Although My Man is pretty far from conservative in the bedroom, I'm still kinkier. My "hard limits" are fewer than his, and I like my porn and my fantasies much more weird than he likes his.
He's still the one who introduced me to sex toys, as well as to sex, though. He's far from "vanilla."
Sometimes he'll just walk by in in the kitchen (heaven knows what he was thinking about before) and just say, "You're a kinky little thing, ain't ya?"