A threesome with two women?

misterazor misterazor
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what appeals to girls about a threesome with another girl? how do i present it to my wife without her killing me?
11/25/2012
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charletnarouh charletnarouh
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Originally posted by misterazor
what appeals to girls about a threesome with another girl? how do i present it to my wife without her killing me?
If she's bisexual or interested in women, then you should have less of a challenge. If she just isn't, then you're probably SOL, and in my opinion, probably shouldn't try but you should have a conversation about it, openly. First, create a low pressure atmosphere where she feels supported and safe bringing up interests she might have. Be careful not to shoot down any that might not seem like your cup of tea or disrespect them, as this might shut her down and keep her from talking to you about other things. Explore fantasies and interests she has and, in general, foster a very, very open line of communication. The appeal of a FMF threesome for women only applies if they actually are attracted to other women, though. Be sure that you are really ready to discuss and explore how a threesome experience will affect your relationship. Be really communicative throughout and be sure to be fair to the third person. Make sure expectations are all clear and mutually understood and be sure to thoroughly communicate about them with all parties, especially if circumstances or feelings change at any point.
11/25/2012
misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by charletnarouh
If she's bisexual or interested in women, then you should have less of a challenge. If she just isn't, then you're probably SOL, and in my opinion, probably shouldn't try but you should have a conversation about it, openly. First, ... More
and i think that is the thing that would keep me from ever bringing it up...the thought of feelings developing, or people getting the wrong idea. it's a selfish fantasy that seems way more complicated that the actual event would be worth. thanks for the thoughtful repsonse. i know that my wife finds women attractive, but i don't think she is attracted to them. and i would hate for her to do something just for my sake, to make me happy, when it is something so fraught with complication. i know that i'm way more open about sex than she is...or more open when it comes to relationships. and it's something that i knew before we got married. but i am determined to bring her as far out of her shell i can without causing damage. this may cause damage. baby steps and open communication. again, thanks.
11/25/2012
charletnarouh charletnarouh
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Originally posted by misterazor
and i think that is the thing that would keep me from ever bringing it up...the thought of feelings developing, or people getting the wrong idea. it's a selfish fantasy that seems way more complicated that the actual event would be worth. ... More
This is definitely a fantasy that could fundamentally change your relationship in possibly devastating ways. I think, without knowing actual statistics, that more couples who try to bring these kinds of fantasies to life experience problems than don't. That said, I firmly believe that polyamory and non-traditional relationship structures are completely possible and can be well worth the risks when they work out, but it's not something that should ever be played lightly with and it takes a TON of work and communication to make it happen when it does work. I would suggest exploring her sexuality through a lot of communication and creating a very open safe space where she won't feel judged or criticized or afraid of your reactions but, at the same time, won't feel pressured either.
11/25/2012
Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by misterazor
what appeals to girls about a threesome with another girl? how do i present it to my wife without her killing me?
I'd be careful on that one. Things could go bad and I don't know if it is worth it if it does. You could try and get her really really drunk?
01/19/2013
LoveDrunk LoveDrunk
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Originally posted by misterazor
what appeals to girls about a threesome with another girl? how do i present it to my wife without her killing me?
My man watching me please her turns me on
01/20/2013
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