What is your favorite thing about sex?

Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
People have sex for lots of different reasons: make babies, intimacy, pleasure, to cure boredom ... I thought it would be neat to see what this community loves about sex. So, what are your favorite thing(s) about sex?
05/14/2010
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~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Romantic and personal expression in a romantic relationship. I am really passionate and I like to show it when I with someone. It is the way I express my love for someone. Sex without that connection is unsatisfying to me. Sounds corny maybe, but I cannot orgasm out of love. I have to be in love to finish. And there is no better feeling that those two things together.
05/14/2010
*Ashley* *Ashley*
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Romantic and personal expression in a romantic relationship. I am really passionate and I like to show it when I with someone. It is the way I express my love for someone. Sex without that connection is unsatisfying to me. Sounds corny maybe, but I ... More
I completely agree with you answer.
05/14/2010
Heartthrob Heartthrob
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Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
People have sex for lots of different reasons: make babies, intimacy, pleasure, to cure boredom ... I thought it would be neat to see what this community loves about sex. So, what are your favorite thing(s) about sex?
My favorite part of sex is the romance that comes with it. I love being close to my partner and sharing special moments with him. I know that's the response of a hopeless romantic but it's the truth.
05/14/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
My favorite part about having sex is me being there. I like that...

Actually, I like the post-smecksing cuddles.
05/14/2010
Heather Heather
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Romantic and personal expression in a romantic relationship. I am really passionate and I like to show it when I with someone. It is the way I express my love for someone. Sex without that connection is unsatisfying to me. Sounds corny maybe, but I ... More
You are 100% corny and that's what makes you so great. I can't agree more.
05/14/2010
Elodie Elodie
It feels good.

Okay, the romance and intimacy stuff is good too, but really all of that depends on the kind of sex I'm having. But it always feels good.
05/14/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
My favorite part about sex is the really strong emotional and physical connection. Being able to look the other person in the eye while maintaining a position that would be considered almost degrading in a porno and knowing that there's nothing but love and respect behind it. It's something my fiance and I haven't been able to have with anybody else.

And the random positions we get to try because I'm so small. Like I'd never been able to sit on anybody's face while he was standing and holding me against a wall either, lol

And of course, the post sex spooning. I love that so much.
05/14/2010
Chilipepper Chilipepper
The fact that there's nothing wong with me for wanting it. (The ex-husband tried to make me feel guilty for wanting sex AT ALL and blamed me for his lack of libido.)

Recent loss of my sexual partner had made me realize that I appreciate the closeness, the affection, the playfulness, the build-up game, the movements, the intimacy of staring into the other's eyes when climaxing, the sharing of such vulnerable parts of ourselves, the scents, the exploration, the touch, the kisses ...

Damn near everything about it, really. I hope to find someone worthwhile when I'm ready.
05/14/2010
Sammi Sammi
My favorite thing about sex is the ability to just completely let go and connect with my husband.
05/14/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Sammi
My favorite thing about sex is the ability to just completely let go and connect with my husband.
I agree with a lot of what people have said - but Sammi's post is so concise.

Brevity is the soul of whit!
05/15/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
The fact that there's nothing wong with me for wanting it. (The ex-husband tried to make me feel guilty for wanting sex AT ALL and blamed me for his lack of libido.)

Recent loss of my sexual partner had made me realize that I appreciate ... More
On the same note, there's nothing wrong with you if you're not in the mood either.


Another of my favorite things about sex is that I don't HAVE to have it if I don't want to. Both my fiance and myself had to deal with this with our most recent partners, and getting told that you're not in the mood because you don't find the other person attractive just turns me off even more, because I'm becoming very unattracted to how immature you're being about the whole situation. He and I both love that after a long day at work, we can just spoon and watch TV with no pressure.
05/17/2010
Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
I like the closeness that sex brings, and especially the feeling of purity that comes with knowing that this is what you want and you are doing it for all of the right reasons (whatever you believe the "right reasons" to be). It's not unlike eating your favorite food without worrying about the calories or indigestion. It's an indulgence, and it's best when guilt is completely absent from the equation.
05/17/2010
Sir Sir
How it feels, just to be inside of that person and to touch them, is so pleasurable to me. I am bad with expressing how I feel about a person - the only way that I know how is by touching them, and when I am able to, and able to show them how much I love them, that's what makes it good - when they can feel me, and how they make me feel.
05/17/2010
Inkblot Inkblot
Forgetting about all the crap and stress of life and creating an island for the two of us for a little while. Just the ecstasy of only having to think about pleasing one another on a basic, physical level is awesome. There is a spiritual component of oneness, too, that nothing else can satisfy.
05/31/2010
NuMe NuMe
Between my husband and I, everything!!! We just click perfectly. I know I could never find that perfect of a connection with anyone else, ever.
05/31/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
I love the anticipation, the discussions and planning, the spontaneous times when passion overwhelms us, the smile afterward, the feeling of connection.
06/01/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
Some of the best in-jokes in a relationship start here, post-coitus.
06/01/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
When we are making love my partner and I are in our own little world of passion and pleasure. We do things and say things that would make people blush. So what I love most is the secretiveness of the act. The whole idea that we are kinky and no one knows.

