Would you be upset if your SO basically announced you had sex on a social media?

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Would you be upset if your SO basically announced you had sex on a social media?

Terri69 Terri69
Would you be upset if your SO basically announced you had sex on a social media?
05/12/2012
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PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Um yea that is supposed to be between the both of you and not your friends or if relatives see it. How embarrassing is that?
05/12/2012
roskat roskat
I consider it tacky! That info doesn't belong to anyone else; it's a private matter. And furthermore, I really don't want read those even if I'm not involved. What happened to no kissing and telling? Manners, people!
05/12/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
That's such a tacky cheap shot - dump him!
05/12/2012
Peggi Peggi
I honestly think it depends on the person. If one of my ex's had done that it would've been just cause to dump them. On the side of the highway. At 4 am. Naked and without a cell phone. But if my current guy were to do it, I'd probably just laugh about it and leave an equally smartass comment. because it depends on how it is done. Sometimes it can be bragging or tacky, but it could also be done just jokingly or in a more fun manner. It depends on how private they keep it and just who they let see.
05/12/2012
Rossie Rossie
I would be very embarrassed if that happens, but my husband will never do something like that.
05/12/2012
deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by Terri69
Would you be upset if your SO basically announced you had sex on a social media?
YES!!!
05/12/2012
ValerieRayne ValerieRayne
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Originally posted by Peggi
I honestly think it depends on the person. If one of my ex's had done that it would've been just cause to dump them. On the side of the highway. At 4 am. Naked and without a cell phone. But if my current guy were to do it, I'd ...
I agree with you on this one. My sister and her fiance are always posting about their latest morning romp or the new toy they just ordered. And while I've never personally done it or had it happen to me, I think I would be flattered if The Boyfriend were to announce it.

I'm also generally pretty sexually open, so I don't tend to hide a lot of things about my sexuality - regardless of whether it's on social media or in real life. I'm probably the person who, if you called me during sex, would tell you that I was busy having sex and I'd call you back later. But I just don't think we should be ashamed of being sexual - though I know that's not what this is about...
05/12/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
I wouldn't be mad that people know we had sex, but I would be mad because putting it on facebook or something is just trashy in my opinion. If you want to talk about it with your guy friends, whatever because us girls do it to but putting it on a social media sight where family(sometimes younger) and other people that you want respect from will probably think it's trashy too. I don't want a skanky reputation.
05/13/2012
Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
It depends on which social network it was. Facebook? Yeah, I'd be upset. My grandmother is on my Facebook. Tumblr? No. I announce it all the time on tumblr.
05/13/2012
Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
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Originally posted by Terri69
Would you be upset if your SO basically announced you had sex on a social media?
It really depends. On Facebook I'd be mortified and angry since a lot of my family is on Facebook, but on Tumblr I wouldn't care, since I'm pretty open on Tumblr. It'd be a little awkward since some of my friends follow me, but I think by now they already know anyways.
05/13/2012
Ansley Ansley
No? He's happy he got lucky, and even if no one else wants to know or care about it, the fact that he was excited enough to post it on the internet would make me feel good. I'm weird that way.
05/13/2012
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
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Originally posted by Terri69
Would you be upset if your SO basically announced you had sex on a social media?
I would be very upset.
05/13/2012
prettynpink prettynpink
Depends on how they worded it, if my husband said something like "I just got done making love to my sexy wife" I would find it flattering, and not be upset, whereas if he put "Just fucked my wife doggystyle woohoo!" I'd feel degraded and be very pissed off at him
05/18/2012
Peggi Peggi
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Originally posted by ValerieRayne
I agree with you on this one. My sister and her fiance are always posting about their latest morning romp or the new toy they just ordered. And while I've never personally done it or had it happen to me, I think I would be flattered if The ...
Yeah haha we are both pretty open and I'm one of those "does she even have any shame?" girls lol
05/18/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
It depends where. On Facebook? Yeah, my family, including our kids are on FB. On Eden (even though it's not technically a "social networking site") it wouldn't bother me. I'd probably be flattered.

My husband has NO interest in social networking, he doesn't have a FB account, he doesn't post here, he doesn't have a Twitter account or anything else.
05/18/2012
Beck Beck
It wouldn't bother me unless he said something that was actually degrading. I do think it's tacky, but it could be funny at the same time.
05/18/2012
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I don't think it's tacky. Actually, a lot of my friends on Twitter post when they have sex. Not EVERY time, but when something especially awesome happens:

"Heck yes! Tried blankety blank for the first time and it was so freaking great!"

But then, I follow a lot of kinky/sex accounts so I don't care and I enjoy reading what others get up to.

If it was somewhere my family was, like on Facebook (which I no longer have), then I'd be really annoyed, but, since I'm not on there anymore, I guess I wouldn't know unless my family told me. And believe me, they would.
05/18/2012
31 Flavors 31 Flavors
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Originally posted by Terri69
Would you be upset if your SO basically announced you had sex on a social media?
Not upset but it does seem really immature.
05/18/2012
JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
Coming from a guy, I don't feel I would be upset, maybe embarrassed because I like to keep that part of my life private and not share with all of my friends.
05/18/2012
BG529 BG529
depends on who it was infront of...
05/18/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Tacky, so I'd prefer if she didn't. It wouldn't be a major issue though
05/18/2012
Emerlyn Emerlyn
I would be sooooo upset. I probably wouldn't talk to them for at least a day.
05/18/2012
dv8 dv8
I wouldn't be upset if the announcement were on Fetlife.
05/18/2012
ValerieRayne ValerieRayne
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Originally posted by Peggi
Yeah haha we are both pretty open and I'm one of those "does she even have any shame?" girls lol
Exactly! And I can't even comprehend the concept of shame surrounding sexuality, because I so strongly don't believe in it, that I just don't remember that it's a factor for other people.

I start talking about sex and get all these strange looks from people and I'm completely flabbergasted. I'm all like, "You mean, not everyone knows about this?", and then I feel as if I came from another planet or something for a minute.
05/30/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
I honestly wouldn't care. He's my boyfriend - we have sex from time to time. I would think that most people would assume so.

I guess I don't see the big deal about it. If it was posted by someone who I wasn't in a serious relationship it might annoy me more, but eh.
05/30/2012
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