Here are a series of surveys regarding penis size and satisfaction. Some are more directed at males, and some are more directed to those attracted to males. Please only answer the ones that "apply" to you. :)
The Penis Size and Satisfaction Survey
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Discussion Topics
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What erect penis length is ADEQUATE (that is, what's enough, not what's preferable/ideal) for an enjoyable sexual experience?
(63 posts)
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What erect penis length is PREFERABLE (that is, not what's sufficient/adequate, but what is the ideal) for the best sexual experience?
(28 posts)
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To the half inch, how big is your erect penis? To measure, press ruler against pelvic bone above penis and read off length. Voting is, of course, private.
(14 posts)
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How big (as best you can recall) was the biggest erect penis you've "been with"?
(32 posts)
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What's more important: length or girth? Think of a regular sized penis, and ask yourself which would be a more satisfying "improvement".
(31 posts)
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Partners of what erect penis size, in general, perform better overall?
(30 posts)
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How "girthy" are you? To measure, while erect wrap a string (or something similar) around the middle portion of the shaft and measure.
(8 posts)
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Oh, I just assumed most women can't discriminate penis size with that kind of accuracy lol. Do you ask them a lot, or they tell you, or you measure?
Originally posted by
bodymodboy
I would have preferred the multiple options for voting, because I like 5 1/2 is enjoyable. So, I would have liked to put both 5 and 6, to get a range for between.
05/21/2009
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Oh crap. I guess there are also toys that girls use huh, and most probably know those sizes. And this is a toy site lol
Originally posted by
bodymodboy
I would have preferred the multiple options for voting, because I like 5 1/2 is enjoyable. So, I would have liked to put both 5 and 6, to get a range for between.
Yeah my bad, sorry!
05/21/2009
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Hehe I find your bluntness very endearing. ;D
Originally posted by
bodymodboy
I'm a dude.
Ah, the intricacies of "gender" and sexual orientation. While I don't want to speak for other people, I'm sure no offense was intended by the poster... o_O;
Reading profiles is always a good idea... and screennames for that matter, hahaha. But, alas, this is one way to get to know one another, eh? Afterall, knowledge is a good thing!
06/13/2009
ajm4u
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Guys, size is moot if you have the technique down, bottom line!
Originally posted by
bodymodboy
I would have preferred the multiple options for voting, because I like 5 1/2 is enjoyable. So, I would have liked to put both 5 and 6, to get a range for between.
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03/13/2011
I almost went with 5" long because that's average and indeed enough, but since I get such pleasure from cervical orgasms (aka the X-orgasm) my partner's extra couple of inches in length make things intensely amazing for me! I guess you could say his was truly meant to fit mine! Lol. He has a curve there (I forget what that's called) but it makes it to where it hits my g-spot during just regular sex! That and the perfect length is great for me. I wouldn't want it any different. Any longer and part of his penis would be left out since it would be too long to fit! Lol. On some days, it won't fit all the way in.
Average is usually enough for most women and somewhere between average and a little over average can be absolutely perfect.
Average is usually enough for most women and somewhere between average and a little over average can be absolutely perfect.
Feb 19, 7:19 pm
it all depends i think. i have really only been with guys with bigger sizes (7-9) so i think maybe thats all i know, but i enjoy that. mycurrent boyfriend is in the 8 - 8 1/2 range, and it wors perfectly well for me. also i do beleive its not size that matters (to a point) its how you use it.
Apr 27, 1:01 pm
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3.5" is the smallest I can get any satisfaction from. And yes I have been with men that are less than that erect....not trying to be judgmental, but it was unfortunate for me because they were great people otherwise. Ideal is 5-5.5". My ex-fiance was almost 7 and that was a bit much for me, like it worked but never as well as my current partner. Once you've past the 4 inch mark girth is all that matters. I like to use the muscles that god gave me and if he isn't big enough to push on them to begin with then pushing back is useless.
Originally posted by
Nickisonehere
"Enjoyable" is vague, agreed. But do your best lol
This is a cool discussion hope you find what you are looking for
Apr 30, 1:11 am
My cervix only hits 6 inches, but I like the fullness feeling. I voted 7 inches and am lucky enough that my husband matches my ideal. I think anything beyond 7.5 would really hurt when thrusting really hard. It still hurts when being taken anally, but after having that fullness feeling its pretty difficult to go back to anything less
May 10, 6:12 pm
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I always figured not having a cervix would make for less pain! I hate when mine gets poked too hard, damn it.
Originally posted by
Tuesday
I checked 6 inches as the ideal. When I still had a cervix I might have preferred bigger, but now I prefer a guy to be a size where we can be rough without worrying about causing pain.