But as many have said, the bond is very important. I enjoy when we are both present and enjoying each other, what ever the act we are doing.
06/01/2010
Victoria Victoria
I have to echo the sentiments of many others here, and say the closeness and the the connection I feel with my husband. Definitely the best feeling!
06/01/2010
dorlamoorehouse dorlamoorehouse
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Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
People have sex for lots of different reasons: make babies, intimacy, pleasure, to cure boredom ... I thought it would be neat to see what this community loves about sex. So, what are your favorite thing(s) about sex?
1. The connection (physical and/or emotional) I have with my partner(s)

2. Fun

3. Good cure for insomnia

4. It's good exercise!
06/01/2010
dorlamoorehouse dorlamoorehouse
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Some of the best in-jokes in a relationship start here, post-coitus.
JR - So true!
06/01/2010
fungo fungo
My favorite part, especially as of late, is the sense of exploration and growth my wife and I share, and the effects that has on our life, both in and out of the bedroom.

We're a couple that is wiling to try most anything (twice), and lately we've been trying a lot. Stepping outside of our comfort zone. Pushing ourselves to be more open. Willing to risk a little bit of discomfort for the immense pleasure of learning something we never knew about ourselves or each other. (For the record, we've been fortunate and have taken things slowly, so we haven't had a lot of discomfort to deal with, but it is inevitable).

That sense of being open-minded, trying new things, listening to your mind and body, obeying what it tells you is right and wrong, good and bad, then learning and growing because of it, is something that every person and every couple should experience. The effects it's had on our lives outside the bedroom has been profound as well.

I feel very lucky and grateful that sex (nay, GREAT sex) can do that for us, and that's what I love most about it.
06/02/2010
Gary Gary
Sex - there are so many great things about sex that I cannot pick just one to call my favorite.
06/02/2010
Victoria Victoria
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Originally posted by Gary
Sex - there are so many great things about sex that I cannot pick just one to call my favorite.
Maybe you should list some
06/02/2010
Sensual husband Sensual husband
The best thing about sex is the closeness that I feel towards my wife as we do it and the cuddling after. Think about it we are the most vulnerable when we are having sex we have stripped away any outer shell of clothing. Just you and your partner naked pleasing each other. The time that is spent alone with your partner is special as well. When you think about it there is not that much time in the day for most of us that is just spent doing what we really want to be doing. Between going to jobs, cooking dinner, laundry and any other assoerted chores it does not leave a lot of quality one on one time...
06/22/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
I also like it when I'm not zonked out afterward and see her all comatose from great sex. Nice reversal there.
06/22/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
I also like it when I'm not zonked out afterward and see her all comatose from great sex. Nice reversal there.
That was me being all comatose at my house last night. Only I had to temporarily force myself out of it to go clean the toys we used, lol
06/22/2010
Kim! Kim!
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Originally posted by Inkblot
Forgetting about all the crap and stress of life and creating an island for the two of us for a little while. Just the ecstasy of only having to think about pleasing one another on a basic, physical level is awesome. There is a spiritual component ... More
Very well said!
06/22/2010
usmcwife99 usmcwife99
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Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
People have sex for lots of different reasons: make babies, intimacy, pleasure, to cure boredom ... I thought it would be neat to see what this community loves about sex. So, what are your favorite thing(s) about sex?
Simply the romance of being with my husand.........hes in the miltiary so i often go a year or a few months without him so its nice when I get it
06/23/2010
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