I have heard of the 3 days rule, where you dont call back before 3 days. I guess I'm sort of ok with that one of you are just starting off dating and are not sure what to be doing.
I dont think I agree with the 3 dates rule, I find it a little weird. I have a friend with which we were discussing dating and sex and she told me that according to her assessment within her circle of friends and what she has gathered, you have to have sex with the guy on the first night or else you're screwed...REALLY! I don't know?! Its so crazy for me to hear all this stuff.
As long as you are comfortable in what you are doing, you're respecting yourself, then I say go for it.