Sexual Intercourse or Cunnilingus?

PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
I like to advance the assumption that men will 'never' refuse having a woman perform Fellatio on them. But I would like to reverse the idea. If a woman only had ONE choice to choose for her pleasure, would you like the man to perform Cunnilingus or have Sexual Intercourse?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Cunnilingus
CreamySweet , Sammi , cec578 , Cherrylane , irishlove , GO , icyqueen , dirtythoughts:) , Kate , XYCopperheadSly , PassionateLover2 , Eugler , NovaLights , ViVix , wicked48
15  (22%)
Sexual Intercourse
aliceinthehole , Antipova , padmeamidala , l'amour , AndroAngel , idunshire , ellejay , - Kira - , Taylor , switzerland , aimtoplease , wetone123 , mizzmilla , Girly Girl , Kitka , Theaadrian , Ryuson , The Curious Couple , JessCee , sktb0007 , Bignuf , El-Jaro , socceras , toxie m , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , mpfm , SMichelle , SexyStuff , Shellz31 , Gracie , Kaltir , potstickers , xoxo , richsam , NarcissisticLust , Lildrummrgurl7 , CoffeeCup , Noelle , AliMc , Sima-pusya , icelandia , FunFantasys , Martiniman , SourAppleMartini , Toy Fiend , Pete's Princess , TJtheMadHatter , Checkmate , SecretKinksters , Cosmonaut , twelve13 , Pierced Blaqk Skies , sophia430 , bettyboom
54  (78%)
Total votes: 69
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11/28/2011
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Bonesdance Bonesdance
I'm sure my wife would say "it depends." If she's really horny and craves an orgasm, cunnilingus would definitely be the way to go. If she's more in the mood for being romantic and close, then she'd probably choose intercourse even though intercourse alone won't make her come.

And how is this question at all analogous to your assertion that guys won't turn down blowjobs? That may be true, but it doesn't mean that they would choose them over intercourse - I know I wouldn't!
11/28/2011
Antipova Antipova
My g-spot is lots more fun than my clit!
11/28/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionateLover2
I like to advance the assumption that men will 'never' refuse having a woman perform Fellatio on them. But I would like to reverse the idea. If a woman only had ONE choice to choose for her pleasure, would you like the man to perform ... More
sexual intercourse
11/28/2011
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Bonesdance
I'm sure my wife would say "it depends." If she's really horny and craves an orgasm, cunnilingus would definitely be the way to go. If she's more in the mood for being romantic and close, then she'd probably choose ... More
Your point is well taken and I may well agree with you. From what I have read, there seems to be a view that, what can I say, a deeper connection is made in the relationship and that the closeness you speak of is also applicable. Just as a woman may swallow the man's cum, likewise, the man will honor, worship, and savior the woman's fluids in all its splender in the name of that deeper bond. She is revealing herself to him, letting go, yielding to him in the most intimate way.

It was my intention that NO third choice be offered; I wanted to force that choice to weigh that inner voice.
11/28/2011
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
My g-spot is lots more fun than my clit!
You may be right. However, with cunnilingus, you can still have it both ways. The mouth and tongue is not the only parts at work. I still have my fingers.
11/28/2011
- Kira - - Kira -
I don't like oral. I'm weird like that. So sex for me!
11/28/2011
Taylor Taylor
I don't really enjoy oral all that much. I definitely wouldn't pick it over sex.
11/28/2011
switzerland switzerland
even though i can't orgasm from sex alone, i don't think i would ever be able to give it up. i love that connection and closeness.
11/28/2011
mizzmilla mizzmilla
Quote:
Originally posted by switzerland
even though i can't orgasm from sex alone, i don't think i would ever be able to give it up. i love that connection and closeness.
I'm the same way.
11/28/2011
Girly Girl Girly Girl
what´s cunnilingus
11/28/2011
cec578 cec578
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionateLover2
I like to advance the assumption that men will 'never' refuse having a woman perform Fellatio on them. But I would like to reverse the idea. If a woman only had ONE choice to choose for her pleasure, would you like the man to perform ... More
i love sex, but can't get off with penetration alone. I have to use a vibe of some sort during sex or have oral. if oral means a guareneed orgasm that's what I'm picking
11/28/2011
Kitka Kitka
I've only ever had one or two guys give me oral properly without hurting my over sensitive clitoris so I'd rather have sex lol.
11/28/2011
wetone123 wetone123
Of course, I'd never turn down cunnilingus! It's just too good! Like you said tongue and fingers do the walking!
11/28/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
Oral is nice, but the intimacy of intercourse can't be beat!
11/28/2011
Cherrylane Cherrylane
Depends on the day haha.

