipes on the nightstands for immediate clean up of anything pulled from the anus.
07/20/2013
Cinnyree Cinnyree
i've never had my anus fingered
07/21/2013
HisLittleFiend HisLittleFiend
It totally depends upon his mood. Like Bignuf, we keep wet wipes near us so cleanliness isn't a big deal. But he doesn't usually do both at the same time. He will work on my pussy a bit, and then he'll slide a finger around the ass and work his way into fingering it a bit more, sometimes he'll use a toy instead of fingers- depends upon what he wants (I always want everything hehe) and what we have available.
07/21/2013
naturegirl naturegirl
Fingers in vagina only during foreplay, but sometimes a well timed insertion of a well lubricated finger in my anus can intensify an orgasm if I'm in the mood. I will ask him to do that if that is the case and it is only when I am already on the verge of orgasming anyway.
07/31/2013
sweisb4100 sweisb4100
It depends on the mood but generally both.
08/05/2013
Happy Kupple Happy Kupple
Both.....OMGGGGGGG
08/18/2013
Ashley91 Ashley91
Usually just my vag, rarely does he want to go in the backdoor. I really don't care as long as my vag is being pleasured.
09/03/2013
pirata pirata
Just my vagina, more from my squeamishness than his. Also, I'm afraid of unintentional crossover O.o No infections for me, thank you
09/14/2013
stacylyn12 stacylyn12
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Fingers in the vagina only -- if I want simultaneous stimulation in my other hole, I'll use my Pure plug. I always worry he might forget which finger was originally in my back hole, and accidentally stick the same finger into my vagina later!
oh that would be bad
09/14/2013
stacylyn12 stacylyn12
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
I did not put this under "anal", since that category might be looked at by more anal leaning lovers. The question is, how common is it, among the whole group here, to have the "two finger" event...one in the vagina, one in the ... More
I do love it when I being fingered back there just not with a finger
09/14/2013
konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
I did not put this under "anal", since that category might be looked at by more anal leaning lovers. The question is, how common is it, among the whole group here, to have the "two finger" event...one in the vagina, one in the ... More
I've tried to slip one in the back door,but she has no desire to try that at all. Ugh...
09/18/2013
Happy Kupple Happy Kupple
Thumb on my clit, forefinger in pussy and middle finger in ass. And tongue assisting. Mmmmmmmmm
09/27/2013
Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
Never tried the backdoor personally, never really had any desire to! He likes it when I do though.
10/03/2013
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