05/27/2009
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Indeed, nothing like a hard cock straight to the cervix! *wince*
Originally posted by
Carrie Ann
I always figured not having a cervix would make for less pain! I hate when mine gets poked too hard, damn it.
For me anything between 6 and 7 inches is ideal. My current boyfriend is closer to 7 for sure, though I've never "officially" measured him. There are definitely some positions that I just can't handle when he's super erect, due to him excitedly pummelling into my unappreciative cervix. Although, I have to admit when not caught in the moment of cervical discomfort, the whole situation is pretty funny. He gets so excited when he goes that deep that I kind of try to put up with it for a few moments, hahaha. I just hate the painful sensation ever so slightly more than I love the erotically endearing expression on his sexy face.
It's his fabulous girth that really rocks my socks off, (though the length is nothing to complain about either, even if my cervix sometimes thinks so). But I must admit, I'm happy enough with 5 inches, if the thickness is there.
06/13/2009
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i think too long is wastefull
Originally posted by
Nickisonehere
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ...
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ...
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis size. You can choose one of them. Which do you choose?
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis size. You can choose one of them. Which do you choose?
09/10/2010
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About 6 inches is my preference...anything larger hurts for me and leaves him in the cold!
Originally posted by
Nickisonehere
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ...
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ...
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis size. You can choose one of them. Which do you choose?
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis size. You can choose one of them. Which do you choose?
12/08/2010
I chose 6, but 6 to 7 is ideal. My boyfriend and I recently measured, and I think he was closer to 7. But it also depends on the day and how hard he is
With a size between 6 and 7, I don't worry too much about hitting my cervix and causing that awful pain. I just have to deal with girth hurting/irritating my labia if I'm not revved up physically for quick-sex. super annoying.
With a size between 6 and 7, I don't worry too much about hitting my cervix and causing that awful pain. I just have to deal with girth hurting/irritating my labia if I'm not revved up physically for quick-sex. super annoying.
01/23/2011
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I guess I'm just too used to my 9 inch man now, we have broke up a year ago for awhile, and nothing could compare
Originally posted by
Nickisonehere
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ...
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ...
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis size. You can choose one of them. Which do you choose?
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis size. You can choose one of them. Which do you choose?
01/28/2011
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i enjoy bigger
Originally posted by
Nickisonehere
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ...
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ...
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis size. You can choose one of them. Which do you choose?
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis size. You can choose one of them. Which do you choose?
10/04/2011
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9 or more for sure
Originally posted by
Nickisonehere
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ...
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis ...
Now, there are lots of other things that matter aside from size. No one disagrees.
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis size. You can choose one of them. Which do you choose?
The question is like this.
Suppose you had 100 guys lined up and they all looked exactly the same and were exactly alike in all respects EXCEPT penis size. You can choose one of them. Which do you choose?
10/04/2011
5 inches is great. 5 - 6 inches is a good range for my body. And slender. Girth is FAR more important for me than length, and by that I mean I really can't (and don't want to) take something too thick.
I actually prefer being penetrated shallowly; my g-spot is pretty shallow and the entrance to my vagina is far more important to stimulate than deep inside. Also, I don't usually like being hit in the cervix. XD Usually.
I actually prefer being penetrated shallowly; my g-spot is pretty shallow and the entrance to my vagina is far more important to stimulate than deep inside. Also, I don't usually like being hit in the cervix. XD Usually.
Apr 30, 3:15 pm
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ud328
I used to be so worried about this that I didn't even want to know how less than average I was so never measured. Then I got really confident in my skills in bed and a girlfriend convinced me to let her measure me. Imagine my surprise when I found out I was bigger than average! But like I said, I'm not really concerned with that anymore.
08/07/2011
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My Man is by far the biggest I've ever been with. Somewhere between 8.5 and 9 inches, depending on how turned on he is. He was also my first, (then we had an Open Relationship, and I was a little amazed at what other guys looked like) so I am used to a well endowed man. I can't get my little hand all the way around it, but I have small hands.
I was teasing him a few months ago, and told him I had measured him and his size and he said, "Is that all?" when I told him the average is about 6 in, he didn't believe me. He obviously hasn't seen a lot of other erect guys and doesn't believe he's that big.
I was teasing him a few months ago, and told him I had measured him and his size and he said, "Is that all?" when I told him the average is about 6 in, he didn't believe me. He obviously hasn't seen a lot of other erect guys and doesn't believe he's that big.
