Music and sex

Jammin14580 Jammin14580 12/09/2011

How does music work into the bedroom?

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Jammin14580 Jammin14580
Do you listen to music while having sex?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
We do
tA , geliebt , HannahPanda , punkstar283 , TiffyPixie , charmedtomeetyou , deltalima
7  (4%)
We don't
JessCee , SexyTabby , PassionateLover2 , Acorn , Cookie Monster Mike , Valentinka , Peggi , her angelness , unfulfilled , eggiweg , MeliPixie , Princess-Kayla ♥ , zwee75 , SilverMinxxx , BlooJay , Snozzberries , Zombirella , AJvil , Istanbull , Badass , Graniteal , Nazaress , Form 7 , oneeyedoctopus , wdanas , Incendiaire , ejrbrndps , MistressDandelion , Honeybee , HB042 , Terri69 , xOhxSoxScandalousx , sexxxkitten , J5ive , digit88 , Bignuf , Scrawberry78 , Nora , Anne , elrique , glasskitten , kristina0121
42  (25%)
Sometimes we do
Jammin14580 , Katelyn , Kissaki , xyrella , zensgirl10 , philly , ily , ellejay , Cherrylane , PunkyB , Drakoni , sexydelphia , SiNn , Mr. E , GONE! , toxie m , sktb0007 , SexyStuff , DesertIsland , DeliciousSurprise , ColorMeCute , whitknee , MaryExy , smashthepatriarchy , LoveDrunk , mpfm , married with children , eak59 , The Curious Couple , GroovyBanana , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , dv8 , potstickers , Shellz31 , jacki , padmeamidala , Daemonin , TameTemptress , Ciao. , Stagger13 , shySEXXaddict , leatherlover , blackbunny , Jon S , eroticmutt , Anjulie , mistre$$ , pfoof , eeep , bunnygrl , Blaryghh , Sapphires13 , Highmaintenancegirl916 , quinceykay , link82 , ninja250 , Stinkytofu10 , solita , switzerland , wetone123 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Bonesdance , kittycatgirl , TheHardOne , x203 , coconut1 , purple579 , RandomTasks , sunkissedJess , DeliciousDrip , A.Mari , In Between Soliloquies , comatose-kitty , roskat , dks210 , gloomybear , <3BF , Missmarc , Do emu , gypsymama , Sauceboss , mmmmm , PropertyOfPotter , Femme Mystique , redstars , FriskyInFlorida , Howells , giftdgecko , AshMegYo , amandaco2011 , Deeder , ksparkles16 , Bethy Cassatt , amazon , animepanda89 , Rawr4483 , LaSchwartz , hotcherry , MarilynMonroe , KRD , Zandrock , panthercat23 , kawigrl , Lavendar , heather-mooney , SparklyGlitter , Ganconagh , CaliGirl , Experiment , Mascara , Gdom , sjclayton2912 , SMichelle , Lucifer the Cat , Rey , brevado , XYCopperheadSly , Chefbriapink
118  (71%)
Total votes: 167
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JessCee JessCee
I'm kind of a weirdo... I don't like music on while I'm having sex. I feel kind of distracted with music on.
12/09/2011
philly philly
Sexy Dirty House Muzik!
12/09/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
It really depends on where we are having sex but usually in the bedroom no we don't.
12/09/2011
sexydelphia sexydelphia
Quote:
Originally posted by philly
Sexy Dirty House Muzik!
same!
12/09/2011
sexydelphia sexydelphia
anything that puts us in the mood
12/09/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Jammin14580
Do you listen to music while having sex?
We have often because we r always listening to music
12/09/2011
Acorn Acorn
We don't like to have music on. We always start laughing because the lyrics always seem out of place.
12/09/2011
tA tA
Sex without music, for me, feels.. somewhat more empty than if it did have it. Music can help set the emotional and physical mood, it can cover up noises that might embarrass one partner or the other, it can boost confidence and heighten moments...

Lyrics and instrumental tracks alike, I like it all.
12/10/2011
Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
Normally we won't go out of our way to get music going if we are already in the mood
12/10/2011
sktb0007 sktb0007
Sometimes.. well, actually it's rare but it has happened!
12/10/2011
whitknee whitknee
Quote:
Originally posted by Jammin14580
Do you listen to music while having sex?
