Whats something you'd like to try sexually but your partner is not interested in?

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Whats something you'd like to try sexually but your partner is not interested in?

ss143 ss143
I was just think how sometimes there is something you have been wanting to try sexually whether it be bondage anal or threesomes but your partner is just totally against it or unwilling to give it a try. I have always been interested in bondage but bf is terrified to try it and there is nothing I can say or do to get him to toy with the idea. Whats your interest that is a no go? How do you deal with it and do you keep asking or have you just let it go?
06/03/2011
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MaryExy MaryExy
I haven't thought of anything that my guy has definitely said no to, but there are things that I want to try that he's uninterested in or iffy about, including...

-spanking implements other than his hand. Although now that I've seen the aftermath of some nastier cropping sessions and such, I'm iffy about more serious sessions with such implements. I'm ok with sticking to barehanded, I just want to try other supplies to know whether I'd be able to handle them.

-collars that I like. My guy likes this rhinestone choker thing, but I like the more basic look of plain metal collars (like the steel circlets or even the patterned wire collars on BondageCollars). I showed him some heart-shaped tag things with extra charm things (you can get them engraved)... but while he said he liked them, I don't think he got that they could be collars... I'll wait to bring it up again until he's in one of his really dom-my moods again.

Those are the main ones. He has also suggested some more humiliating stuff that sounds really hot, but he says they can be punishments if I give him attitude. But they sound sooooooooooo fun and I NEVER want to give him attitude.

He's also a little more into the threesome idea than I am I think. So that's one where it works the other way around, where he's interested and I'm iffy. But we are willing to do without or wait until we're both comfortable with an idea.
06/03/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
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Originally posted by ss143
I was just think how sometimes there is something you have been wanting to try sexually whether it be bondage anal or threesomes but your partner is just totally against it or unwilling to give it a try. I have always been interested in bondage but ...
Actual anal sex. He hates the idea.
06/03/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by ss143
I was just think how sometimes there is something you have been wanting to try sexually whether it be bondage anal or threesomes but your partner is just totally against it or unwilling to give it a try. I have always been interested in bondage but ...
I'd love to try figging (with the ginger root) but Anakin has had little interest in it. I'd love to try it out sometime though. Heard interesting things about it.
06/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I would love to try anal sex with the wife, she will not even let me touch the area. I would love for her to put on a strap on and do me, she does use toys on me though. So I am working on that. I would also like to try a bit of bondage, either her or me.
06/03/2011
Retro Retro
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
I would love to try anal sex with the wife, she will not even let me touch the area. I would love for her to put on a strap on and do me, she does use toys on me though. So I am working on that. I would also like to try a bit of bondage, either her ...
When my guy said he wanted me to use a strap-on on him I was completely against the idea but have since then come around. At first I didn't like it because we got a cheap toy and the harness was horrible. Once we got a good harness I really got into it.
06/03/2011
ss143 ss143
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Originally posted by padmeamidala
I'd love to try figging (with the ginger root) but Anakin has had little interest in it. I'd love to try it out sometime though. Heard interesting things about it.
Im gonna have to google figging never heard of it lol
06/03/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
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Originally posted by padmeamidala
I'd love to try figging (with the ginger root) but Anakin has had little interest in it. I'd love to try it out sometime though. Heard interesting things about it.
Ooh, I was curious about figging, too. I just wanna know exactly what it feels like... I haven't brought it up with my guy, though. So many things to do before that...
06/03/2011
newlady newlady
Ummm...so far there really isn't anything he hasn't been supportive about exploring... *lucky me!*
06/03/2011
dv8 dv8
Group sex with a dozen lingerie models. It's not gonna happen.
06/03/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Anal sex - still working on it.
06/03/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Almost all of BDSM - he is a very vanilla person
06/03/2011
CSEA CSEA
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Originally posted by ToyGurl
Actual anal sex. He hates the idea.
He is missing out! or better yet you are Lol mine says it feels good, I like it is AMAZINNNNG LMAO he doesnt think is it oh-so-great because of the actualy idea of it, he mostly does it for me.. It is such a different sensation
06/03/2011
CSEA CSEA
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Originally posted by ss143
I was just think how sometimes there is something you have been wanting to try sexually whether it be bondage anal or threesomes but your partner is just totally against it or unwilling to give it a try. I have always been interested in bondage but ...
My boyfriend is pretty open about things in the bedroom, he is very supportive about actions and EdenFantasy. I want to try double penetration with him vaginally and/or anally and toy in the other. The idea doesnt give him any sparks but well work on that
06/03/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
The only thing that's come up that he hasn't wanted to try is anal play for him.
06/04/2011
ac0313 ac0313
My GF and I are very open to trying new things. The only thing that we both agree to never try is scat. Almost all other kinks are possible!
06/04/2011
mr conflicted mr conflicted
It would be a huge turn on for me if she were more verbal (talking dirty) and especially if she told me what she wanted!

Light spanking would be awesome as I really like her butt and she seems to enjoy me paying it some attention, but I think there is a line there that I shouldn't cross.
06/06/2011
Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
my gal is the greatest, entertains my whims.
02/23/2012
indiglo indiglo
My partner has said that he is basically up for whatever I want to do. I know he has hard limits, and so do I, but our hard limits are basically in pretty much the same places... so I don't perceive us ever having an issue in that arena.
02/23/2012
LovesToPlay LovesToPlay
I would love to give him some anal attention but he totally flips out if i try! There are so many things that i want to try but its hard to tell your husband that you want to be fucked by another man while he is either watching or joining!! He actually brought it up a few weeks ago and it was so weird bc he was turned on by it.. But still i couldnt really tell him that i wanted to do it bc im afraid he will feel like he is not enough for me! (he is the only man i have ever slept with) so i think its kinda a natural curiosity what someone else would feel like??
03/19/2012
x203 x203
figging?
08/16/2012
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