Wish you were in better shape?

Contributor: link82 link82
When it comes to having sex, do you ever wish you were in better shape and/ or more flexible so that you could maintain your endurance or try more positions or make them easier and more comfortable for you?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Male: Yes - definitely!
6  (10%)
Male: Sometimes
3  (5%)
Male: Nope - I can do all that I want and need when having sex!
2  (3%)
Female: Yes - definitely!
36  (58%)
Female: Sometimes
9  (15%)
Female: Nope - I can do all that I want and need when having sex!
4  (6%)
Other (please explain)
2  (3%)
Total votes: 62
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Ghost Ghost
For myself- no. For my partner- yes.
08/11/2011
Contributor: Tart Tart
I could loose another 20 lbs, but for the most part I like my body just the way it is.
08/11/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
When it comes to having sex, do you ever wish you were in better shape and/ or more flexible so that you could maintain your endurance or try more positions or make them easier and more comfortable for you?
Most woman I know wish they were skinnier, better condition..etc. Most HUMANS do..male or female, I guess. However, it does not stop me from trying everything I can possibly do with my hubby...without breaking something, that is.
08/11/2011
Contributor: EdenG EdenG
Oh yeah, I definitely wish I was in better shape.
08/11/2011
Contributor: Gigi128 Gigi128
I wish I was in better shape!
08/11/2011
Contributor: Endocott Endocott
I've been trying to get more active lately. I stopped smoking, and started going to the gym a few times a week--it's a start!
08/12/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
When it comes to having sex, do you ever wish you were in better shape and/ or more flexible so that you could maintain your endurance or try more positions or make them easier and more comfortable for you?
I can have sex fine, with no problems. I seem to have nearly endless energy when we have sex.

I do wish I were in better shape for everyday things, though. I have fibromyalgia, and sometimes even going into the basement with a load of laundry is enough to wear me out for hours. I know getting in better shaped would help this, I need to DO IT!
08/12/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
Have no problems sex wise but yes wish i was in better shape.
08/12/2011
Contributor: exploringthechimera exploringthechimera
I want to be in better shape to feel better physically
08/12/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I try to exercise daily to keep in shape, or else I might get tired easily during sex.
08/12/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I can have sex fine, with no problems. I seem to have nearly endless energy when we have sex.

I do wish I were in better shape for everyday things, though. I have fibromyalgia, and sometimes even going into the basement with a load of laundry ... more
This is exactly the way I feel.

The simple things wear me out, not the sex. But hell yes, of course I'd like to be in better shape.

Even when I was 30 pounds lighter than I am now, going to the gym and running everyday, I wanted to be in better shape. I am guessing there is not a single person out there who'd say they are perfect shape and need no improvement.
08/12/2011
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
I do a lot of yoga and find that since I quit smoking almost two years ago I have no stamina issues or flexibility issues in bed, however in general I feel that being in "shape" is a journey and continues throughout your lifetime.
08/13/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I am thick on the bottom so certain positions (like woman on top) are difficult. I would like to lose 50-60 lbs.
08/13/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
Genderqueer, and yes. My health is terrible so I'd like to be fitter solely for that. Sex would be a nice benefit, but just not feeling horrid would be good.
08/13/2011
Contributor: briluminary briluminary
OOooOoH YEA.
08/13/2011
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
When it comes to having sex, do you ever wish you were in better shape and/ or more flexible so that you could maintain your endurance or try more positions or make them easier and more comfortable for you?
i could be in betetr shape
08/13/2011
Contributor: thebest thebest
male, yes
08/13/2011
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
Female, and sometimes.

I have a love hate relationship with it. I'm fairly fit, but have a layer of "pinchable" that I often wish weren't there. In the past when I got like that I'd up the frequency and intensity of my workouts and lose ten pounds or however much, but I found that when I go any lower than around 128-130 I also go down a bra size (to a C cup). My but got flatter too. And although my middle got smaller as well, I still felt a lot flatter and less feminine. So when I was 145ish I'd get insecure every now and then about what I called "flab" and what everyone else called "skin," and then when I lost the weight I wanted I'd get insecure because I wasn't curvy enough. So then I'd gain weight again and of course then get to where I thought I was too heavy and oh the drama!

I finally realized that there was in fact a happy medium where I both look and feel my personal best, which is around 132-135. I got there and have made it my business to stay there. I balanced my diet and exercise right and it's been a lot better.
11/12/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
Up until about two years ago, I was in great shape. Not supermodel shape or anything like that, but very physically fit. Then I was thrown from my horse and badly injured and during the very long recovery period, I gained weight and lost strength and flexibility. I am now VERY FRUSTRATED with my body. I had been working on getting back into shape, and was making progress when I was suddenly afflicted with pleurisy.

Let's just say that I am not at all happy with my body right now.
11/12/2011
Contributor: Mihoshi4301 Mihoshi4301
I always try to get into shape, but sometimes I just don't have enough time in the day.
11/12/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i work my ass off in the gym; there's a couple things that need to be slimmed down and tightened up, but overall, I'm pretty pleased with my body.
11/12/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I feel like I've never had a problem in the bedroom where I needed to be in better shape.
11/12/2011
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
When it comes to having sex, do you ever wish you were in better shape and/ or more flexible so that you could maintain your endurance or try more positions or make them easier and more comfortable for you?
definitely ..not just for sex either.and i would feel alot sexier if i didnt have my pooch from having kids.although..im very flexible and have no problem with new positions
11/13/2011
Contributor: Moein Moein
I wish I have more stronger muscles and a little bit taller. But it is ok now.
11/13/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I definitely want to be in far better shape for every aspect of my life.
01/14/2012
Contributor: ninja250 ninja250
Not so much for me but for her.
01/14/2012