Its my fav
12/11/2011
LoveDrunk LoveDrunk
It depends on the mood. It makes for a fun time.
12/11/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
We do sometimes, but not usually.
12/11/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
We never have.
12/16/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Jammin14580
Do you listen to music while having sex?
Sometimes we listen to music during sex.
12/16/2011
Daemonin Daemonin
If we have music on it's to cover the noise we make
12/16/2011
HannahPanda HannahPanda
I personally love music during!
12/16/2011
ijako9 ijako9
I never tried it but I think it could be fun
12/19/2011
shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by Jammin14580
Do you listen to music while having sex?
sometimes . certain music gets me horny,or makes me alil wilder!but im a big music fan and get alot of emotion from music.
12/27/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
We haven't, but I really want to sometime.
There are some songs that turn me on a lot, and I think it would just help the mood a lot.
12/27/2011
blackbunny blackbunny
At times we'll just have random sex and music will be on but I for one would really like to incoperate music with sex more often. For me, with the right playlist, it really sets the mood and can even lead to things you might not have tried before.
12/27/2011
Sublime Sublime
Sometimes, mostly when my roommate is home and doesn't want to hear the sounds of sex.
12/27/2011
bunnygrl bunnygrl
Usually we use it so other people who are home don't hear!
01/06/2012
Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
Sometimes it depends.
01/08/2012
Istanbull Istanbull
Just had this conversation yesterday with the wife... which didn't resolve an answer.
01/10/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Jammin14580
Do you listen to music while having sex?
Sometimes, when we remember to

Sometimes in the heat of the moment we kind of forget everything and focus on each other instead
01/10/2012
Graniteal Graniteal
We haven't, but I would love to try.
02/10/2012
Nazaress Nazaress
We haven't but that doesn't mean we don't want to. Or at least, I'd like to try. We just don't really listen to music that often.
02/10/2012
Incendiaire Incendiaire
I hooked up with a guy once who brought his own CD, and asked to play it while we slept together. Personally I'm not bothered about having music on.
03/19/2012
ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
we dont but just started a play list
03/20/2012
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
We do. It makes everything THAT much better !
04/09/2012
In Between Soliloquies In Between Soliloquies
We do if it's already playing.
04/09/2012
dks210 dks210
Sometimes, but usually not. Sometimes it helps me get into a good rhythm, he gets distracted by it.
04/09/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
It really depends on the mood
04/09/2012
gloomybear gloomybear
if the music is on b4 we have sex yes
04/10/2012
<3BF <3BF
Sometimes it's nice, but not too often.
04/10/2012
Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by Jammin14580
Do you listen to music while having sex?
If it's already on, we leave it on. If it's off, we don't make the effort to turn it on.
05/29/2012
Sauceboss Sauceboss
sometimes its fun but we dont normally.
05/31/2012
mmmmm mmmmm
Sometimes
05/31/2012
HB042 HB042
I love music, and paying attention to it... so no. I find it too distracting. A former lover once had his iTunes playing randomly during an encounter, and it shuffled to the Transformers theme... talk about having to recompose myself!
06/14/2012
Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
Something sexy and ambient sometimes, it helps us both shut out distracting thoughts about our lives (i.e. Did I feed the dog? I really need to finish that report).
06/14/2012
FriskyInFlorida FriskyInFlorida
generally no, but sometimes
06/16/2012
giftdgecko giftdgecko
Sometimes, room mates decide for us a lot of the time
06/16/2012
Terri69 Terri69
We never do
06/17/2012
Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
I really like it. My favorite music to use is massive attack and leandra.
06/17/2012
AshMegYo AshMegYo
very rarely.. when we move in with our friends (another couple) we will be playing music more often.
06/22/2012
amandaco2011 amandaco2011
Lots of times the music is because my SO has roommates.
06/22/2012
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
We don't
06/22/2012
Deeder Deeder
Every now and then. Most of the time it's to drown out the noise rather than enhance the mood.
