sexual past

libbyv libbyv
Does the number of sex partners in your past embarrass you? Or do you wish you had experienced more partners before settling down?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I'm a little embarrassed by the number of partners I've had
9  (16%)
I wish I had slept around a little more before settling down
7  (12%)
I'm fine with my past
36  (62%)
other
6  (10%)
Total votes: 58
Poll is closed
05/21/2013
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SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I'm very comfortable with my past. Plus, it's called the past for a reason, nothing to stress over...you can't change it.
05/21/2013
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
Does the number of sex partners in your past embarrass you? Or do you wish you had experienced more partners before settling down?
Fine with mine..and its the past. History has its place. Nothing to worry about.
05/21/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
There have been moments where I wish I could have experienced more, but I'm not upset about it.
05/21/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
I'm fine with mine. I may have made a few mistakes, but not ashamed of it overall.
05/21/2013
Chilipepper Chilipepper
I still prefer to have had more experience, but I wouldn't share that I've had the experience. I just wanted to bring something to my relationship/marriage with C instead of still needing to be educated.

I'm 35 ... I should know more ...
05/21/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretKinksters
I'm very comfortable with my past. Plus, it's called the past for a reason, nothing to stress over...you can't change it.
Same here, I'm very comfortable with my past though wish I had been more open to try new things back then as I do now.
05/21/2013
The Vixen The Vixen
I'm pretty ok with my past. I'm sure there's one or two people I didn't really need to be involved with, but I'm not embarrassed about what I've done.
05/21/2013
dancingduo dancingduo
I too am fine with it. It is what it is. If you start thinking you wish you had been with more people you will be very discontent in your marriage.
05/21/2013
married with children married with children
happy with how I have lived my life, no regrets.
05/21/2013
wicked48 wicked48
No regrets about the past.
05/21/2013
konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
Does the number of sex partners in your past embarrass you? Or do you wish you had experienced more partners before settling down?
I am just fine with my past...
05/21/2013
snowminx snowminx
I'm not really that much embarrassed by the number but that I had a couple one night things that I thought would lead to at least a couple times (one was even in a relationship where he stopped talking to me after). Just wish I could go back and been more in tune with myself and not have been such a push over.
05/21/2013
xgreatlovex xgreatlovex
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
Does the number of sex partners in your past embarrass you? Or do you wish you had experienced more partners before settling down?
it doesnt embarrass me I feel its modest, and i do feel I had my fill. The problem is my man has had less and he feels differently
05/22/2013
spiced spiced
I'm cool with my past. There are a few things I'd do differently, if I had the chance again, but overall, I feel I struck just the right balance between selective and opportunistic.
05/22/2013
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I've only had sex with one person and I'm fine with it.
05/22/2013
bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
Does the number of sex partners in your past embarrass you? Or do you wish you had experienced more partners before settling down?
I'm bothered by the number of partners I've had only when people try to shame me about it.
05/22/2013
Ciao. Ciao.
I've only had penetrative sex with a single partner, and I don't really regret that, though I wouldn't have minded having more partners. My partner has had a handful, but not tons. Don't think it's a big deal either way.
05/22/2013
CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
I chose "Other" because my number of partners has increased a lot since I've "settled down" and gotten married. We have lots of FMF threesomes.
05/22/2013
shnsmth6 shnsmth6
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Originally posted by libbyv
Does the number of sex partners in your past embarrass you? Or do you wish you had experienced more partners before settling down?
a few more would have been fun
05/22/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I've had my share - no regrets and its not something that I talk about.
05/22/2013
mandaj mandaj
I've not had many. But there some I wish I could go back ands maybe do lol jk
05/22/2013
Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
Ive only had sex with one man and thats my husband. i have been with a few girls and i am ok with that.
05/22/2013
Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
I haven't been with very many people, I'm not ashamed of my past.
05/22/2013
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I'm fine with my number. And hubby gets all turned on when I tell him about my old war stories, so nothing to regret for me.
05/23/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I'm fine with my number. It's just when I'm asked my number in a large group or people are saying "Oh, I've only been with two people in my whole life", that I withhold information. People tend to make a big deal about it. I only share it with people I know won't judge me or go on about how few people they've been with.

I've had people cut into a conversation, just to say how few people they've been with. I've actually had to say, "The conversation is about one night stands. Obviously you've never had one, so you can sit down and be quiet, now. Thanks."

Edit: I can be a bitch, at times.
05/23/2013
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I'm fine with my number, but I am poly, so settling down is a relative term for me.
05/23/2013
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
Does the number of sex partners in your past embarrass you? Or do you wish you had experienced more partners before settling down?
I'd unf*ck a few. LOL. It's really not about the numbers though...more about the guys (no, I don't regret any females that I've messed around with).
05/23/2013
Experiment Experiment
Quote:
Originally posted by libbyv
Does the number of sex partners in your past embarrass you? Or do you wish you had experienced more partners before settling down?
I clicked other. I honestly wish I'd slept around a bit more...except that I haven't settled down yet. So I still have time! Lol
05/25/2013
Clock Chime Clock Chime
Good with it.
05/30/2013
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