Penis piercing and sex/blow jobs.

ArmyWife Kira ArmyWife Kira
So my husband and I have discussed him getting a piercing many times. He wanted an Apadravya but I felt uneasy about the whole piercing through the head thing plus the healing time was WAAAAY too long for us. So my husband has went away for some Army training and we started talking about the piercing again. I did some research and found the frenum piercing. (This refers to shaft skin piercing at right angles to shaft immediately underneath the head of the penis. A ring or barbell can be employed in this piercing.) So he has plans to go get this piercing. He is going to get a barbell. So now to my question....

I am curious to know from anyone who HAS this or has been with someone with this piercing....how does it affect things? Can you feel it moving around during sex? Is it painful with aggressive thrusting? Is a blow job any different for the man with this piercing? How is condom use with it?
11/19/2009
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Quote:
Originally posted by ArmyWife Kira
So my husband and I have discussed him getting a piercing many times. He wanted an Apadravya but I felt uneasy about the whole piercing through the head thing plus the healing time was WAAAAY too long for us. So my husband has went away for some Army ... More
Actually I can give you two perspectives here. I had a partner that had the frenum piercing done, and it made no difference for me when we had sex, I did not notice it when giving him head and using a condom was the exact same as without, we never had any problems with it tearing. I think you may feel this one more if he was not wearing a condom since with a condom it is restrained more and held closer to his shaft(which we always used a condom) I cant give you any perspective on how this felt for him, since this was years ago.

My current BF has a Reverse Prince Albert which the head of his penis is pierced it actually goes in his urethra and out the top of his head. This piercing does tend to make me gag a little more than normal when giving him head. Condom use is the same, no problems with tearing etc... I can feel his piercing when we have sex, sometimes it feels good, and sometimes I make him take it out, just depends on how horny I am when we get going. BTW both these piercings were/are with a barbell. My BF said the first year he had this done, it did make his head more sensitive when he had sex, but he's had it done now for 10yrs so not so much anymore!! Hope this helped, any more questions ask away!!!!!
11/21/2009
ArmyWife Kira ArmyWife Kira
Thanks for your info!! He actually went and had it done today. He's away from home till December but I am super excited about it. He says he wants more already. I don't know how I feel about that, lol!
11/22/2009
pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by ArmyWife Kira
So my husband and I have discussed him getting a piercing many times. He wanted an Apadravya but I felt uneasy about the whole piercing through the head thing plus the healing time was WAAAAY too long for us. So my husband has went away for some Army ... More
My husband is pierced. It looks hot. I do play with it during oral. However I am very sensitive and I can feel it rub on my insides (imagine your fingernail across your roof of your mouth)So my hubby is nice and takes it out. We do have a lot of sex though and it does not always come out or always bother me. But like I said the look is a definate turn on to me. My husband loves watching me play with it with my tongue.
11/25/2010
wrock wrock
Quote:
Originally posted by ArmyWife Kira
So my husband and I have discussed him getting a piercing many times. He wanted an Apadravya but I felt uneasy about the whole piercing through the head thing plus the healing time was WAAAAY too long for us. So my husband has went away for some Army ... More
I have this piercing myself. I did it myself too. I have had it for about 12 years now. I am gaged down too 2 and currently wear a captive bead ring in it.

The first 2 weeks are going to be interesting to say the least. The first few days its going to hurt not alot but everything you do will cause some kind of pain sitting standing walking driving it will hurt. After that you going to have mix of pain and pleasure that can be awesome sometimes.

After this time you have less pain and more pleasure. I wouldnt use it with a condom your asking for issues with breakage imo. For me it feels awesome and anyone I have been with has found it very enjoyable as well never any issues with aggressive thrusting. I have never used it for anal and I do take it off sometimes for oral as my wife cant take me too deep with it in and I love when she is able to swallows the whole thing and I dont want her to chip a tooth on it so far so good.
01/03/2011
Michelle Menace Michelle Menace
I've never had sex with a guy that had this piercing done... i often wonder how much different it would feel having sex..
01/28/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by pinkzombie
My husband is pierced. It looks hot. I do play with it during oral. However I am very sensitive and I can feel it rub on my insides (imagine your fingernail across your roof of your mouth)So my hubby is nice and takes it out. We do have a lot of sex ... More
Thats very sweet that he takes it out for your pleasure
01/28/2011
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