06/23/2012
J5ive J5ive
nope
06/23/2012
digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by Jammin14580
Do you listen to music while having sex?
don't
07/01/2012
MarilynMonroe MarilynMonroe
Quote:
Originally posted by tA
Sex without music, for me, feels.. somewhat more empty than if it did have it. Music can help set the emotional and physical mood, it can cover up noises that might embarrass one partner or the other, it can boost confidence and heighten moments... ... More
^seconded
During sex I become less aware of the music. Afterwards, I become aware of the music again. To me this helps to solidify how good the sex was because it shows how caught up in the moment I was.
07/08/2012
KRD KRD
sometimes, but not really intentionally. We usually have music playing in the house so if it's on and we're doing it, then I guess we listen to it.
07/19/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
Sometimes. I still live at home so we always put something on to drown out the noise a little bit. More often then music it is just the t.v. though
07/19/2012
kawigrl kawigrl
sometimes we listen to music while doing it
07/19/2012
charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
We do...but as others have said it helps to ensure that our noise is muffled a bit!
07/27/2012
heather-mooney heather-mooney
only if someone else is in the house.
07/30/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Jammin14580
Do you listen to music while having sex?
It's a must!
07/31/2012
Experiment Experiment
It's a sound cover rather than a mood maker
08/01/2012
Mascara Mascara
Quote:
Originally posted by Experiment
It's a sound cover rather than a mood maker
yes sometimes
08/02/2012
elrique elrique
Quote:
Originally posted by JessCee
I'm kind of a weirdo... I don't like music on while I'm having sex. I feel kind of distracted with music on.
I dont think its wierd. I feel the same way. And there is nothing sexy to me about Marvin Gaye or Barry manilow.
09/01/2012
Total posts: 62
Unique posters: 61
Jammin14580 Jammin14580
Would you try having sex while matching the your rhythm with that of the music?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I have already had sex to the rhythm of our background music
Drakoni , SiNn , toxie m , sktb0007 , xyrella , SexyStuff , The Curious Couple , geliebt , dv8 , potstickers , punkstar283 , eroticmutt , mistre$$ , pfoof , eeep , bunnygrl , Blaryghh , Stinkytofu10 , solita , Badass , wetone123 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Bonesdance , kittycatgirl , purple579 , RandomTasks , roskat , dks210 , Do emu , BlooJay , redstars , Howells , giftdgecko , Deeder , ksparkles16 , Bethy Cassatt , panthercat23 , kawigrl , deltalima , KRD , Gdom , SMichelle , Chefbriapink , kristina0121
44  (46%)
I would like to try
Jammin14580 , ellejay , Cherrylane , Chul , PunkyB , tA , MaryExy , eak59 , GroovyBanana , her angelness , Daemonin , ily , Jon S , Anjulie , ninja250 , Graniteal , TheHardOne , wdanas , coconut1 , Incendiaire , Highmaintenancegirl916 , quinceykay , Missmarc , sexxxkitten , J5ive , digit88 , Lavendar , brevado
28  (29%)
I would not like to try (or, music does not work for me/us in the bedroom)
married with children , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Shellz31 , unfulfilled , TameTemptress , Ciao. , leatherlover , Princess-Kayla ♥ , zwee75 , Zombirella , switzerland , oneeyedoctopus , MistressDandelion , comatose-kitty , SilverMinxxx , xOhxSoxScandalousx , amazon , LaSchwartz , MarilynMonroe , Form 7 , Nora , sjclayton2912 , heather-mooney
23  (24%)
Total votes: 95
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SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Jammin14580
Would you try having sex while matching the your rhythm with that of the music?
Hard rock and good rap
12/09/2011
toxie m toxie m
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
Hard rock and good rap
Yes!
12/10/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
We sometimes listen to some background music, and we always try to match the beat when we do.
12/11/2011
her angelness her angelness
i want to try so badly but we're usually too much in a hurry to turn on music.
12/12/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I don't see how that could work for us so I chose that answer. the only time I've used music was for a strip tease and that was it.
12/16/2011
MeliPixie MeliPixie
This happens to me by accident, and for some reason, I hate it. ^^;;
12/16/2011
Daemonin Daemonin
I want to try, but I think we would end up forgetting and doing out own thing.
12/16/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I have no rhythm at all. And anything I'd want to listen to would be way too fast paced for us to try to have sex to.
12/27/2011
bunnygrl bunnygrl
Quote:
Originally posted by Jammin14580
Would you try having sex while matching the your rhythm with that of the music?
