Ugly Pussy

Naughty Student Naughty Student
I had never really thought about the appearance of my vagina as abnormal or ugly. I started becoming more aware of it's appearnace after a thread was started on the subject about 2 years ago on EF by Backseat Boohoo.

I'm not sure what I answered then but I did becoem slightly insecure but never really to the point where I thought I had an ugly vagina.

I love my pussy, when I shave it I like how my labia minora hang out a bit from my labia majora, I find it kind of sexy, no matter what anyone says.
02/28/2011
WHITEMIKE WHITEMIKE
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Originally posted by WHITEMIKE
If you can tie your labias together, it is ugly. If I can deep throat your clit, you have an ugly beaver. If I can't see your labias because of the hair, it's ugly.
I thought this was an opinion poll. I am flagged for m opinion? My wife would answer that she doesn't like to see hair uncircumcised penises with lots of veins, bent to the side, and dark. It is just m opinion. I would like to see a vagina look a certain way. This isn't a hate comment towards anyone. Some men like the opposite of what I like, which also should not be flagged. it is just a preference question.
02/28/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Eden C.
Is there such a thing as an ugly pussy? I personally think my vulva is hideous, but then I thought about it and realized that most genitals are sexually arousing, but not aesthetically pleasing. I am attracted to women, but I hate looking at my own ... More
There are unattractive ones out there.
03/01/2011
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by WHITEMIKE
I thought this was an opinion poll. I am flagged for m opinion? My wife would answer that she doesn't like to see hair uncircumcised penises with lots of veins, bent to the side, and dark. It is just m opinion. I would like to see a vagina look ... More
I absolutely agree with this point. As beauty is in the eye of the beholder, certain features or characteristics just aren't going to be everyone's cup of tea. -shrugs-

If someone is dead set on cosmetic procedures or experiencing anxiety because of their vulva, it may help them to realize how many different shapes and sizes exist and I think too many people seek out cosmetic surgery but that doesn't mean everyone has to love every pussy. I mean, there are many natural facial variations but do I find all of them attractive? I just.. don't.
03/01/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by WHITEMIKE
I thought this was an opinion poll. I am flagged for m opinion? My wife would answer that she doesn't like to see hair uncircumcised penises with lots of veins, bent to the side, and dark. It is just m opinion. I would like to see a vagina look ... More
Personally, I did not flag you. I almost did, but decided to address it in my comment instead. It wasn't your preference that was offensive, it was how you said it. Just hear me out here: Perhaps a better way to express this opinion would have been, "For me, large labia, large clits, and untrimmed vaginas/pussies/beaver s are ugly. But that's me and some men might feel otherwise." That would have been received as your opinion without making people feel even MORE uncomfortable about their genitalia; which obviously, there were a lot of people expressing their issues with their genitals.

We're all entitled to our opinion, let's just be considerate about how we express our opinions. And that goes for everyone! Let's be sure to take other people's feelings into consideration. I'm sure no one intends to be offensive, so let's be aware of what we're saying and how it might come across. Okay?
03/01/2011
dv8 dv8
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
I'm sure that there are people who think that a large clit, large labia, and natural hair growth on a pussy is all very beautiful. So I think that would be a matter of personal preference.
Yep, I'm a fan of large clits, large labia, and '70s pubic hair styles.
03/01/2011
gone77 gone77
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Personally, I did not flag you. I almost did, but decided to address it in my comment instead. It wasn't your preference that was offensive, it was how you said it. Just hear me out here: Perhaps a better way to express this opinion would have ... More
This is perfect BBW. Thank you for posting.

Everyone--please remember there is a way to phrase your opinion so as to not ostracize or alienate others.

Thanks!
03/01/2011
Alyxx Alyxx
I just want to say that 'trouser taco' is my new favorite euphemism.
03/04/2011
Istanbull Istanbull
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Originally posted by Eden C.
Is there such a thing as an ugly pussy? I personally think my vulva is hideous, but then I thought about it and realized that most genitals are sexually arousing, but not aesthetically pleasing. I am attracted to women, but I hate looking at my own ... More
I believe that there's wayyy too much anti-labiaplasty talk. A good chunk of the women who are getting it done are doing so because they are getting physical pain because their labia are too large, and I hear the opposition saying the surgery is "unnecessary".

