I'm so surprised about the multiples, I thought it was a less common thing. I usually have one manually, with my husband being done once before AND after. If he's up for it, I've lost count before, with him doing it manually. Maybe 8 or so? This was pre-sex toy, so I may make an update soon, with a better count!!! I recently started acquiring toys in hopes of decreasing his frustration and increasing both of our pleasure!!!