We equally bring new things to our sex life. It's changing all the time.
Who's got the sexual creativity?
07/21/2010
We both have great ideas but I'm the one who researches products and orders things. Sometimes we just forget about certain things, though. We bought a bondage rope a year ago and still haven't used it! We're too horny to plan ahead
07/22/2010
I do
07/22/2010
He usually comes up with it, but I'm always game! Does that make it equal?
08/21/2010
It's usually me, but every so often he'll surprise me!
08/22/2010
pretty equal
10/22/2010
Up until very recently, I was far more creative. However, my wife has really turned it up significantly over the last couple months.
10/26/2010
We are both creative... I have more time on my hands to plan things, but he does when he can and when he does, O-M-G is all I can say, lol... I think that's why we always did have such sexual chemistry b/c we think so much alike...
10/26/2010
Its always me. He's just along for the ride...lol
10/26/2010
It's usually me in out relationship, though since he has joined EdenFantasys, it may become more equal sometime soon.
12/01/2010
I'd like to believe it's 50/50, but probably more like 60/40. He's more apt to talk about it and then do it and I just think about it and do it. We're both pretty vocal compared to a lot of other couples I have met in life.
12/01/2010
My boyfriend usually has a lot of the creativity. It's wonderful. I surprise him every now and again and have introduced toys in our sex.
12/01/2010
Me! If I didn't, we would always be having regular standard sex. Which isn't bad or anything... I just like to make the most of everything.
12/01/2010
Him, but just by a little. He's usually one to initiate the new crazy positions.
12/04/2010
I think for me its equal, were starting to use toys to spice up our relationship.
12/06/2010
You didn't list my answer so I am "other". I am female and he has the creativity.
He likes to torment me throughout the day with details of what he is going to do with me when he gets home. I love it!
He likes to torment me throughout the day with details of what he is going to do with me when he gets home. I love it!
12/07/2010
it's me most of the time
04/28/2011
he does ....i do but dont really share my ideas alot
04/28/2011
For the most part it's equal
04/28/2011
I'd say we're both pretty creative. He used to be much more than me when we first got together, but in the past few years I think I've managed to catch up.
08/20/2011
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Ditto. Left to his own devices, Bayo's, well..boring. Good thing he is (usually) up to try my ideas.
Originally posted by
Alan & Michele
Always me, but I wish he would now and again--- everyone likes surprises.
08/20/2011
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We are both here participating...almost every time. We BOTH are pretty creative in that area of our marriage.
Originally posted by
spicywife
After the thread about Relinquishing Control, it made me wonder if there is any type of pattern in sexual creativity in different relationships.
Who brings more of the sexual creativity to the relationship? ... more
Who brings more of the sexual creativity to the relationship? ... more
After the thread about Relinquishing Control, it made me wonder if there is any type of pattern in sexual creativity in different relationships.
Who brings more of the sexual creativity to the relationship? less
Who brings more of the sexual creativity to the relationship? less
08/20/2011
For us it's about even. We both have different things that push our buttons and different fantasies, so we each have our own ideas of things to try. What I like so much is that we're both open to talking about any idea, and even if the other person's idea isn't our personal fantasy we're pretty much both up to trying it, at least for the other person's enjoyment.
08/20/2011
I would say it's me 90% and her only 10% when I ask her to be!
08/21/2011
I'm more creative in general, but especially sexually.
03/05/2013
i am but he throws in a few suprises
06/13/2013
Me 100%
06/13/2013
My husband sometimes does... lately a lot more than myself
06/13/2013
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I don't know. It's not feeling so creative right now...time for one of us to be creative!
Originally posted by
spicywife
After the thread about Relinquishing Control, it made me wonder if there is any type of pattern in sexual creativity in different relationships.
Who brings more of the sexual creativity to the relationship? ... more
Who brings more of the sexual creativity to the relationship? ... more
After the thread about Relinquishing Control, it made me wonder if there is any type of pattern in sexual creativity in different relationships.
Who brings more of the sexual creativity to the relationship? less
Who brings more of the sexual creativity to the relationship? less
06/16/2013
I tend to be the more creative one in the relationship of whomever I'm with.
06/16/2013