Depends. There was one time where we were at a party at my parents' house and I was wearing a skirt. After having him goose me and and my brushing up against him subtly all day we waited for everyone to go to the backyard and headed upstairs to the bathroom for a full on animal quickie. He only pulled my underwear to the side and bent me over. It is one of my most memorable encounters with my husband. So, yeah, sometimes it is very hot!