Nudity with your significant other, good or bad?

Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Ansley
I'm proud of my body and I adore looking at and touching his. It's just one more thing we do to show each other how comfortable we truly our in the relationship and with each other. I think it's a glorious thing to do as a couple and it ... more
Indeed it is what she is saying, but the WAY she said it sounds...really unhealthy. The "VIOLENT" comment implies a BIT too much drama and negative connotation. Just not someone I would want to be married to, for sure.
10/25/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Petite Valentine
Ah, my "commonly said" referred only to Dombasle's "he won't buy me lunch" comment. It sounds almost insane in English, the way, "it costs an arm and a leg" would sound very strange translated to ... more
Mr. Bignuf responding. WE are of French origin. Like first generation American. 90% of relatives still in France and I go there on business sometimes. We lived for a while in Southern France, and I can tell you, there is almost zero difference between French and American woman when it comes to affairs of the heart OR bed...EXCEPT, in France, woman expect a compliment about looks, whatever, on the JOB. Same thing that would get you dragged into HR in the USA, for harassment. In France, a woman will be angry if you DON'T comment on her dress or new hairdo!!!???

Also, the FRENCH are more comfortable with NUDE..beaches, TV shows, plays..etc, but I honestly think they are a bit more UPTIGHT in the actual act of lovemaking, from what other guys say. Go figure???
10/25/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by UnknownGirl
We're naked pretty much every waking hour that we're home and our sex is still hot as hell. We've been together for 10 years and I don't think it's ever been ordinary.
Heck, after 32 years, nude or not, sex is still great, as you say, but even HEAVILY clothed (she was wearing a FLANNEL long robe this weekend...it was COLD), all she had to do was lift a leg on the couch (I was in the ottoman, opposite her..as we watched TV. Next to her was the DOG, so I had no room)...and BINGO, she knew all it would take was that one little FLASH to say "come play, big guy". and she was right!!!!
10/25/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I've never thought about this! We are nude in front of each other showering, sex, changing clothes, and sometimes on laundry day. I don't feel like it is less special at that level, but I suppose constant nudity would desensitize a person.
01/12/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
My wife's confidence fluctuates a lot with her self-image. Sometimes she's very confident and other times she hates to be naked in front of me.
01/12/2012
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
We're naked as often as temperature permits, and we aren't desensitized. You could use that logic to have sex less often, and nobody wants that!
01/12/2012
Contributor: ninja250 ninja250
We have to limit it due to children, but are comfortable being nude around each other.
01/12/2012
Contributor: NaughtyMommy NaughtyMommy
I love looking at him and touching him but because his mother lives with as well as our 2 yr old daughter we cant really be naked beause she has a habbit of getting in bed with us in the early hours during the mornings so we get naked when we have the house to our selves for the weekend.
01/12/2012
Contributor: GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
I love being naked around my boyfriend. I've demanded that once we move into our own apartment, unless we're expecting company, he is to be naked or in only his underwear at all times.
Since I'm never having kids, I don't foresee the constant nudity or near-nudity to be an issue ever.
01/12/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
We are comfortable being naked around each other but I'm more often than not the one who is naked in front of him. He likes to show me off at play parties and at home in our play room when we have like minded friends over. It hasn't really taken away any of the specialness of being naked in front of him though, he still gets distracted when my bra comes off haha.
01/12/2012
Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
It seems our naked days have come to an end with the little one in the world! We are comfortable naked around each other, though. Before baby we did spend time naked a lot, though. It never became "ordinary."
01/12/2012
Contributor: SilverIsis SilverIsis
I always love seeing my lover nude. My lover doesn't seem to have a preference since he says that for him undressing each other is foreplay for him but likes to fondle my nude form to show his interest as well. What I don't get is all the statements of "the nudity stopped when we had kids". When I grew up may parents had no qualms about me and my siblings seeing them naked and honestly I think that is part of why I don't have body issues now.
01/12/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
We're very comfortable with each others' bodies.
04/07/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
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Originally posted by GonetoLovehoney
I love being naked around my boyfriend. I've demanded that once we move into our own apartment, unless we're expecting company, he is to be naked or in only his underwear at all times.
Since I'm never having kids, I don't foresee ... more
Same here! I've told mmy guy the same exact thing. I love being naked or just wearing lingerie. I prefer him to be naked or in his boxers whenever possible. When we get our own place, we're investing in a doorbell/door chain because his family loves to stop by unexpectedly and let themselves in.
04/07/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
my boyfriend loves seeing me naked and i am proud of my body
04/10/2012
Contributor: <3BF <3BF
we have no problem getting naked together, we aren't nudist but taking off clothes and being naked has never been an issue or become mundane.
04/10/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
We love sleeping naked. That is our special time. And we have occasional naked days. It's nice
04/10/2012
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
My wife said she feels weird walking around naked but she has done it from time to time. I think it's sexy
04/12/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
oh god I'm naked all the time, it's how i'm most comfortable, he's a lot more modest, this is an interesting thought though.
04/12/2012
Contributor: reinkaos reinkaos
SHe isn't happy with her appearance so she doesn't walk around nude often, but I love it, I do walk around nude a lot lol
05/08/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
It's never been ordinary for us. Looking at each other naked is a blessing that we both cherish.
05/08/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by Petite Valentine
A few days ago when the subject of our being naked (other than during sex) came up, my husband told me, "being naked is becoming ordinary, it's no longer special," which he considers a bad thing. My opinion is that I'm comfortable ... more
We are comfortable being naked. I wish he would be naked more! I don't like these relationship games. Just do what you want, be who you are, find someone who loves that.
05/08/2012
Contributor: joja joja
I don't consciously limit how often we see each other naked. I don't need any more little things to worry about in my life.
05/08/2012
Contributor: Tork48309 Tork48309
Sad that her crazy horse days influenced the natural state of the human being and that nudity is natural and not sexual. I feel that a relationship has taken on a new level if you can be nude without being aroused.
05/08/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
I have no problem being naked in front of her.

She covers herself when she walks to the bathroom to shower after sex.
05/09/2012
Contributor: Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
I'm pretty uncomfortable with my body, and there's other people in the house, so usually it's reserved to sex and sleeping.
05/10/2012
Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
We're naked in front of each other a lot of the time. It's comfortable, and I feel safe with him. I think it goes back to trust - I'm able to be with him without any barriers between us. I love being naked with him. If anything, that makes it more special.
07/23/2012
Contributor: peachfuz peachfuz
We get naked in the sheets but dont walk around the house naked.
07/24/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I love being casually naked, and seeing my lovers that way. I don't feel like it makes sex any less special or interesting, in fact it encourages us to be happy with our bodies and even more comfortable in bed.
07/24/2012
Contributor: naturegirl naturegirl
My husband & I are both naturists, nudity is not merely a state we get into for sex, it'd almost a way of life!
11/27/2012