08/21/2010
My husband is the only man I've been with, and he's about 9 - 9.5 inches. Generally good, since he understands that he has to take it slow to prevent pain. He is fully aware that he is larger than average, and thankfully doesn't wish he was any bigger (if he was, he just might kill me someday).
12/10/2010
I was once with a man that was 8.5-9" and really rather thick. It wasn't the best of experiences, because he was so big it kinda just felt like pressure on the pelvic/pubic bones and then he said I was "too tight and that's why he couldn't last that long."
Which was just rude. -sigh- I felt like our positioning and everything was limited because it was too big and thick. :/
Which was just rude. -sigh- I felt like our positioning and everything was limited because it was too big and thick. :/
01/23/2011
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Originally posted by
Nickisonehere
I imagine this is a difficult one, given that you probably haven't measured every guy lol. Try your best
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11/10/2011
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For me having a few male partners in the past I have to say girth is the most important (at least 5.5" around). But, his cock has to be at least 5.5" long to fully stimulate my prostate.
The first guy I was with had an impressive 8.5" long by 6" round cock...it was beautiful and huge, but he always wanted to bury it in me and it by-passed my prostate and often went way too deep. The best male lover I was with had 6" and 6.25" around and had a good upwards curve to his cock. The girth filled me up and the length was perfect to pound my prostate...although he had the added benefit of being very flexible and could suck my dick as he fucked me while I was laying on my back
The first guy I was with had an impressive 8.5" long by 6" round cock...it was beautiful and huge, but he always wanted to bury it in me and it by-passed my prostate and often went way too deep. The best male lover I was with had 6" and 6.25" around and had a good upwards curve to his cock. The girth filled me up and the length was perfect to pound my prostate...although he had the added benefit of being very flexible and could suck my dick as he fucked me while I was laying on my back
06/18/2009
I had a guy once whose girth was unbelievable. When I put my hand around it, there were a couple of inches between my thumb and my fingers where they didn't meet. After I got home later I put my hand around my arm to try to figure out what his measurement was, and I figure diameter was about 2.5 to 3 inches. I'm not joking!!! I wasn't sure if I could even take it. He seemed to be expecting my reaction and told me, laughingly, he'd never had a girl that couldn't take it. I've always been very tight so he had to work it in REAL slow, but he finally got it in fully.
07/02/2009
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They are both important to me. I know this is probably mean and shallow but I was dating a guy once and we started to mess around, I put my hand in his pants and OMG thin! I broke up with him two days later and nothing further came of that situation. I don't like monster thick, I tend to get thin toys but I like an actual penis to be 4-5.5 inches in girth. I'm weird my toys are below what I want in a man's actual penis. All I know is I'm happy with my fiance and sometimes it still even hurts a little. But I need atleast 5 in length.
Originally posted by
Nickisonehere
Now, of course a
Feb 23, 1:23 am
Girth!!! Thats important. It is only 3 1/2 inches till you reach a womans cervix so anything past that is a waste. It can be 10 inches long and as big around as a pencil it wont get you anywhere. You cant row a yacht with a canoa oar. You will get nowhere. That being said I love a girthy guy.
Feb 24, 10:37 pm
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You would think so, but from my observation, bigger men tend to be more into doing all they can to please you. I'm not sure why. At least that's my experience. And I said 'tend to' not 'always.' There are plenty of exceptions.
Originally posted by
Naughty Student
I don't think having a particular kind of penis whatever its size makes one a better performer, I think it has more to do with whether the person knows how to use it and his personality.
Another thing I've noticed is that the better a man cooks, the better he is in bed. Maybe its all about attention to detail.
05/21/2009
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I agree. I don't think penis size determines performance. Steph is not big, mostly average, but ze knows what to do to get my rocks off.
Originally posted by
Naughty Student
I don't think having a particular kind of penis whatever its size makes one a better performer, I think it has more to do with whether the person knows how to use it and his personality.
05/22/2009
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Yeah, while it's true that SOME guys with big dicks feel they don't need to perform (same with SOME really good looking guys), most of the guys who were good in bed either had experience and/or were open to communication. Their penis size had little to do with it.
Originally posted by
bodymodboy
I agree. I don't think penis size determines performance. Steph is not big, mostly average, but ze knows what to do to get my rocks off.
05/22/2009
Yeah, size is not the issue for me, I want a guy who knows how to use what he has. Visually a larger penis, over six inches, looks v. erotic but if he doesn't use it for my satisfaction what's the use?
I have been with "performers" that were so totally shallow!
Also, I am a girl who does enjoy girth....
I have been with "performers" that were so totally shallow!
Also, I am a girl who does enjoy girth....
