How did the experience compare to your expectations and fantasies? Were you disappointed or pleasantly surprised? Did sex exceed your expectations or had it been so hyped up in your mind that it was a let down? What about it was different than your expected? Was it more or less romantic, messy, fun, pleasurable, exciting, etc. than you expected? Or was it about like you expected? Did it get better after the first time or was the first time this idealized image of perfection that can never be duplicated?