Do you think of your significant other while masterbating?

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Do you think of your significant other while masterbating?

Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
So I'm curious if anyone else is like me in this area... Every single time I masturbate when I'm alone, I can't get myself off unless I am thinking of my husband. I have tried many different visualizations in my head while I'm doing it, even tried thinking of others but it turned me off more than anything. The only thing that I can seem to make myself cum to is the thought of seeing my husband laying in front of me masturbating for me. I love watching him. Is it weird that I'm like this? Or does it just mean that I'm completely satisfied with my husband? Am I the only one who thinks of their partner every time they masturbate?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am female and...
31
I am male and...
10
Yes I think of my partner every time.
9
I think of my partner sometimes but not every time.
24
I don't ever think of my partner.
7
Other... Please explain...
1
Total votes: 82 (42 voters)
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02/14/2012
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Illusional Illusional
I usually do, especially when we're apart.
He's pretty open to my fantasies so I can put him in there, pretty consistently.
02/14/2012
spiceboy spiceboy
It's rare that I think about anyone in particular. I usually just focus on the sensations or throw on some porn.
02/14/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I use to focus on the porn - but now it's all about my girl. Sometimes I'm doing things to her that we don't do in real life - but it's still all about her.
02/14/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by Brandi Rouxxx
So I'm curious if anyone else is like me in this area... Every single time I masturbate when I'm alone, I can't get myself off unless I am thinking of my husband. I have tried many different visualizations in my head while I'm doing ...
If I think of someone, yes I think of my fiance. I don't know if this is weird but sometimes you just get in the mood and concentrate on the orgasm and what you are doing and not really of a person.....atleast I do sometimes.
02/14/2012
PDXlady PDXlady
It depends for me. Sometimes I think about my partner sometimes I think about someone else although I don't think it's ever been about someone I actually know.
02/14/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Brandi Rouxxx
So I'm curious if anyone else is like me in this area... Every single time I masturbate when I'm alone, I can't get myself off unless I am thinking of my husband. I have tried many different visualizations in my head while I'm doing ...
I usually think of her if I think of anyone
02/14/2012
Eliyahu Eliyahu
I usually think of my wife, especially if I'm fiddling with my p-spot!
02/14/2012
El-Jaro El-Jaro
Ex's are fair game in the spank bank.
02/14/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Brandi Rouxxx
So I'm curious if anyone else is like me in this area... Every single time I masturbate when I'm alone, I can't get myself off unless I am thinking of my husband. I have tried many different visualizations in my head while I'm doing ...
I don't think of the same guy every time, but I'm not married either!
02/14/2012
HouseWench HouseWench
yes, but he's the only guy who's ever gotten me off so thoroughly
02/14/2012
Graniteal Graniteal
sometimes but not always.
02/14/2012
CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Brandi Rouxxx
So I'm curious if anyone else is like me in this area... Every single time I masturbate when I'm alone, I can't get myself off unless I am thinking of my husband. I have tried many different visualizations in my head while I'm doing ...
Sometimes I think of my husband... Sometimes I think of past sexual partners... sometimes I think of the ones I have in addition to my husband and sometimes all of the above.
02/14/2012
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Ex's are fair game in the spank bank.
LMAO... You crack me up JR! I don't think of any of my exes! I hope he doesn't either!! Lol
02/15/2012
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
And it looks like I'll be masturbating again tonight... YAY self love!! Lol
02/15/2012
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I have only thought about my boyfriend a couple of times while masturbating. I very rarely construct personal fantasies. I watch porn and read erotic stories much more often.
02/15/2012
KaraSutra KaraSutra
My husband on most cases, but when that wont do: Ryan Reynolds, Robert Downey Jr, Kate Beckinsale, Frank Mir or Dan Hardy.
02/15/2012
Beck Beck
Quote:
Originally posted by spiceboy
It's rare that I think about anyone in particular. I usually just focus on the sensations or throw on some porn.
Same here.
02/15/2012
El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by KaraSutra
My husband on most cases, but when that wont do: Ryan Reynolds, Robert Downey Jr, Kate Beckinsale, Frank Mir or Dan Hardy.
At first I read "Burt Reynolds"
02/15/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Always.
02/15/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
always does it everytime
06/20/2012
Total posts: 21
Unique posters: 18