When you're not in the mood, but your partner is...

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When you're not in the mood, but your partner is...

Silverdrop Silverdrop
Let's face it. We aren't always in the mood. If your partner wants sex and you don't, what would you want them to do? Choose as many options as you like.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Do without. No sex for you!
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle , Bethy Cassatt
2
Whine and beg.
Ilovelingerie , Badass
2
Masturbate in the same room.
LilLostLenore , Graniteal , Checkmate , All His , Silverdrop , Ilovelingerie , Talena , authorzero , Mrs. Tickle and Giggle , g- , CRAZYSEXYONE , indiglo , Badass
13
Masturbate in a different room.
LilLostLenore , Silverdrop , g- , CRAZYSEXYONE , indiglo
5
Masturbate in a different room, but dear lord, don't TELL me you did!
Look at porn.
LilLostLenore , Silverdrop , indiglo
3
Try to get me in the mood.
BobbiJay , Ansley , EdenJP , kittychilla , Bignuf , Iron Man , Princess-Kayla ♥ , LilLostLenore , Coralbell , Gracie , Graniteal , awesomeness , Checkmate , (k)InkyIvy , klyte , candykiss34 , All His , Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama , SexyStuff , Gunsmoke , Secret Pleasure , prttynink , Undead , Cwhitten006 , Silverdrop , Mwar , dbm6907 , Ilovelingerie , LAndJ , Wildchild , married with children , potstickers , Bittenflame , gloomybear , Talena , authorzero , OhMy! , xOhxSoxScandalousx , Mrs. Tickle and Giggle , g- , CRAZYSEXYONE , indiglo , Bethy Cassatt , Badass
44
Leave me alone! I don't care, just handle it however you want!
Modern^Spank^Anthem , Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama , Silverdrop , LAndJ
4
Go do it with another partner.
Silverdrop
1
Other.
Bignuf , DreamWolf , All His , Ilovelingerie , babyrock , Deeder , indiglo
7
Total votes: 81 (48 voters)
Poll is closed
02/16/2012
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BobbiJay BobbiJay
There are times when I am in my own head and I need someone to pull me out and sex is a great way to do that.
02/16/2012
EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
Let's face it. We aren't always in the mood. If your partner wants sex and you don't, what would you want them to do? Choose as many options as you like.
Try to get me in the mood
02/16/2012
kittychilla kittychilla
try getting me in the mood. i'm usually pretty easy to get in the mood.
02/16/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
Let's face it. We aren't always in the mood. If your partner wants sex and you don't, what would you want them to do? Choose as many options as you like.
I guess I'm odd that way. Unless I am really feeling bad for some reason, in which case he wouldn't try or ask, but it is JUST a case of "I'm not in the mood", then he can just "use me". I would prefer that even if I am distracted or not feeling like it, he still be able to pleasure himself in ME rather then some other way. I have to be enjoying it to provide oral sex or be really creative, but it does not take much effort to let him penetrate me vaginally or anally, if he is really in the mood, and often I end up warming up and enjoying it. Thankfully, however, I am "not in that lack of mood" very often. More the case when kid/work stuff is on my mind a bit too much. Of course, HE has those moments too.
02/16/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by BobbiJay
There are times when I am in my own head and I need someone to pull me out and sex is a great way to do that.
Well said. Even if I am not really interested, his tools sliding around in my happy places can sure help change that fairly fast.
02/16/2012
Iron Man Iron Man
Try to get me in the mood; I also kinda like getting 'used' but it doesn't happen often since I'm usually gung-ho for it. Ahaha.
02/16/2012
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I'm generally the one who's in the mood, and he's not as often.
I used to be more of the trying to get him in the mood too. Now I just don't really say anything. I think I was probably getting obnoxious about it a little bit.
02/16/2012
Coralbell Coralbell
I've actually never turned down sex. If I'm not in the mood, he always manages to get me in the mood.
02/16/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
I go along of course, doing anything for my Master!!! It would be freakin awkward if I didn't please Him as much as I can only because am not feeling like it, not to mention when am not in the need really that much then I can focus even more on pleasing Him! Couldn't imagine life in any others ways, and have always been like that! ^^
02/16/2012
(k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I'm usually pretty easy to get in the mood. A couple of well-placed kisses and caresses and I'm good to go! Of course, some tickling and whipping does wonders as well. I can do with rough or gentle. Like I said, I'm easy to get going.
02/16/2012
klyte klyte
I always try!
02/16/2012
Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
try to get him to leave me alone
02/17/2012
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Get me in the mood too
02/17/2012
Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
I get turned on very easy so he could get me in the mood.
02/17/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
Let's face it. We aren't always in the mood. If your partner wants sex and you don't, what would you want them to do? Choose as many options as you like.
It is usually the other way around lol but there have been times where I wasn't either
02/17/2012
Silverdrop Silverdrop
There are times when I just want to be left alone, and attempts to get me in the mood will make me irritable. And other times when I can be coaxed and seduced. I clicked 'Do it with someone else', but he never would. lol. I don't think I came with a jealousy gene installed, so it wouldn't bother me if he did, but he's too monogamous to consider it.
02/17/2012
dbm6907 dbm6907
My partner and I almost always have sex in the evenings, and sometimes I just feel way too tired when he wants it. He'll start kissing my lips, ear, and neck and it gets me in the mood instantly.
02/17/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Usually I like him to show a lot of interest and show that he wants sex for more than sex. If he tries hard enough I usually give in.
02/17/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by dbm6907
My partner and I almost always have sex in the evenings, and sometimes I just feel way too tired when he wants it. He'll start kissing my lips, ear, and neck and it gets me in the mood instantly.
That does it for me too.
02/17/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
My partner will just keep bothering me and annoying me until I give in.
02/17/2012
Wildchild Wildchild
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
Let's face it. We aren't always in the mood. If your partner wants sex and you don't, what would you want them to do? Choose as many options as you like.
Sometimes watching puts me in the mood.
02/17/2012
Gracie Gracie
It's more likely me in the mood and he isn't.
02/19/2012
Deeder Deeder
This is pretty much all the time, since it's nearly impossible for me to get aroused. While there are occasions where I'd love to just roll over and go to sleep, usually I go along with whatever my hubby wants to do.
06/23/2012
gloomybear gloomybear
he has to get me in the mood lol
06/23/2012
CindyH CindyH
i give in even if not in the mood just to please him
06/23/2012
xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
My husband will try to get me in the mood. Lol.
06/23/2012
indiglo indiglo
Lately it's more often the opposite here too - me in the mood when he isn't. I've been dealing with it in a variety of ways, and not terribly successfully to be quite honest. It can get really frustrating. Hopefully things will pick back up again soon.

Or I might become murderous.
06/23/2012
Badass Badass
I generally just do it anyways..
06/24/2012
Total posts: 29
Unique posters: 26