I chose cunnilingus anyway. My guy is awesome at it and although I doubt I could ever actually give up sex just for that, I DID act like a stereotypical douchey guy on my last birthday and had him eat me out without having sex after or returning the favor lol. It was good and I was tired and it was my birthday! heh.. He understood. Bless him.
11/28/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I love both so much, but I'd rather have sex with my fiance.
11/28/2011
JessCee JessCee
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
I don't like oral. I'm weird like that. So sex for me!
I'll second this
11/28/2011
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Girly Girl
what´s cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is an age-old practice dating back as early as 300 BC which is the practice of oral stimulation of the females genitals. When people who enjoy oral sex, enjoy it purely for the sensation and that both partners are active. The woman who receives cunnilingus is just as much a participant and entirely up to her in the act as the person who is doing the licking. There is nothing that compares to the warm, wet feeling of a lover’s mouth caressing your most sensitive (clitoris) and private parts. The intimacy and sexual closeness that cunnilingus provides is incredibly arousing for many people. When you're with a new lover, going down on her can provide a rush of erotic intimacy that is a very powerful aphrodisiac. Some people also view it as an appetizer to the main course. Having a skilled and knowledgable lover, who knows female anatomy and how women like to be licked, is a circumstance that many women dream about. The softness of a pair of lips, the heat of a mouth, and the slick feeling of a tongue sliding around and over the vulva is a sensation like no other. The feel of a lover’s mouth on a woman’s genitals offers sensations that fingers, sex toys, and penises simply can’t provide.

There is an excellent book by Violet Blue titled, “The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus” 2nd edition, How to go down on a woman and give her exquisite pleasure.
11/29/2011
socceras socceras
sex is amazing oral hardly does anything for me
11/29/2011
toxie m toxie m
Receiving oral is fun, but it rarely gets me off and is a bit stressful, really. I end up thinking too much and I take a long time at the best of times and then I get a bit guilty-feeling, even though I know I shouldn't.

With intercourse, I get the penetration I really enjoy and my orgasm is in my own hands (literally) so I get off faster AND feel no guilt since I know he's enjoying everything just as much as I am.
11/29/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
I like sex that leaves bruises, or at least is suitably rough. Intercourse all the way, with oral your mouth just gets in the way.

If it had been between intercourse and fingering (with no oral addition), it might have been a closer race.

All I can compare the thought of nothing but oral to is eternity in perdition.
11/29/2011
lost686girl lost686girl
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionateLover2
I like to advance the assumption that men will 'never' refuse having a woman perform Fellatio on them. But I would like to reverse the idea. If a woman only had ONE choice to choose for her pleasure, would you like the man to perform ... More
it's something you really can't do on your own
12/09/2011
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Girly Girl
what´s cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is an age-old practice dating back as early as 300 BC which is the practice of oral stimulation of the females genitals. When people who enjoy oral sex, enjoy it purely for the sensation and that both partners are active. The woman who receives cunnilingus is just as much a participant and entirely up to her in the act as the person who is doing the licking. There is nothing that compares to the warm, wet feeling of a lover’s mouth caressing your most sensitive (clitoris) and private parts. The intimacy and sexual closeness that cunnilingus provides is incredibly arousing for many people. When you're with a new lover, going down on her can provide a rush of erotic intimacy that is a very powerful aphrodisiac. Some people also view it as an appetizer to the main course. Having a skilled and knowledgable lover, who knows female anatomy and how women like to be licked, is a circumstance that many women dream about. The softness of a pair of lips, the heat of a mouth, and the slick feeling of a tongue sliding around and over the vulva is a sensation like no other. The feel of a lover’s mouth on a woman’s genitals offers sensations that fingers, sex toys, and penises simply can’t provide.

There is an excellent book by Violet Blue titled, “The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus” 2nd edition, How to go down on a woman and give her exquisite pleasure.
01/22/2012
richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionateLover2
I like to advance the assumption that men will 'never' refuse having a woman perform Fellatio on them. But I would like to reverse the idea. If a woman only had ONE choice to choose for her pleasure, would you like the man to perform ... More
Sexual Intercourse
03/12/2012
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionateLover2
I like to advance the assumption that men will 'never' refuse having a woman perform Fellatio on them. But I would like to reverse the idea. If a woman only had ONE choice to choose for her pleasure, would you like the man to perform ... More
I like oral because it's intimate and my partner really enjoys giving, but I find sex more pleasurable.
03/12/2012
GO GO
BOTH
03/12/2012
satinlady550 satinlady550
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionateLover2
I like to advance the assumption that men will 'never' refuse having a woman perform Fellatio on them. But I would like to reverse the idea. If a woman only had ONE choice to choose for her pleasure, would you like the man to perform ... More
Intercourse
08/12/2012
Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
While I orgasm from oral sex much easier and more frequently, I'd definitely choose intercourse over oral.
08/17/2012
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by GO
BOTH
You certainly have a wonderful answer, but thanks for casting your vote for cunnilingus!!!! I love to perform cunnilingus on a woman; it is such a turn-on for me as the giver in order to please the woman and see her come!!!
08/18/2012
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