And as a man, I am insulted by the argument. There’s next to nothing a man can have done when it comes to his genitals. There are no implants, there are no hormone therapies, no laser surgeries, nothing. We have to live with what we’ve got and there’s nothing we can do about it. Sure there’s an “enlargement” surgery but it’s nothing short of butchery just to gain half an inch and the penis is pretty much fucked up from then on.
03/04/2011
Istanbull Istanbull
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Originally posted by Oxygen99
Male genitalia is definitely more attractive.
Consider this. Up until the last decade, female genitals could be seen in a movie and it maintained an R rating. The movie instantly became X when a penis appeared.

While you may find male genitals more attractive, socially they are not. Penises don't sell porno.
03/04/2011
Eden C. Eden C.
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Originally posted by Alyxx
I just want to say that 'trouser taco' is my new favorite euphemism.
Thanks!

I don't really see how a large labia could cause pain. I mean, mine sometimes gets chafed by tight pants with a really thick crotch seam, but I'm not sure how it could hurt.
03/05/2011
wetone123 wetone123
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Originally posted by Alyxx
I just want to say that 'trouser taco' is my new favorite euphemism.
Yes, I love "trouser taco" also!
03/05/2011
Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Istanbull
I believe that there's wayyy too much anti-labiaplasty talk. A good chunk of the women who are getting it done are doing so because they are getting physical pain because their labia are too large, and I hear the opposition saying the surgery is ... More
?!? Large labia causes physical pain? Then I should be screaming in agony. There is nothing painful about large labia.
03/05/2011
mikebooks mikebooks
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Originally posted by HoneyHoney
Personally I'm creeped out by large lips.
.. well... could be a turn-on for somebody (I personally think that larger lips are definitively sexier than small lips).

I appeal to all women reading this - Do not undergo any surgery just because you think you are not perfect down there - if you find your perfect partner, he wont complain about it and maybe he/she will love exactly those things you think are ugly/not appropriate etc.
03/05/2011
mikebooks mikebooks
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Originally posted by wetone123
Yes, I love "trouser taco" also!
Me either )
03/05/2011
darkkitty darkkitty
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Originally posted by Eden C.
Is there such a thing as an ugly pussy? I personally think my vulva is hideous, but then I thought about it and realized that most genitals are sexually arousing, but not aesthetically pleasing. I am attracted to women, but I hate looking at my own ... More
This is very sad. How all people now days of all ages, races, genders are made to feel insecure about one body part or another.
03/05/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
Some can be bad, usually with girls really over weight or been around the block to much
03/05/2011
ellejay ellejay
I respect everyone's right to an opinion, though I must say that labia size is genetic. Having sex, even a lot of sex, won't elongate them or "wear out" someone's vulva/vagina.

-steps off soapbox-
03/05/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by cobiffle
Some can be bad, usually with girls really over weight or been around the block to much
I'm overweight and my pussy is Fant-abu-lous! Tasty too.
03/05/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by ellejay
I respect everyone's right to an opinion, though I must say that labia size is genetic. Having sex, even a lot of sex, won't elongate them or "wear out" someone's vulva/vagina.

-steps off soapbox-
03/05/2011
Eden C. Eden C.
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Originally posted by WHITEMIKE
I thought this was an opinion poll. I am flagged for m opinion? My wife would answer that she doesn't like to see hair uncircumcised penises with lots of veins, bent to the side, and dark. It is just m opinion. I would like to see a vagina look ... More
I didn't flag you either, and BBW Talks Toys is right, it wasn't a nice way to say it, but I also agree with you, WHITEMIKE. Women are much more likely to get away with calling a man (or a man's member) ugly and get away with it, because our society doesn't expect men to be as hurt by such things.
03/06/2011
WHITEMIKE WHITEMIKE
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Originally posted by Eden C.
I didn't flag you either, and BBW Talks Toys is right, it wasn't a nice way to say it, but I also agree with you, WHITEMIKE. Women are much more likely to get away with calling a man (or a man's member) ugly and get away with it, because ... More
Eden C. you are all over!