05/22/2009
"Visually a larger penis, over six inches, looks v. erotic but if he doesn't use it for my satisfaction what's the use?" - Liz2
This is so true!
The best advantage, I think, to having a longer penis is being able to have sex in the spooning position. This is not possible with a shorter length penis.
However, in the missionary position or doggie position, I have found I like a shorter length better so that you can get the "slapping effect" going on without fear for your cervix!
This is so true!
The best advantage, I think, to having a longer penis is being able to have sex in the spooning position. This is not possible with a shorter length penis.
However, in the missionary position or doggie position, I have found I like a shorter length better so that you can get the "slapping effect" going on without fear for your cervix!
08/30/2010
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Yeah I think you are right, Naughty Student...the particular person, just has to know how to use it. It can be any size...well maybe not any size, lol.
Originally posted by
Naughty Student
I don't think having a particular kind of penis whatever its size makes one a better performer, I think it has more to do with whether the person knows how to use it and his personality.
01/28/2011
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That's kind of what I was thinking, but littler man, I mean how much can they really do??
Originally posted by
Tuesday
You would think so, but from my observation, bigger men tend to be more into doing all they can to please you. I'm not sure why. At least that's my experience. And I said 'tend to' not 'always.' There are plenty of exceptions.
Another ...
Another ...
You would think so, but from my observation, bigger men tend to be more into doing all they can to please you. I'm not sure why. At least that's my experience. And I said 'tend to' not 'always.' There are plenty of exceptions.
Another thing I've noticed is that the better a man cooks, the better he is in bed. Maybe its all about attention to detail.
Another thing I've noticed is that the better a man cooks, the better he is in bed. Maybe its all about attention to detail.
01/28/2011
It's a bit sad, because I actually strongly prefer the "feel" of a smaller guy, but I'm voting for "average-sized" on this one. This is only because the smaller guys that I've been with (4" or less) felt great to me but they had such major issues with insecurity that they never believed my encouragement, and it ended up ruining our sex life.
I honestly think the best guy is the one who's confident in what he's got and knows how to wield it well.
I honestly think the best guy is the one who's confident in what he's got and knows how to wield it well.
02/06/2011
To #6, i didn't answer because none of those statements reflect my experience. For me, size has basically in now way affected performance on a generalizable level. Some smaller guys were totally horrible, some performed extremely well and enthusiastically, perhaps in an effort to make up for their smaller size. "Average" sized guys are all over the map for every reason imaginable. Larger guys were also totally mixed but for basically opposite reasons as the small guys. Even if they had a glorious 8 incher, it meant nothing when they didn't know how to use it or didn't bother to put effort into using it well. In a couple cases, the guys seemed to think that being big was good enough. Tip, it's not. You can still suck at sex even if you have a big dick.
So yeah. It depends on the guy, not the penis.
So yeah. It depends on the guy, not the penis.
10/29/2011
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"You can still suck at sex even if you have a big dick." Preach!
Originally posted by
Cherrylane
To #6, i didn't answer because none of those statements reflect my experience. For me, size has basically in now way affected performance on a generalizable level. Some smaller guys were totally horrible, some performed extremely well and
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To #6, i didn't answer because none of those statements reflect my experience. For me, size has basically in now way affected performance on a generalizable level. Some smaller guys were totally horrible, some performed extremely well and enthusiastically, perhaps in an effort to make up for their smaller size. "Average" sized guys are all over the map for every reason imaginable. Larger guys were also totally mixed but for basically opposite reasons as the small guys. Even if they had a glorious 8 incher, it meant nothing when they didn't know how to use it or didn't bother to put effort into using it well. In a couple cases, the guys seemed to think that being big was good enough. Tip, it's not. You can still suck at sex even if you have a big dick.
So yeah. It depends on the guy, not the penis.
So yeah. It depends on the guy, not the penis.
Those words are so damn true, and most people (guys specifically) seem to overlook it. If they are insecure about their size (average or less) they sometimes don't realize this and think "Bigger dick = Obviously perfect in bed, and they can make all the ladies get off every time just because they are so huge, and that is all ladies like anyway" (wrong!). And if they DO have a big dick, they think that's all they need and are often smug about it, and are blind to the fact that they don't get you off every time.
It's kind of silly.
10/29/2011
honestly i think it all depends if the guy knows how to use it some men can have small cocks and be great in bed, some guys can have huge cocks and be great in bed. some guys can have big cocks and suck in bed and hurt you and not know how to use it, and some guys with small dicks can suck in bed and not get you off. so it all matters on if the guy knows how to work it.
11/10/2011
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