If the music is on it usually happens involuntarily! lol
01/06/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
When we listen to music with a steady beat, yes I try to match movements to the rhythm
01/10/2012
purple579 purple579
It's not like it's that difficult. My bf is all about music so he loves doing this
03/20/2012
Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
yes i would like 2,we usally just have random music the other times.
03/20/2012
In Between Soliloquies In Between Soliloquies
It kind of depends on the song and the point we're at. That can be distracting, especiaally for a complx song that changes tempo, so generally we don't even bother.
04/09/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
I'm not really a sex and music kind of person.
04/09/2012
dks210 dks210
I like it occasionally, but he gets too distracted by it. :/
04/09/2012
Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by Jammin14580
Would you try having sex while matching the your rhythm with that of the music?
Sometimes it works, sometimes the beat doesn't match our mood. Like if it were a power metal song and we were in a slow mood, or a ballad when we want it rough.
05/29/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
I've tried it before...depends on the music.
06/12/2012
giftdgecko giftdgecko
If it's a song with a distinctive beat it just kinda happens sometimes.
06/16/2012
sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I would try if I really liked the song.
06/22/2012
Deeder Deeder
Yes, but it usually happens almost accidentally. I won't try to do it, I'll just end up matching tempos. (Comes from being in band back in high school.)
06/23/2012
J5ive J5ive
sounds like fun
06/23/2012
digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by Jammin14580
Would you try having sex while matching the your rhythm with that of the music?
maybe
07/01/2012
kawigrl kawigrl
it just happens
07/19/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Jammin14580
Would you try having sex while matching the your rhythm with that of the music?
We usually sync up with the rhythm.
07/31/2012
heather-mooney heather-mooney
seems awkward.
08/03/2012
Total posts: 26
Unique posters: 26
Jammin14580 Jammin14580
What is the best music for sex?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Country
Howells
1
Metal
geliebt , mistre$$ , switzerland , eeep , MistressDandelion , redstars , Deeder , J5ive , LaSchwartz
9
Classic Rock
Jammin14580 , Drakoni , SiNn , mistre$$ , wetone123 , RandomTasks , quinceykay , Do emu , Deeder , J5ive
10
Reggae
punkstar283 , mistre$$ , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , deltalima
4
Barry White
Jammin14580 , PassionateLover2 , Badass , wetone123 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast
5
Jazz
Jammin14580 , Chul , PassionateLover2 , xyrella , leatherlover , mistre$$ , bunnygrl , Blaryghh , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , amazon , LaSchwartz , kawigrl , deltalima , brevado
14
Electronica
Chul , Drakoni , her angelness , geliebt , leatherlover , mistre$$ , bunnygrl , Blaryghh , Stinkytofu10 , solita , eeep , Badass , Graniteal , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , RandomTasks , ejrbrndps , giftdgecko , amazon , brevado
19
Dubstep
Drakoni , geliebt , eroticmutt , solita , eeep , Badass , Graniteal , quinceykay , giftdgecko , amazon , brevado
11
Other
ellejay , Cherrylane , Chul , PunkyB , Drakoni , SiNn , PassionateLover2 , tA , sktb0007 , SexyStuff , DeliciousSurprise , MaryExy , eak59 , GroovyBanana , her angelness , geliebt , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , dv8 , potstickers , Shellz31 , unfulfilled , Daemonin , TameTemptress , ily , Princess-Kayla ♥ , Jon S , mistre$$ , pfoof , bunnygrl , Blaryghh , ninja250 , switzerland , eeep , Badass , wetone123 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , oneeyedoctopus , Bonesdance , kittycatgirl , wdanas , Incendiaire , purple579 , Highmaintenancegirl916 , RandomTasks , MistressDandelion , ejrbrndps , comatose-kitty , roskat , dks210 , Missmarc , Do emu , BlooJay , xOhxSoxScandalousx , Deeder , sexxxkitten , panthercat23 , Lavendar , deltalima , KRD , Gdom , heather-mooney , brevado , kristina0121
63
No music
Chul , married with children , switzerland , RandomTasks , MistressDandelion , SilverMinxxx , gypsymama , Scrawberry78 , Nora , sjclayton2912 , kristina0121
11
Total votes: 147 (85 voters)
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Chul Chul
Haven't had sex yet, but I sometimes masturbate to music, and well, for me it's up to my tastes, but most of the music I listen to is for a certain mood or makes me feel a certain way. Basically, most of the music I listen to is very rhythmic or atmospheric. That also means listening more to the music itself rather than words. Words can often be distracting.

