I get it, it's hot, but is it that hot? I get the excitement in the danger but there's no WOW factor to me!
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Public Sex?
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Do you care for public sex?
(100 posts)
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When we were young and crazy, we did it a few times....but while "public" it was totally discreet (no one would have ever known what was going on under HUGE winter coats as we "hugged" outside, or under a nice THICK blanket at a concert, or in the water off our little raft, in a lake, not really too near anyone.
Originally posted by
briluminary
What do you think?
Now, however, we would not find that "thrill" there and indeed, the out in the open public sex thing is a huge turn off if we see it or hear about it.
08/20/2011
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We really enjoy it and do it a lot. That said you have to use some common sense when doing it. If you really want to be "Caught" or watched then go to a swingers house party and just do it in a room but leave the door cracked and shortly someone will take a peek. Or just do it in front of the crowd there if your feeling brave. Most people who have never been to a swing part so they really know what goes on. In 95% plus cases its nothing close to a mass orgy. Its couples and maybe a few singles wandering about and doing the crap we all do at normal parties. Eventually someone will go get naked and people may or may not watch. Its a good place to feel comfortable because most of the folks there are non judgemental and respectful of you. And your 100% safe from getting in trouble if you get "caught" cause thats what people are there for. The magic word is always a polite simple "no" if someone asks to join you if you dont want that. Most parties require couples to wear condoms to have sex even if its a husband and wife just with each other and always if its anyone other then who you came to the party with. As far as actually.doing it in public - go someplace remote and keep easy to put on clothes near by. Or stay inn your vehicle and again use common sense where you park. Don't go places families with kids might be - period. Bars are also most often not super pissed if you have a quicki in their bathroom or casual not obvious play in a dark booth. People will know without you making it obvious - just dont be super dumb and get on the bar rail. Night clubs and bars are also good because by nature they are kid free and most of the folks are drunk and horny or there to get laid themselves - or dance and flirt. Industrial areas also work at night or on weekends when most are closed from normal business. Golf courses at night in a sand trap pr on the green, rivers along the far trail (whatever trail is so long and remote people dont often take ot) also work well. Have fun - be careful - use some common sense and you can have a great and thrilling time!
Originally posted by
briluminary
What do you think?
10/19/2011
Yes and No, I mean I love kising and hugging all of my man in public and I think it would be a major turn on to have public sex, But then the thought that you could get caught and be fined is soooo not worth it, and the fact that little kids could see you. There is already enough badstuff going around that kids are doing, I don't think public sex whould help there chocies any.
10/19/2011
I love the idea of public sex, it turns me on (and makes me nervous) to think about other people watching me. I have done some stuff in public ares and the chance of getting caught scared me to death, but also turned me on. To be honest I think I was much more scared of the idea of getting caught after I did it... In the moment I didnt care, lol. Reckless I know, but it is what it is.
10/19/2011
For me it used to be a thrill but it was a phase we grew out of both out of need and responsibilities. We have kids now and explaining to them Mommy and Daddy were arrested for having sex in the park they play at --- NO THANK YOU! We've already had our share of loving on the beaches, sex in the woods, too public of displays and cops. I'm still very much a fan of outdoor sex but it's restricted to our own property and privacy. It was actually taken into consideration when we bought such a large property in the middle of nowhere.
11/01/2011
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