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Contributor: link82 link82
Do you like to have sex with the lights on or the lights off?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I must have the lights off every time!
I prefer the lights to be off, so they are off most of the time.
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12  (11%)
I like to mix it up depending on the situation.
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71  (65%)
I prefer to have the lights on most of the time.
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23  (21%)
Lights on always!
VanillaFreeSex , jnd091020 , RonLee , CreamySweet
4  (4%)
Total votes: 110
Poll is closed
04/12/2011
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Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
We usually have a light on because we enjoy seeing each other since we have such a strong physical attraction. Sometimes, after we have snuggled up to sleep with the lights off, we may get frisky again and do not worry about being in the dark.
04/12/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Do you like to have sex with the lights on or the lights off?
I love to see my wife's beautiful body and how she reacts to things. Unfortunately, she wants them off most of the time. Since I want to please her, she gets her wish-no arguements!
04/12/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Do you like to have sex with the lights on or the lights off?
I have always preferred low lighting like candles or something like that.
04/12/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Lights or candles - hate the dark. Like most men I'm visually oriented, turn out the lights and I'm no where near as turned on.
04/12/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
For me it doesn't make a difference one way or the other, although I have taken a liking to keeping the lights on. I like being able to see everything that's going on, it just adds so much to the experience for me.
04/12/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I like the lights on most of the time...although sometimes, it's nice in the dark because you can concentrate more on the way things feel.
04/12/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I want him to be able to watch me sucking his dick and I want to see his body under mine when I am on top. I love to watch his body and how it responds to mine, while we have sex. LIGHTS ON, PLEASE!

I think I am a visual person. (I am originally from the Show Me state.)
04/12/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
We keep the lights on almost always. Unless it's a impromptu session during a movie or something where the lights are already off. I like being able to see everything.
04/12/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
We leave them on most of the time, or at least have a lamp on for dim light. If I am having a bad body image day I will turn them off though.
04/12/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I didn't vote. We always have a 4 watt nightlight on, it's not too bright but we can still see what we're doing.
04/12/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I have sex at night or during the day, so sometimes there is light and sometimes it is dark. It just depends.
04/12/2011
Contributor: dhig dhig
on please
04/12/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
I love to see my wife's beautiful body and how she reacts to things. Unfortunately, she wants them off most of the time. Since I want to please her, she gets her wish-no arguements!
Ditto. Although I love watching my lovers reactions, so any chance I get it is lights' on sex.
04/12/2011
Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
Hey mix it up
04/12/2011
Contributor: hornypoet69 hornypoet69
Quote:
Originally posted by BadassFatass
I like the lights on most of the time...although sometimes, it's nice in the dark because you can concentrate more on the way things feel.
This is a good point. Maybe I should try this sometime.
04/12/2011
Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
I love doing it in the dark!
04/13/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I like to mix, but if I had to choose between light and dark - the dark!
04/13/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I voted lights on because we always have the 4 watt nightlight on every night. It's not too bright but good enough to see what we're doing.
04/13/2011
Contributor: fymenfolk fymenfolk
I'm more of a lights on kind of guy, although my wife prefers lights off, so it varies. Focusing on non-visual stimuli can be nice now and then.
04/13/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
She: I think it just depends on how the lights were when we started. I guess I like some light though, it's hot to see each other.

He: Low lighting. Not all the way on, not all the way off.

She: Yeah, that.
04/13/2011
Contributor: newlady newlady
Low lighting!
We have white shear material hanging around our bed and I put
white mini lights around the top and down one side.
04/13/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
W usually have sunlight since morning works best for our schedule (and no kids!)
04/13/2011
Contributor: kelaaa33wish kelaaa33wish
I prefer the lights on ,I like to see everything
04/13/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Different lighting is nice, but blacklights can be a little weird sometimes.
04/13/2011
Contributor: Checkmate Checkmate
Being a visual creature, I like to have some lighting. Not necessarily a spot light, but at least a candle or two.
04/13/2011
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
I prefer candle light.
04/13/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
candle light.
04/13/2011
Contributor: moonch1ld moonch1ld
I have a whole bunch of blacklights in my room hooked up to the main light switch so usually when it's night time I use those as they set a nice mood and aren't too bright or too dark.
04/13/2011
Contributor: sexygoddess sexygoddess
Usually off.. sometimes on. But I love candles
04/13/2011