What kinds of things do you do with your partner(s)?

Anyone else have the sudden urge for grapefruit juice?

Well I am not a squeezer but I can be considered a jiggler lol I love the way a woman's body moves, especially from impact... Just shaking her as a bit, throwing her boobs around a bit, slapping her thighs - LOVE IT!

and it makes them want to do something to you too

now thats one kinky relationship that i think everyone would be jealous of

TEHEHE! A very healthy one at that which is most important

Seconded. Also restraints and blinfolds, ball gags too.

Seconded. Also restraints and blindfolds, ball gags too.

LMAO! Me too!

I really want to be into a bit more rougher stuff like light bondage and things like that.

More spanking, hair pulling during doggy and especially try out some restraints and gags although i dont really know too much about these yet to be able to know what types i want.

lol need a dom to come and show me

That can be hot!

Ive always been worried about what i'd look like in home made movies as well. I think i'd expect it to look like a porno and have all the right angles and everything but after seeing some 'celebrity sex tapes' half of the stuff you miss because you dont have someone to move into all the right spots to get the good shots.
And of course the biggest one of all... lighting

Yes, and is quite common with my partner

All at one time or another.

That is precisely how I would have answered.

Including the being hyped up after sex. Food+body= possible infection, and aside from that I loath being messy, unless it's paint or some other art related medium. This does not include chocolate! I paint a lot so I'm used to being smeared with watercolours acrylics, pastels, marker etc. (I avoid oils because of the chemicals involved in cleaning. I don't want my kids breathing that in. Or getting into it for that matter.)

My favorite way to play is rough, I love to wrestle my partner for the top, and we aren't even a little gentle.

Once in a while, I conk out, but usually, if it's night time sex, I am awake for hours. A good fuck just wakes me up. He's out like a light, usually.

Wrestling is really fun. It does make me think that he holds back a LOT when we play rough. He's so much bigger and stronger than I am, that even when we are play wrestling, I can tell how easy it would be for him to really hurt me, if he wanted to. Luckily, he knows just when to hold back and just goes to the very edge of what I can take.




If you've seen my videos, you've seen how small I am. (OK, a little Ruebenesque, but still small.) He's a large, wirey man with arms like a gorilla. It's almost scary how strong he is.

You two are young and just starting out. What ever works well for you, works.

My Man and I dry hump about 10 times a day. He just comes up behind me at the sink or when I sit on his lap. I don't think he can be near me without rubbing his prick against me. We almost always start sex this way. It's builds the tension so wonderfully!

You'll learn more as you and he develop your sexual techniques. I remember just starting out. My Man had experience and I was a virgin, so we took it fairly slowly (well, we were dating for a few months before we had PIV sex, and an other week after that we had oral sex. Anal sex took.....years after that. I don't know why we waited so long. He says I was afraid of it. Maybe I was. I now don't know why I waited. He took it very slowly, and trained me, similarly to when he trained me to have PIV sex many years before. A little at a time, so there would be no discomfort, no pain and only pleasure. I still didn't like anal the first time we did it all the way. I told him, "We won't be doing that again. It hurt a little and I am bleeding." Turns out we were simply using the wrong kind of lube and I wasn't relaxing. So, he went back to the drawing board (as I was now a little apprehensive about it) and started by just using his fingers, well lubed, to teach me how to relax. I didn't want toys until after we had figured it out. The next time, a few weeks later, after a lot of training, was fantastic! I still remember him telling me the entire time what I good girl I was, and how much he loved me, how good it felt, making sure I was feeling amazing, too and how beautiful it was, and how much we were both enjoying it. Being told you're doing a good job, as well as enjoying it makes a difference.

It may take time, but you two seem to be doing what works for you, and taking it slowly. That's OK.