COMPLETE and FULL devotion/loyalty. Whatever you want to call it, he can look at other women, he can think they're good looking, but it's the "look but not touch" rule with me. With loyalty you get respect, respect leads to response to emotions. Since I can only choose 1 thing and I can't cook, it's ok if he can't, we can learn together anyway
and if not, I'm easy to please! Boxed meals and cup noodles it will be!