I think that everyone's different too... You can't just decide to have sex on the first, or third date until you've had said date? Definitely go with the flow, and then decide.
The 3 Date Rule. Do you follow it? Do you think it's stupid?
02/08/2011
I think general rules like this are terrible ideas. It all depends on the people and their comfort levels.
02/08/2011
Well I'm glad to see that everyone agrees that it's a stupid rule/ idea.
02/08/2011
I've heard of the 3 month rule, but never have I heard it as the 3 date rule.
Either way, I think it's silly.
Either way, I think it's silly.
02/08/2011
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Never heard of it. I guess with my boyfriend I actually did sleep with him on the third date. It's just that the time between the second and third dates was a matter of months. (At that time it was a long distance relationship hehe).
Originally posted by
vegan.guy
What does everyone think about the 3 date rule? Do you tend to follow the 3 date rule? Do you think it's an idiotic idea? . . . Do you have no idea what I'm talking about?
02/09/2011
I make my own rules.
02/09/2011
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agreed!
Originally posted by
BadassFatass
I don't like rules that don't make sense to me, personally. So, this one just goes right out the window for me. It's about how I feel about a person and when I'm ready to take things to that level.
02/09/2011
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I think 3rd date is a dumb idea. Dating rules are kinda dumb overall, but I personally wait longer than 3 dates. I might kiss before then, but I'm more interested in getting to know the person first so I'd feel comfortable with them, and also so if I can figure out if I actually like them, or if it's just animal lust. I have a strict rule that if I think they're not intelligent or if there's something I just don't like about them (attitude being a big one, being lazy, etc), then I don't sleep with them.
Originally posted by
vegan.guy
What does everyone think about the 3 date rule? Do you tend to follow the 3 date rule? Do you think it's an idiotic idea? . . . Do you have no idea what I'm talking about?
I'm picky when it comes to dating. Less annoyances and drama. Besides the guys on my campus aren't that particularly enticing. I swear they get dumber and less attractive every year. Like the frat my sisterhood is associated with. A bunch of hipsters that think they're hilarious... Oy
02/09/2011
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Yeah me too. I met my husband and fucked on the first date (if you would even consider it a date). Worked for me!
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
I don't wait for any set amount of time. I do what I want, when I want!
02/09/2011
I'll do what feels right to me, regardless of rules.
02/10/2011
I just go with how I feel at the time - rules suck!
02/10/2011
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Agreed.
Originally posted by
Shellz31
I just go with how I feel at the time - rules suck!
02/14/2011
We don't really 'date' in Australia.. at least we don't call it that, nor do we have the same kind of structure to things. Everything a bit more laid back here, you hang out, go out with peopleand if something develops it develops. but at the same time hooking up with someone you've just met really isn't going to lead to any kind of real relationship either
02/14/2011
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Some rules are definitely meant to be broken. This is one of them.
Originally posted by
vegan.guy
What does everyone think about the 3 date rule? Do you tend to follow the 3 date rule? Do you think it's an idiotic idea? . . . Do you have no idea what I'm talking about?
02/14/2011
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Each relationship should be handled individually, if you aren't comfortable kissing on a first date then ok! Don't kiss....If you are ready to have sex ont he first date then go for it!
Originally posted by
vegan.guy
What does everyone think about the 3 date rule? Do you tend to follow the 3 date rule? Do you think it's an idiotic idea? . . . Do you have no idea what I'm talking about?
02/16/2011
it soo depends on chemistry so times its to hard not to resist and the inevitable happens
02/16/2011
dumb rule
02/16/2011
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I never follow rules!
Originally posted by
vegan.guy
What does everyone think about the 3 date rule? Do you tend to follow the 3 date rule? Do you think it's an idiotic idea? . . . Do you have no idea what I'm talking about?
02/17/2011
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??? Hmmm I dunno...
Originally posted by
vegan.guy
What does everyone think about the 3 date rule? Do you tend to follow the 3 date rule? Do you think it's an idiotic idea? . . . Do you have no idea what I'm talking about?
02/17/2011
every situation is different
02/17/2011
The three date rule came up in an episode of Two And A Half Men that I watched recently. Charlie talking to Alan ---
Charlie "Don't wait up"
Alan "Pretty confident aren't you?"
Charlie "Well yeah, you know, the three day rule"
Alan "It's the three date rule"
Charile "Three dates!?!? That's crazy talk!"
Charlie "Don't wait up"
Alan "Pretty confident aren't you?"
Charlie "Well yeah, you know, the three day rule"
Alan "It's the three date rule"
Charile "Three dates!?!? That's crazy talk!"
02/17/2011
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