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I don't mind my guy masturbating, but I probably have a more negative view of it than most people here. XD I get rather jealous if my partner masturbates if I'm available to be with him.
I felt like that for a LONG time with my ex husband, and worried about it in the beginning of my relationship now. It's normal to feel a little jealous, but when you're able to separate yourself from it, it's much easier to understand and appreciate.
My husband doesn't masturbate, and it actually bothers me a little bit. I wish he would experiment more to figure out what he enjoys (specifically with anal toys because that's something I have very little experience with). We don't do it often, but it's a HUGE turn on to me when we masturbate together. I love watching what he does and I can tell he appreciates it when I mimic those actions while we're playing together.