sleep sex, ever been told you've done it and not remember?

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sleep sex, ever been told you've done it and not remember?

iceman681 iceman681
Well i just had an experience last night both me and my wife wake up in the middle of it all. i don't remember how it started she says the same. and just so you know we were both sober and fast asleep. im also talking not first thing in the morning. i mean pitch black, 2-3 hours before the alarm goes off.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
i done it, finised and never woke.
8
been woke up many times from my partner (love it)
15
been woke up many times from my partner (hate it)
3
iv'e woken my partner up
13
iv'e woken myself up (masterbation)
6
wish it would happen to me
10
i need my sleep
23
Total votes: 78 (56 voters)
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09/15/2010
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Lavender*Moon Lavender*Moon
We've had that happen. Eventually, we figured we must have rubbed up against eachother just right and our bodies just took over. It was really strange.
09/15/2010
Rockin' Rockin'
My partner has exhibited sleep sex behavior, and there is more information on the subject in this thread. I am glad that it can be a positive experience for some people, and I'm glad your poll options also give a voice to people who do not enjoy it.
09/16/2010
Alicia Alicia
It has happened to us. We never finish in our sleep though, we wake up some time around the fingering/hand job and wake up to sleepily finish. It usually happens for us if we've been horny but have been too busy/tired to do anything about it and then go to sleep naked. Our bodies just take over and handle it themselves basically!

I've told one of my friends about it and she doesn't believe it. She thinks that my husband is waking up and starting it and just saying that he's sleeping, but I know my husband better than that. If he's horny but I'm sleeping he'll either handle it himself or wait. He wouldn't consciously start something with me.

Out of all the times that it's happened there has only been once that I have rejected his advances. I think it was like an hour after I had fallen asleep and he was touching me and I woke up but was wayyyy too tired and just wanted to sleep. I said "nooooo" and rolled away from him. He ended up just continuing to sleep and had no recollection of it in the morning.
09/20/2010
Lady Venus Lady Venus
This has happened to us many times! And same thing, we both don't remember how or who started it! LOL Ive also woken myself up my masturbation, I think I wake up when I'm about to orgasm honestly.

There's actually a term for this, I was just reading an article about it if I can find the link, i will post it
09/20/2010
sweet sally sweet sally
My man wakes me up, accidently most of the time. He tends to masturbate in his sleep, never to a finish, but strokes it. I'm a light sleeper so, sometimes it will wake me and I'll take over for him. He eventually wakes up. He said one night "I thought I was dreaming", lol. I said, "you were". I just happen to notice.

I've asked if it makes him mad that I wake him. He says he loves it. The way I figure, he woke me up, so he might as well be awake too.
09/20/2010
PassionQT PassionQT
Once I'm out, I don't want to be bothered. A couple of times I've found my man with his hand on my crotch and he didn't even even remember doing it!
09/20/2010
Shellz31 Shellz31
It's never happened to me.
12/14/2010
CynicallyYours CynicallyYours
it's happened a few times both ways, kinda weird at first but fun!
12/14/2010
Midway through Midway through
Never happened to me.
12/14/2010
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
There have been time were we've had sex in the middle of the night and then the next morning I think it was just a dream.
12/14/2010
Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
I have definitely done this. Generally in combination with large quantities of alcohol.

I have also rambled on nonsensically while doing so. When I was told what I said I had to laugh. (It related to Twilight. I am definitely not a big Twilight fan though you wouldn't know it from what I said.)
12/15/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
never. and i wouldnt want to. its just as dangerous as sleep walking. heard of ppl falling asleep in their bed and waking up in someone elses. scary thought not remembering. and a lot of ppl have been accused of rape because of this. its a sleeping disorder and potencially dengerous.
12/27/2010
Taylor Taylor
I haven't done this and I'm glad I don't. I could see this leading to some bad situations or unsafe circumstances. For example I can't imagine you would remember to use a condom during sleep sex.
12/27/2010
Illumin8 Illumin8
We've never had this happen to us yet. We've laughed about the possibility of it happening sooner or later, though!
09/09/2011
- Kira - - Kira -
My husband used to have sex with me while I was asleep pretty often (with my permission of course) and I apparently orgasmed and didn't wake up. The next morning I would feel like I had sex though, so I could almost always tell it happened the next day. All I recall is having vivid sexual dreams those nights, but I only actually woke up two or three times. I'm a deep sleeper. I actually got pregnant this way. We had been trying with no luck and I was exhausted and said "tonight is the need to have sex night, so just wait until I fall asleep and finish." Worked like a charm.

He says he can't do this anymore though because if he goes to touch me now I start twitching and flailing. I take different sleeping pills now, so maybe that's why?

I don't think it's ever happened when we BOTH were asleep though and anytime I've been up and started messing with him he has woken up.
09/11/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
Yes, this has happened to me quite a bit.
09/11/2011
cheetahpita cheetahpita
nope, never happened to me before!
09/11/2011
mcl272 mcl272
never had this happen!
09/11/2011
Apirka Apirka
I've never done it, but I've had a partner who would do this. Obviously he'd eventually wake up more during, but he said that he wasn't awake and didn't remember starting anything. Plus, he only seemed to do this when we had other people staying at our place.
03/17/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
We masturbate a lot when we sleep.

I will sometimes wake up from him doing it and just hop on. Wouldn't you?
03/17/2012
Deeder Deeder
From what my husband tells me I do this all the time. Sometimes it'll wake me up and other times I'll just roll over when he's done and go back to sleep. To this day I'm convinced that's how our son was conceived!
03/18/2012
Beck Beck
I like sex that starts with foreplay, if it doesn't count me out.
03/19/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
... That would scare the everloving fuck out of me. I guess it'd be okay if it was with a partner I really trusted, but I'd prefer for that kind of thing to happen with my permission, you know? None of this "we both wake up in the middle of it" stuff - what if the whole condom step was skipped?
03/19/2012
Total posts: 24
Unique posters: 24