Ladies, would you prefer sex with a small penis that allows you to experience vaginal orgasms over sex with an average- or above-average sized penis and not experience vaginal orgasm?

strangebrew strangebrew
Where size is concerned, I'm certainly on the small side of both length (5.5"), and especially girth (~ 4 1/4"). My girlfriend has been with men MUCH larger than me but never experienced a vaginal orgasm before we met. Our first time together, she was able to reach orgasm with no manual manipulation of her own.

I'm quite insecure about the fact that she prefers both the look of a large(r) cock, and prefers the feel of a thicker cock. With that said, she says over and over that she loves sex with me for the multiple orgasms. This made me wonder how other women feel. I appreciate your votes. Thank you.
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wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
I honestly can't pick from the poll options because for me, it depends on if the person can actually use what he's got.

I've been with all sizes and the only time I haven't truly enjoyed myself is when they were insecure about how to use it or what they were even doing.

I can't speak for your girl, obviously, but that's how I feel about it.
09/04/2014
edeneve edeneve
I do want to say that there is so much more to pleasurable sex than penis size. and the real fun begins with exploration of those creative ventures as well as the tested & proven possibilities.
09/06/2014
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by strangebrew
Where size is concerned, I'm certainly on the small side of both length (5.5"), and especially girth (~ 4 1/4"). My girlfriend has been with men MUCH larger than me but never experienced a vaginal orgasm before we met. Our first time ...
Skill and attitude, in all aspects of lovemaking, outweigh "size" by a million to one for this lady.
09/07/2014
Heartthrob Heartthrob
Quote:
Originally posted by strangebrew
Where size is concerned, I'm certainly on the small side of both length (5.5"), and especially girth (~ 4 1/4"). My girlfriend has been with men MUCH larger than me but never experienced a vaginal orgasm before we met. Our first time ...
5.5 inches is average. You are not on the smaller side. As a woman, I just want a man who can get me over the edge. Penis size is not important. It's how you use it.
09/11/2014
strangebrew strangebrew
@Hearthrob, I guess then, I'm smaller than my gf's ex's average, which would sit well north of 6" and thick. Just my luck, I suppose. I'm by far the smallest she's been with, at any rate.

Thanks to all who have voted and to those who have taken the time to comment. I appreciate it.
09/12/2014
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by strangebrew
@Hearthrob, I guess then, I'm smaller than my gf's ex's average, which would sit well north of 6" and thick. Just my luck, I suppose. I'm by far the smallest she's been with, at any rate.

Thanks to all who have voted ...
strangebrew, you are not alone. I once dated a girl, who's ex as she described to me came up to his belly button. In the 8-9" range,col. She was ok with it though. However one day as I went over to her house, he was leaving. Didn't bother me, I knew they had been together for 6 yrs.
09/12/2014
Aesenthia Aesenthia
I once was with a guy who had an above average sized penis and I was in so much pain it wasn't enjoyable. He had zero skill. It was the worst sex of my life. Then I was with a guy who was smaller than average and I was a bit concerned, but he made it the best sex of my life. I think the difference, for me, is that the guy with the smaller penis really got me going both physically and mentally and that is important. Never underestimate the power of foreplay!
10/03/2014
CS2012 CS2012
I prefer smaller for a different reason. I have a severe bladder disease and sex can be very painful because of it. So naturally the smaller the penis is the better it is for me.
10/23/2014
Inquisitor Inquisitor
Strangebrew, if you are able to give her multiple orgasms with your equipment, then you have nothing to worry about. Everyone has preferences that their partner might or might not fulfill, but, the good thing is that these are preferences and not requirements.

For example, you might require that all your sexual partners be of a certain gender, i.e. female. A preference you might have could be for brunettes with blue eyes and glasses. Requirements exclude certain classes of things, preferences don't. Is this making sense? In the sexual department, you seem to be her unicorn. You are giving her the one thing that others who might be better endowed can't. Keep doing what you are doing and be empowered knowing that you are pleasing your girlfriend.
12/20/2014
Svenson Svenson
I'm not a girl, but I feel like you should know that your size isn't on the small end of average. 5.5" of length is either right on top of the bell curve, or slightly past it depending on what study you look at.

Those studies that show average being from 6-7" are all from self reported sizes, and we all know how reliable most guys are when it comes to that lol.

Your girth is admittedly on the smaller end, but if you lady gets off on it and doesn't mind then there's no need to worry.
Mar 8, 2:50 pm
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