What are men's biggest insecurities during sex? - from Em and Lo

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That's the question we asked our Wise Guys on EMandLO.com this week, and what they told us made us feel better about the literally hundreds of letters we've received from women over the years regarding their orgasm (etc) insecurities. It turns out that men worry about how they look, how long they last, what size they are, who their partner last slept with, etc etc. So, in your experience, either as a man or as someone who sleeps with men, what do men tend to be most insecure about in bed?
03/01/2011
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Originally posted by Em & Lo
That's the question we asked our Wise Guys on EMandLO.com this week, and what they told us made us feel better about the literally hundreds of letters we've received from women over the years regarding their orgasm (etc) insecurities. It ... More
I am a married man. My biggest insecurity is how, and if ,I am pleasing my wife. Now, you have to understand, I am in my 40s. I more or less have grown out of the things in life that cannot be changed. I am average and by no means a porn star in size. But I do have one thing above many others, I want to please her more than what I get out of making love. I find more pleasure in that, more than anything else.
03/01/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I don't worry about pleasing my wife - after 21 years I've certainly figured that out. But being over 55 brings in the whole ED/PE set of issues. Cialis is actually a big help for both and I rarely have sex anymore without my trusty silicone cock ring.
03/01/2011
Yoda Yoda
I'd echo the things you mentioned in your intro, with an emphasis on performance and all the things it encompasses. I include in this the size and firmness of an erection, the length of love-making sessions, as well as the number and effectiveness of my wife's orgasms.
03/02/2011
liilii080 liilii080
My man worries about lasting long enough to get me off and he knows I'd like it more often. I try to reassure him when these things come up just as he reassures me when I have insecurities.
03/02/2011
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