Titfucking...from a woman's perspective.

Contributor: kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by jr2012
I love it. I have very sensitive nipples and I love it when my breasts are played with in general. I also love the visual!

If it makes any difference, I have pretty large breasts...I'm wondering if it would be uncomfortable for smaller girls?
ya... I'm a 32B and it really doesn't do much for me. I have very sensitive breasts, but it still does nothing.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Khanner Khanner
The visual's nice from my perspective. It doesn't feel good or bad or even turn me on, and we haven't really done it once we got past our "omg we have to try everything" phase.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
Personally I don't find it degrading, and it's just one more thing to add to the menu to spice up an evening
10/11/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
If I could do it adequately, I would. I'm only a 32B, though. Doesn't really work when you're that small.

I'm going to echo what a few other posters have said, and say that sex acts in and of themselves are not degrading, but the person who you are with might make it degrading with their intent. It sounds like your ex crossed boundaries and pressured you into doing something that you didn't want to do, especially since you don't like the size of your breasts. I've had this same conversation about facials, and the many, many people who proclaim that women don't like it, and they just do it to please a man, or because they are pressured into it, and any man who likes it, likes it because he wants to degrade women. That simply isn't true. I reject the notion that all women have the same perspective in the the bedroom, and I reject that the same is supposedly true of men...or any other gender that one may identify as. People are individuals with their own experiences, ideas, thoughts, emotions, likes and dislikes.

Most people who are with partners who respect their boundaries and are in a give and take relationship are comfortable with doing a wide range of things in the bedroom--and enjoy it the whole time. A lot of people do have hang ups because of bad experiences, but it's possible to get over them with the right person, or to at least be at peace with it. Who knows? Maybe one day you will be with the right person, be in the right situation, the right mindset, and find it has appeal to you. Or maybe not. But rest assured that there are a lot of women who do enjoy it for all the reasons listed here, and more. And also, there are plenty of men who like it, and it has nothing to do with a desire to degrade their partner. It's all about intent.
10/11/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
It doesn't do anything for me but I will do it for my husband since he enjoys it.
10/11/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I suspect it's a porn industry invention. I'm a man and tried it with a female partner at her request, it really didn't do much for me.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Passion plum Passion plum
I see nothing wrong with it but neither of us are into it.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
I love it. Then again I have a major fetish for being released on so it's enjoyable to me.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Not my cup of tea, but the husband likes it so every once in awhile we'll do it.
10/11/2012
Contributor: sexfairy sexfairy
I was never with a partner that was really into it. I have sensitive breasts so it isn't that comfortable to do for me.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I haven't tried it.
10/11/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
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Originally posted by RonLee
I suspect it's a porn industry invention. I'm a man and tried it with a female partner at her request, it really didn't do much for me.
It depends on the guy. It's definitely been around for a very, very long time, at least based on illustrations and erotic writings from well before any of our grandparents were born.

Like everything else, some people find it super-erotic, some find it enjoyable, some find it meh, some don't like it, and some find it hateful.
10/12/2012
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
Well sorry I've offended some people, I am a selfish person and I won't do things that I don't enjoy just because someone tells me to.
10/12/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by emiliaa
Seriously though, does any GIRL actually like this? I find it disgusting, degrading, and it gives me absolutely no pleasure...I'd refuse to do it if I ever had a male partner.
I find it somewhat humorous, but he loves it, so I might throw it in as foreplay.
10/12/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
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Originally posted by emiliaa
Well sorry I've offended some people, I am a selfish person and I won't do things that I don't enjoy just because someone tells me to.
I don't think anyone is offended! We're just explaining how we feel about it and everyone has been civil. That's what you asked of us, right? Why so defensive?
10/12/2012
Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
It is part of a handjob, or blowjob. Lots of oil. Is fun.
10/12/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Ex-boyfriend liked it, but I'm not a big fan of that.
10/13/2012
Contributor: puglove puglove
My fiance and I have never done this. I don't think I would get any pleasure out of it, but if he wanted to do it, I would.
10/18/2012
Contributor: marshmallow marshmallow
nope
10/19/2012
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
It doesn't do anything for me. But I have tried it with my ex since he wanted to do it. I think he said it wasn't much for him either.
10/19/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Not so much for me
10/19/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I don't do this. I just don't get it. If you like it more power to you, but I don't get it. It doesn't do anything? It's awkward when giving a blow job too. I can't stay in pattern if my tits are bouncing me in the chin and causing me to scrap my teeth on his junk. I'm glad my partner doesn't like it because I would have a hard time doing it if he did.
10/19/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
It's not something that does that much for either of us.
10/19/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by mikeysPlace
Got to agree with that!

Also surprised at the number of "it does nothing for me, so I won't do it" responses. What's up with that? Ever heard of pleasing your partner?!
Also surprised at the number of "it does nothing for me, so I won't do it" responses. What's up with that? Ever heard of pleasing your partner?!

I'm sorry, but this just rubs me the wrong way. If your partner doesn't like something, how can it please you to have them do something they don't want to or like? It shouldn't be pleasing. Surely relationships are about compromise, but if someone says they don't want to do something regardless or not if the partner likes it, the answer is still NO.
10/19/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
I find it boring and pointless for myself. Though, if he enjoys it I'll do it.
10/19/2012
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I like the feel of Hubby's cock on me and he loves it so it has become a usual part of our foreplay. I don't really have any reason to have a negative issue with it though. I just don't see it as degrading it's pure enjoyment. I usually switch between blowjob and titty fucking and back to blowjob. I enjoy feeling his excitement and pleasing him so...it's all good from my point of view.

If someone doesn't like it then noone should expect them too do it. Everyone has different opinions, likes and dislikes that should all be respected. The key in any relationship should be communication. If something bothers you talk it out with your partner and find a resolution.
10/19/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
It does nothing for me so I don't do it.
10/20/2012
Contributor: naturegirl naturegirl
I'd love to do it...but my boobs aren't really big enough!
11/14/2012