Do you prefer being the big spoon or little spoon, which do you prefer?

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Do you prefer being the big spoon or little spoon, which do you prefer?

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Contributor: Intertwining Intertwining
Sorry if this is a little off-topic, but I found the words, "big spoon" and "little spoon" bloody ADORABLE! hahahahah!

I'm the little spoon most of the time- I like feeling protected :3
12/13/2010
Contributor: alayamae alayamae
I like being the little spoon since my bf is a foot taller than I am
12/13/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
He normally cuddles me... does that mean I'm the little spoon?
12/13/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
Being the little spoon is more comfortable for me
12/14/2010
Contributor: misslady misslady
I highly prefer to be the little spoon because I'm more than a foot shorter than my partner. Which is also why I can't seem to understand why we're always bickering in bed about who has to be big spoon, since I thought it was clearly understood that it should be him! Then he likes to top it off with rubbish like he feels safe in my arms or some other crap like that...
12/14/2010
Contributor: Kiwi Kiwi
I like both, but I usually end up as big spoon for some reason, even though I am smaller. Go figure.
12/15/2010
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
I like being little spoon better, but so does my boyfriend. It's awkward when I'm big spoon because he's taller and has poofy hair that gets in my face. Sometimes I indulge him, though.
12/19/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by misslady
I highly prefer to be the little spoon because I'm more than a foot shorter than my partner. Which is also why I can't seem to understand why we're always bickering in bed about who has to be big spoon, since I thought it was clearly ... more
My Man says the same thing. He feels safe and taken care of when I hold him. I certainly enjoy being the Big Spoon at times. He needs love and affection, also. I think it's sweet when a big, bad, muscled, tattooed, hairy Dom like My Man wants to be held in my arms. Despite him being about 15 inches taller than me, having large shoulders and a wide back and arms, I LOVE holding him. I love it when he shows vulnerability.

Last night I was the Little Spoon and he was the Big Spoon. Fell asleep together without even washing the Wahl. (Rare for me, as I am a fanatic about cleaning my toys right after sex.) It got cleaned first thing this morning, before we got at it again. This morning I was the Big Spoon and he was the Little Spoon, as he wanted his back rubbed and scratched. Then, he rubbed my back and we ended up in a pile of some way. Just a jumble of bodies, arms, legs, heads and love.

Although I love lying in his arms, it's nice to hold him, as well.

Any intimate touching is fantastic for us.
12/20/2010
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
I like being both. My boyfriend and I fit together pretty well either way.
12/23/2010
Contributor: anonymouse anonymouse
I prefer being the 'little spoon' but I'm just happy to cuddle.
12/24/2010
Contributor: Epicurean Epicurean
I used to always think that, as the physically smaller one, I was supposed to be the little spoon, but in recent years I've taken equal comfort in being the big spoon. There is something just as nice about being the "protector"! lol. And I've found that guys enjoyed being spooned too.
12/25/2010
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Little spoon here! (But we aren't against switching it up either.)
01/05/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I love to feel him against my rump, so def little spoon.
01/28/2011
Contributor: qqqqqqqqqqqq qqqqqqqqqqqq
It depends on what mood I am in for whether I would rather be big or little spoon.
01/28/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I like being the little spoon. I like to be held on to and cuddled.
01/28/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
I prefer to be little spoon, but I will be big spoon (especially when he rolls over to go to sleep)..
For me, it's weird to try to find a place for my head.
03/04/2011
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
I'm usually the little spoon and I love it that way. It's nice having his arms wrapped around me with him nuzzling my neck. But when he's not feeling well I tend to go into protective mode and hold him.
03/04/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
I don't care but my wife hates being the big spoon she always complains that I'm not snuggling with her the way she wants when it comes to spooning
08/25/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I used to say I preferred being the little spoon, and when my boyfriend and I first started seeing each other, when we went to bed his arms would be open and waiting for me. Halfway through the night we would switch. But it's been a long time since I got to be little spoon without asking him to cuddle me, which is USUALLY fine because I find I can no longer sleep as the little spoon. But sometimes when my arm goes numb underneath him and I wake up thinking it's gone, I'd like him to cuddle me when I roll over....
08/25/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
I'm a cuddler! Dont' care how I get it.
08/26/2011
Contributor: Jaimes Jaimes
Sex, little spoon. Snuggling and sleeping, big spoon. B is about 8 inches and 100lbs bigger than me, so that gets really hot, really fast. I usually end up dozing off on his back, which is awesome.
08/26/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I enjoy both!
08/26/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
Little, for sure.
08/26/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Nickisonehere
I'm just curious
If I am going to be one of the two I prefer to be the big spoon, however I got messed up in a car accident when I was younger which messed up my back big time so that whole spoon thing is no good for me.
08/26/2011
Contributor: Talena Talena
After sex I do like a nice shower with my partner but just for a snuggle or a security factor I like being the small spoon because being wrapped in his arms make me feel secure.
06/05/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
I love either, but think that I might most often enjoy being wrapped in the arms of the person I love more.
06/05/2012
Contributor: LaSchwartz LaSchwartz
It all depends on where we are . I love to feel his arms around me but i just cant sleep like that i have to move so at night i am the big spoon.
06/05/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Being the big spoon makes me feel strange because I'm a tiny person so I prefer to be the little spoon whenever possible but I will switch if that's what the hubby wants.
06/05/2012
Contributor: funforall7 funforall7
little spoon!
06/11/2012
Contributor: PDXlady PDXlady
I love being the little spoon. Unfortunately I'm a bigger person than my partner but he's a good sport about it haha.
06/11/2012