I was being blunt or direct in my intial comment. It is human nature to look and size a person up on their cumliness, and to determine if they are appealing. Everyone does it because it is natural. Them same goes for the genitalia. everyone has a perception of what is attractive and what is not.

Just look at the title. Ugly pussy. It was direct. I thought a direct response would be appropriate. So, my apologies to the offended. I have no idea who you are, but that does not lessen the sincerity of my apology, but my response was honest and not intended to offend.
It doesn't matter who flagged me, but it matters that they understand I was not directing my opinion at anyone. It was not personal.
03/08/2011
Eden C. Eden C.
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Originally posted by WHITEMIKE
Eden C. you are all over!

I was being blunt or direct in my intial comment. It is human nature to look and size a person up on their cumliness, and to determine if they are appealing. Everyone does it because it is natural. Them same goes ... More
What? No, I actually wasn't offended at all. Sorry, I'm pretty tend to cloud my point with unnecessary babble.
03/08/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I worked at a drug testing place and saw dozens of vulvas every day. Some were certainly ugly. Usually those belonged to people with poor hygiene.
03/08/2011
MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
Its mostly the fear of not fitting in with a certain look i would say that makes us uncomfortable with how ours look. I didn't even look at mine until i was 15. I think its gross and ugly but i honestly dont care unless a man tells me this. But i'd never change anything on my body.
03/08/2011
DONOTSHOPHERETHEOWNERISPSYCHO DONOTSHOPHERETHEOWNERISPSYCHO
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Originally posted by Tuesday
?!? Large labia causes physical pain? Then I should be screaming in agony. There is nothing painful about large labia.
The only thing I can think of, that they might be talking about, is like if a woman's labia are so long that they get pinched when they wear jeans or something. I'm sure that a lot of cases could be cured by a well fitting cotton pair of panties, but there are women who complain about that.

That said, a lot of women who seem to be getting the surgery done are doing it to try to look like prepubescent girls and/or photoshopped pornography magazines. Basically, they want the labia minora to be tucked up all neat and tidy like into the labia majora. That makes me kind of sad. Especially seeing the girl on the video you linked go through the surgery. Her labia looked perfectly normal to me.
03/08/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I don't even HAVE labia minora. So I've always felt that there was something wrong with me. However, I've come to learn that it's genetic and not ALL women have, at least visible, labia minora
03/08/2011
WHITEMIKE WHITEMIKE
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Originally posted by Eden C.
What? No, I actually wasn't offended at all. Sorry, I'm pretty tend to cloud my point with unnecessary babble.
I was saying you were all over because when I am reading posts I always see your name. nothing crazy. I don't mind reading babble, it is a persons honest thoughts at the time.
03/08/2011
ellejay ellejay
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
I don't even HAVE labia minora. So I've always felt that there was something wrong with me. However, I've come to learn that it's genetic and not ALL women have, at least visible, labia minora
Not to single you out, but your post reminded me of something. It always grinds my gears when people who try to make women feel better about large inner lips say that vulvas with small inner lips looks childlike or unnatural. I don't understand how someone advocating the beauty of the female form can insult labia that naturally occur in women.

I will stop derailing this thread...now!
03/09/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by ellejay
Not to single you out, but your post reminded me of something. It always grinds my gears when people who try to make women feel better about large inner lips say that vulvas with small inner lips looks childlike or unnatural. I don't understand ... More
I'm not offended. I agree. The thing with vaginas is that they're all different and they are there for several purposes: sex, urination, childbirth. They're all going to look different and they're all beautiful in their own right because of the functions they serve. Just because someone has labia that are different than someone else doesn't mean their pussy gives you any less pleasure. Or gives THEM any less pleasure. Just because I have no inner lips (or so small they're nonexistent.. yes I've looked in a mirror and I've never seen any inner lips) doesn't mean I look like a child. I've babysat (and thus changed the diapers of) children who had large labia minora. It's genetic. It's just how that person's body was created based on the DNA they carry.

It's not like women who have small or no labia minora are having plastic surgery to CREATE them. (at least I don't think they are)
03/09/2011
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