How many of you prefer the freedom to have sex with more than one person

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How many of you prefer the freedom to have sex with more than one person

Trillian Trillian
whether you are in a open relationship, dating around, etc.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
18  (22%)
No, I am a one man/one woman person
46  (55%)
I wish I could but my partner is not open to it
7  (8%)
I could at some point but not now
7  (8%)
It's complicated, other
5  (6%)
Total votes: 83
Poll is closed
07/29/2011
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js250 js250
Never been a 'traveler', I prefer the security of one person and the ability to feel safe enough to open up my wild side. I am not comfortable with toys,etc. with new people. Also in a ltr for 14 years, but previously to the relationship is what I was talking about.
07/29/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
I definatley am a one-man woman!
07/29/2011
Crichton Crichton
At this point it's only a fantasy and one that might never happen. I like to think I have a good separation of sex and emotions, but I don't. Even with permission from my boyfriend I couldn't do it. I wouldn't feel right.

Maybe if I was with someone else, but I like what I've got now and don't want extras.
07/29/2011
toxie m toxie m
In the future my boyfriend and I plan to bring other people in for 3somes or even partner swapping but at the moment we are very happy being solely with each other.
07/29/2011
Ansley Ansley
I don't enjoy having to keep the emotions and needs of two people fulfilled, one is more than enough!
07/30/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
Even with my guy being long distance, I don't feel the desire to go have sex with anyone else. That's what I'm building my collection of toys for
07/30/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm very loyal and when I truly fall for someone, I only desire and want them! But at the same time, I would like to try a threesome. Just not sure if I would prefer one of them to be a loved one or with someone I'm just very good friends with.
07/30/2011
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Shellz31
I'm very loyal and when I truly fall for someone, I only desire and want them! But at the same time, I would like to try a threesome. Just not sure if I would prefer one of them to be a loved one or with someone I'm just very good friends with.
Eh, pick two complete strangers or mere aquaintances. I think that's how I would have preferred it, given the chance to do it all over again.
07/30/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
whether you are in a open relationship, dating around, etc.
Even before marriage, I did not want the complications..emotion ally and time wise, of more then one relationship at a time. Plus, there is no way to completely connect with one person, if you are seeing more then one, and I value that "deeper then a friend" connection.
07/30/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
I definatley am a one-man woman!
BINGO...well said.
07/30/2011
indiglo indiglo
I prefer being monogamous. I'm a one-man kind of woman too.
07/30/2011
catgirl9 catgirl9
Sex is far too intimate for me; I only want my husband. He satisfies me completely and I could not imagine being with anyone else.
07/30/2011
thebest thebest
Not for me
07/30/2011
Sir Sir
I don't prefer it, per se. I just don't feel that a person that I am with has a right to tell me who I am allowed to and not allowed to sleep with. That said, I do not like to sleep with people other than someone that I am with. But if I were to choose to, they would have no say in it. I find that to be pretentious and unattractive.
07/30/2011
Kdlips Kdlips
will love to
07/30/2011
lanky lanky
ones enough for me
07/30/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee is definitely the only person I want to sleep with!
07/30/2011
Pixel Pixel
I'm poly, so have the luxury of having more than one lover at once. At the moment I have two partners I'm dating, as well as a few play partners that I have either a non-sexual or mostly non sexual relationship with. So long as everyone knows that I'm dating others and the levels of intimacy involved, I'm not limited as to whom I date/play with/whatever.
07/31/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
I like it when I am not in serious relationship. But if I am serious with someone, I don't want to be with anyone else.
07/31/2011
Rossie Rossie
Sounds like fun, but I prefer to have a sexual relationship with my significant other only.
08/01/2011
married with children married with children
never thought about it, happy with my wife.
08/02/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
one man/one woman person
08/02/2011
Mister CreamySweet Mister CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
whether you are in a open relationship, dating around, etc.
We have been married for 14 years - together for almost 16. Our rules are very simple and mutual. We have a closed marriage but sexually open relationship. Meaning we don't date or have emotional bonding with anyone but each other - but either can have sex with other people provided that the other spouse agrees on the who, when and what. If either says no then that's the final answer without argument or further discussion. We agree to never have sex with anyone without the other being consulted first, or if for some reason the chance of a lifetime (For her Brad Pitt - for him Angelina Jolie) happens, immediate full disclosure as soon as its done. Has worked great and I think it has given us more freedom, more trust and more mutual respect and by far dropped the level of suspicion and worry about cheating that a lot of other folks suffer through. I would say that cheating is rare but we know several couples who are close to us that have experienced it directly and see others participating in it on a regular basis so to truly believe that would be hiding my head in the sand or still believing in the tooth fairy.
10/07/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
whether you are in a open relationship, dating around, etc.
Not now.
11/04/2011
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Trillian
whether you are in a open relationship, dating around, etc.
when i'm single i sleep around alot... until i happen to end up in a serious relationship. it tends to happen pretty quickly but in the interim i get my fill. i don't seek it out i swear! it just happens. both the casual encounters and the serious relationships.


in a relationship i'm all for him-he's all for me.
11/04/2011
dayne dayne
my husband is all I need....
11/04/2011
Bigkc Bigkc
most of the time i like one man one woman, but then again me and partner like to try new things
11/05/2011
GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
I've always had open relationships, even before I knew what one was. My sex drive and demand just seems to be too much for most guys. I am,however, emotionally monogamous. I just have needs most guys can't give me at once.
11/05/2011
K101 K101
No, absolutely not. First of all, I don't have the desire to sleep anyone besides my partner and second, I wouldn't have ever committed to him if I planned on wanting to sleep around.
11/05/2011
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