To what degree was it easy/difficult for you/your female partner to begin orgasm during intercourse (For the first time)? Was it necessary for the aid of a toy?

Once I got an orgasm, which didnt occur at the beginning of my sex life, it became much easier. My boyfriend now first gave me an orgasm. Now, when he places his finger against the top of the inside of my vagina, I can almost squirt in seconds.

We need a toy for Mrs. Lust to orgasm, intercourse alone will not get her there. Many women are that way.

Kind of hard to answer the poll. MOST women do not orgasm during intercourse, so your woman isn't out of the ordinary.

I've been having sex for many years, more than 20. I rarely have a spontaneous orgasm during intercourse, unless first I've had at least one or two clitoral orgasms from oral sex PLUS a vibrator. I used to be able to orgasm from oral sex alone, but perimenopause cause that to be really difficult.

A few times, when I was younger, (long before I started using sex toys) I could orgasm during intercourse, if I played with my clit, but it wasn't all that common and neither My Man (nor any other guy) nor myself cared enough to try that hard for it.

Most women have orgasms from oral sex, manual stimulation, G Spot stimulation, vibration etc. I think the average is only about 12% of women regularly have spontaneous orgasms during PIV intercourse.

It shouldn't be a goal. Most women are happy to orgasm by any means necessary, what ever works for them, and don't really want the pressure to come in a proscribed way.

My Man and I usually do what it takes to get me to orgasm, usually several times before we even start PIV sex. If I come again, it's great. If not, it isn't a goal of ours, so it isn't a big deal. I've usually already had some orgasms by the time we start PIV, so we're both pleased when I come any way I can get one.