I can't accomplish that sort of sensuality of music from, say, country or rap, because while they have their own personalities, they just don't strum through me, as so to speak. On the surface they have beats, but they just don't have sounds that really penetrate through the soul for me.

For me, my favorites will always be techno, electronica, fushion, classical, jazz, and most music that is instrumental. I also love foreign music. I also like a variations that sort of combine all of the above together. So, very spacey, atmospheric, and fantastical music. It's my favorite to listen to as well as just listen to during masturbating.
12/09/2011
tA tA
I'm of the mind that different types of music suit different moods. Sometimes things like Iamx are good for slow, sultry sessions, where sometimes things filled with raw power like the song "This Is War" is great if you want to get down and dirty and rough with it. It really depends on the mood.
12/10/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
R&B is pretty good
12/11/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
Quote:
Originally posted by tA
I'm of the mind that different types of music suit different moods. Sometimes things like Iamx are good for slow, sultry sessions, where sometimes things filled with raw power like the song "This Is War" is great if you want to get down ... More
This is my view of it. Generally, I prefer music that has a lot of energy to it, which matches my dislike of slow, gentle sex.
12/11/2011
her angelness her angelness
electronica and r&b sound pretty hot.
12/15/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I think it would depend on personal preference and what got a specific person in the mood.
12/16/2011
Daemonin Daemonin
I don't remember ever having sex to electronica, but now I really really want to!
12/16/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I think I'd like to do it to heavy rock, or something really fast like that.
12/27/2011
bunnygrl bunnygrl
Sometimes playing a random playlist or your whole collection on shuffle can cause spontaneous laughter, which is soon muffled and forgotten due to distraction
01/06/2012
ninja250 ninja250
Want to try electronica now
01/09/2012
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
If I were to have sex to music I'd probably put on my tango playlist.
02/12/2012
Bonesdance Bonesdance
Music can be nice, but it can also be a distraction.
02/12/2012
purple579 purple579
Hip hop and rap not an option?!?! but thats def what I listen to
03/20/2012
Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
hip hop&r&b.
03/20/2012
In Between Soliloquies In Between Soliloquies
Depends. I don't so much care about the genre as I do about the content, because listening to someone sing about war and revolution affects me differently than listening to someone talk about things they do in the bathroom of a grungy club, y'know? I tend to be in my head too much, so I try to avoid bangin' to music that will distract me.
04/09/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
No music for me. Too distracting.
04/09/2012
dks210 dks210
It really depends on my mood. Sometimes chill music, sometimes faster stuff.
04/09/2012
gypsymama gypsymama
Love music to get me in the mood and also during sex.... R&B and Hip Hop are my go to genre, but also love reggae!!
05/29/2012
giftdgecko giftdgecko
Something with good bass
06/16/2012
xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
Quote:
Originally posted by SilverMinxxx
No music for me. Too distracting.
Same. I think RnB or Soul music would get me in the mood though.
06/17/2012
Deeder Deeder
Most of the time we'll stick to Metallica and 80's hair bands (or what I affectionately refer to as "stripper music").
06/23/2012
J5ive J5ive
maybe to rock
06/23/2012
amazon amazon
Depends on what we're up to. Sometimes hard, sometimes soft, sometimes nothing
06/24/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
Whatever your favourite genre is. To me it is just about having nice music while you have sex. Not about picking romantic or beat inspiring music.
07/19/2012
panthercat23 panthercat23
We tend to use something romantic if we listen to music during sex. Or if it is not "genera music" then we listen to relaxing sound effects like the ocean waves or crackling fire.
07/19/2012
kawigrl kawigrl
r&b hiphop jazz
07/19/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Jammin14580
What is the best music for sex?
R&B is the top. I like how Barry White is a genre ha ha.
07/31/2012
heather-mooney heather-mooney
R KELLY DUH
08/03/2012
brevado brevado
Sometimes we put some on, or already have it on
09/01/2012
Total posts: 30
Unique posters: 30