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would you rather have sex with someone who was significantly younger than you or significantly older than you?
Well since I'm with my partner and we ain't splitting, I won't be dating. However, I've never dated younger and never would, even if my lovie and I were not together. I really don't do well with younger men. Hell, these days, I don't do well with men period, so I doubt dating one would ever work for me -- my lovie must've been one very huge exception.
My partner is 3 years older than me -- 25 and I am 22. That is a great age gap for us. I'm not like an old granny, but you know how it goes -- women mature quicker, so that's why a lot of us prefer men older than us. If I were strictly into women you know, I don't think I'd be only able to date an older one. Lol. Not that I've thought that much about it til' just now, but... okay I should stop. lOL.
Anyways, him being 3 years older than me, and a good deal more matured than most 25 year old men, we work out well. I don't think I'd have ever gone any older than 4 years more than me though. In that case, it'd feel like too much of an age gap for my own self. 4 years older than me is the oldest I've ever gone. I'm glad my man is old enough to... how shall I put this... be pretty level to/with me, but not so old he can't keep up with me!