Love making turning into a fuck?

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Love making turning into a fuck?

captainsgirl captainsgirl
I aks this because this happened with my husband and I tonight as it happens often in our sex life. Do you ever start out making love and end up fucking? (This is for all the people out there that find a difference in sex vs. fucking vs. love making)
04/11/2013
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Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
this is generally the case with my husband and i, it never seems to stay just love making it always turns into fucking
04/11/2013
js250 js250
Sometimes...depends on how the night goes.
04/12/2013
OFWife OFWife
Sometimes. Depends on our moods at the time.
04/12/2013
eri86 eri86
Sex is sex. I just consider love making to be tender and slow, and fucking to be less so
04/12/2013
married with children married with children
every night is love making. Some nights harder then others, but still love making.
04/12/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I always want to make love, but I end up turning it into hardcore porn style sex...he gets confused when I tell him I want him to make love to me, and then two minutes later I'm telling him to fuck me like a whore. It's not an issue for us, because he would rather fuck anyways...so it's all good
04/14/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
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Originally posted by SecretKinksters
I always want to make love, but I end up turning it into hardcore porn style sex...he gets confused when I tell him I want him to make love to me, and then two minutes later I'm telling him to fuck me like a whore. It's not an issue for us, ...
This is exactly what I mean..of course we are always love making, because we love each other. I always want it to start out slow and tender, but like you said then i'm like fuck me now because it feels so good.
04/15/2013
SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
I was pondering this for awhile after I saw this post. Honestly I think that the only time I ever made love was with an ex. Everyone else including my current partner it has always become hard fucking regardless of what our intentions were when we started.

My current boyfriend was a little put off by this at first, but we employ foreplay that is more often than not gentle and very loving rather than frenzied.

Both he and I had been wondering if this was normal, and it is a relief to see this thread. (his words btw)
04/15/2013
Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by SaucyxGirl
I was pondering this for awhile after I saw this post. Honestly I think that the only time I ever made love was with an ex. Everyone else including my current partner it has always become hard fucking regardless of what our intentions were when we ...
Most of the time we enjoy a nice amount of snuggling and foreplay, sometimes including oral for either or both of us. When we get down to actual PIV sex it mostly is also slower paced and controlled. There are times when she shows signs of REALLY getting in to it, as evidenced by her body language and vocalizations. That is usually my cue to ramp up my thrusting and get rougher.
If she is orgasming, sometimes she will take me over the edge with her, if not, she will orgasm again when I climax, can get pretty steamy at times.
08/19/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by captainsgirl
I aks this because this happened with my husband and I tonight as it happens often in our sex life. Do you ever start out making love and end up fucking? (This is for all the people out there that find a difference in sex vs. fucking vs. love making)
Sorry guys. I don't mean to be dense, but I honestly don't get the question, because I don't understand how you are defining a difference. Love making is my hubby and I enjoying each others bodies. It might be gentle spooning with tender kissing and caresses, and it may be me upside down and him pile-driving into my rear end as hard as he can (and me loving it..thank you). However, that is still "lovemaking" since we are both "into it" and "enjoying it" together. Fucking is, in my book, just a swear word and I don't understand the context of it here. Maybe I am just a bit slow, but please explain what you define as the difference?
08/26/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by SecretKinksters
I always want to make love, but I end up turning it into hardcore porn style sex...he gets confused when I tell him I want him to make love to me, and then two minutes later I'm telling him to fuck me like a whore. It's not an issue for us, ...
That is where I don't get it. If it is he and me and we are enjoying doing "hardcore porn style sex", that is still "lovemaking" to me. It is something we are doing to pleasure each other. We love each other. Isn't that the whole darned definition of "love making"?
08/26/2013
cmm cmm
It happens almost every time. We start out slow, but by the end we are a big sweaty mess.
08/27/2013
stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by Adnerbmw
this is generally the case with my husband and i, it never seems to stay just love making it always turns into fucking
if love is the feeling that you feel then anything that you are doing is MAKING LOVE
08/27/2013
stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by Bignuf
That is where I don't get it. If it is he and me and we are enjoying doing "hardcore porn style sex", that is still "lovemaking" to me. It is something we are doing to pleasure each other. We love each other. Isn't that ...
That is what I believe
08/27/2013
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