What is the length of your average sex session?

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What is the length of your average sex session?

SexyStuff SexyStuff
My man would like it every night, but we have to get up so early. Most nights it is under 15 minutes. Anyone else?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
0-10 minutes
bobbyray , mrs.mckrakn
2  (2%)
10-20
SexyStuff , Xavier7 , lilrayray , StephieBoo02 , sexyintexas
5  (6%)
20-30
Hallmar82 , Waterfall , Mistress M. , leatherlover , Alura Une , Jimbo Jones , Darling Jen , Kissaki , markeagleone , newlady , zracer , Purpleladybug , ZenaidaMacroura , moonch1ld , liilii080 , Naughty Student , Tart , vegan.guy , Moein , Fun Lover , mama2007 , Cream in the Cupcake , Kaltir , sixfootsex , onehotmama , salaciousrex , Mika R. , padmeamidala , pixieluv , Sex'и'Violence , Bignuf , dbm6907 , AOutrajus , Hanna , EnMH , angel142stx , |Scheibe| , big b , jroho
39  (48%)
30-60
Yoda , darthkitt3n , That Guy , ~LaUr3n~ , Lady Venus , Crash , earthpig , teeny <3 , OhMy! , Eliza , newfoundlust , kelaaa33wish , Vegan Silk , LambChop , ss143 , ToyGurl , NarcissisticLust , ToyBoy , Miss Nessa , 724-6924
20  (25%)
60+
Redboxbaby , P'Gell , Coralbell , Kindred , DeliciousSurprise , potstickers , sweet seduction , NuMe , jankit , LennaKieran , That Man from Mars , Sir , Airen Wolf , Miss Voluptuous , Anjulie
15  (19%)
Total votes: 81
Poll is closed
02/03/2011
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Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Although we usually like to have a nice, long evening together (>60 minutes), we usually only have time for a quickie (<15 minutes). So, on average, I'd say about 20 - 30 minutes...
02/03/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Most of the time it is well over an hour, usually closer to 2+.
02/03/2011
Mistress M. Mistress M.
Usually 20-30 minutes....I would prefer...60+!
02/03/2011
bobbyray bobbyray
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
Most of the time it is well over an hour, usually closer to 2+.
wat can i do to last longer than 10mins?
02/03/2011
Alura Une Alura Une
Hmm, I made my choice up there, but that isn't quite accurate. We often choose bad times to do things and have to be quick--10-20 minutes, but a night time session can go almost up to an hour.
02/03/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by bobbyray
wat can i do to last longer than 10mins?
You can do things other than just penetration, perhaps more oral or you could practice edging and controlling your orgasm. I have even heard that some men masturbate about an hour before to keep them from coming too soon. I am not sure how old you are, but it is easier for older men I think. My husband does an amazing job with controlling his orgasm; granted he's 39.

I have begun reading the book Male Multiple Orgasm and although I am not a male, it seems like it has some amazing information in it regarding control. You might want to start a thread and pose this question to the rest of the men on this site. They are very helpful!
02/03/2011
toxie m toxie m
It absolutely depends. If we have a couple hours to fool around, we'll use all that time up. If we're busy with things, it'll be just a quickie. So.. anywhere from a few minutes to a few hours, depends on the situation we're in.
02/03/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I like nice LONG marathons. Two to three hours are my favorite. Even "quickies" for us are rarely less than 20 minutes. I am not a huge fan of quickies, because I usually don't have time to come. {pout} But, sometimes, first thing in the morning, ya just have to get to it, wham bam and thank you, and then think about it all day and finish it up with a marathon that evening.
02/03/2011
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
we normally have quickies
02/03/2011
markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyStuff
My man would like it every night, but we have to get up so early. Most nights it is under 15 minutes. Anyone else?
I would rather it be hours, but I haven't got her to go that far yet.
02/03/2011
newlady newlady
I too, have to average it out to 20-30 minutes. Although, we usually have a 60+ session once a week. I agree with P'Gell in regard to quickies.
02/03/2011
That Guy That Guy
I should probably be better about quickies, I'd get laid more often.
02/03/2011
Lady Venus Lady Venus
Our foreplay normally lasts longer than the actual sex.
02/03/2011
Crash Crash
We've only been able to have 1 quickie. We usually take around 40 minutes including foreplay.
02/03/2011
sweet seduction sweet seduction
between 1-3 hours including foreplay
02/03/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Very impressive for those of you go for over an hour on average!
02/04/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
We never break it up into "Foreplay" and "The Main Event." We go back and forth between oral, manual, toys, some toy play WITH oral sex, a little PIV, some more oral, pull out the Wahl, so I can have my first orgasm, and he helps, he goes down as soon as I start to come the first time, when that tapers off, he gets some more head (and I often have an other orgasm while doing this) then some more PIV,(hopefully I'll come again) some rolling around and stroking, one of us needs a drink of water, and it reminds the other to have a drink, some more oral,. maybe some more PIV for a few minutes, back to 69, then one of us (usually me) will have to go to the bathroom, then some more rolling around, then we often decide to engage in some anal, and then it may or may not be over. If he doesn't finish from anal, (I hope to again, also) he has to get cleaned up, and bring me a washcloth to clean up, then back to some more oral and maybe PIV. Then, we're tired, but toys have to be cleaned etc.

Damn, that can take hours, thank heavens. Sex with two people with ADD.

This is our "3-5 times a week sex" the rest alternate between quickies in the morning and BJs or times when he just wants to get me off.
02/04/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
We never break it up into "Foreplay" and "The Main Event." We go back and forth between oral, manual, toys, some toy play WITH oral sex, a little PIV, some more oral, pull out the Wahl, so I can have my first orgasm, and he helps, ...
Wow! That sounds both fun and exhausting
02/04/2011
liilii080 liilii080
Sometimes it's more than 25-30, sometimes less but that seems to be about average. Busy days, busy nights
02/04/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
We never break it up into "Foreplay" and "The Main Event." We go back and forth between oral, manual, toys, some toy play WITH oral sex, a little PIV, some more oral, pull out the Wahl, so I can have my first orgasm, and he helps, ...
Sounds a lot like what happens at our house.

We consider foreplay all the things that happen throughout the day (flirting and such) before the clothes begin coming off.
02/04/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I cannot remember the last time we did it for an hour, perhaps it was last year. We are both quite busy, even if we don't have kids. On average I would say its around 25 minutes. It suits me and it suits him but I would like occaisonaly to have those long days of love making.
02/04/2011
vegan.guy vegan.guy
If we're counting foreplay it can last a good hour. But on average I'd say 20-30 minutes.
02/04/2011
Fun Lover Fun Lover
With the foreplay and the act itself about 30 minutes, but from time to time it can be an hour or longer.
02/05/2011
mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by Lady Venus
Our foreplay normally lasts longer than the actual sex.
same here. usually oral is about 20 - 25 min then sex is 5 - 10 mins. any hints on how to keep it slow and speed up to make it longer?
02/05/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyStuff
Wow! That sounds both fun and exhausting
It's both. Thank the Heavens.
02/05/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by mama2007
same here. usually oral is about 20 - 25 min then sex is 5 - 10 mins. any hints on how to keep it slow and speed up to make it longer?
Pull away from him before he comes and start something different. Read my post, Myself, Redboxbaby and many others have sex the same way. Keep changing it up and it will last hours!!!!
02/05/2011
Eliza Eliza
I put 30-60, but it's really more like 20-45, and that's assuming both my girlfriend and I reach orgasm.
02/15/2011
Kaltir Kaltir
I'd say anywhere from 20-60 is average, since it varies so often
02/15/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
I've never noticed time...
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