Women Touching Themselves

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Women Touching Themselves

OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
In movies I would see women pleasuring themselves with their fingers and hands. In real life though I have never seen or heard much of this. And I have been around the blocks a few times before getting married. Maybe just my first gf admitted to doing this.

Does any women still do this or used to ? Or toys are so available and superior. Does this only happen in the movies to get in our minds ?

If you do pleasure yourself, can you give your routine ?

Any brave souls out there ? Or men who have seen their gfs or SO's doing it ?
02/23/2015
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Inquisitor Inquisitor
I know you meant women who masturbate alone but would you consider those who masturbate with a partner during sex?
02/24/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
Good morning, luvs. Masterbation (not sure why I dislike that word--I'm going to pretty it up a bit..lol). Scratch that, Self pleasure is something that I have done and still continue to do rather regularly.

When I'm extra turned on, in the mood, or just in need of feeling 'good', my routine is a little like this:
I reach for my favorite Eros lube and start with some light, palmed strokes, all over. I gently play, stroke up and down in between the lips, gently starting to stimulate the clit from the outside. Then, I dip my middle finger inside my vag with soft thrusting movements. As I'm doing this, I like to use the pad of my palm to add a more firm pressure to my clit. I'm so incredibly aroused at this point that I want a nice hard release. So, I flip over on my belly, where I can really grind my clit against the palm of my hand, while pumping my finger (or 2) in and out. I'm able to hit my G, I can pretend I'm fucking my husband into oblivion (which gets me hotter), and I cum almost instantly
02/24/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Good morning, luvs. Masterbation (not sure why I dislike that word--I'm going to pretty it up a bit..lol). Scratch that, Self pleasure is something that I have done and still continue to do rather regularly.

When I'm extra turned ...
You do the flip belly thing too?
02/24/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Good morning, luvs. Masterbation (not sure why I dislike that word--I'm going to pretty it up a bit..lol). Scratch that, Self pleasure is something that I have done and still continue to do rather regularly.

When I'm extra turned ...
The Secretary does the belly flip too. Although as I mentioned she has never "pleasured herself" in front of me.

What drives us men ape shit is we know that by yourself you ladies get off right away. For us its like WHY CANT WE DO THAT!!!!

Awesome description though. As I said if I am going to play with my lady I want to know what will turn her on before she tells me. So thanks for the tips!
02/24/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
Sounds like the belly flip is pretty popular

I haven't done it in front of the husband either. BUT, I have been thinking about taking control of his hand one night (as he's playing with me) and then flipping over, using his hand just as I would my own Then, he would know exactly how I like it without me having to say a word (grin).
02/24/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I guess gals did more fingering before they accumulated good sex toys. So mostly during the adolescents years. I bet it's a good starting point though.

Just like guys touching themselves. Urggg, did I just say that ? I'll admit, I do it, so Ow will take over. Like as soon as we get in bed.
02/24/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I guess gals did more fingering before they accumulated good sex toys. So mostly during the adolescents years. I bet it's a good starting point though.

Just like guys touching themselves. Urggg, did I just say that ? I'll admit, I do ...
You know, I've never thought of "self manipulation" in bed with the purpose of getting the partner to take over. Does that work?
02/24/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
You know, I've never thought of "self manipulation" in bed with the purpose of getting the partner to take over. Does that work?
You're kidding me right ? She doesn't hold and fondle you every night ?

If not then I suggest you fondle her up there and down there as soon the two of you get in bed. She should reciprocate. If not then start a thread asking for advice !

Start by grabbing her behind, a_ _, while she is bending over the sink brushing her teeth.

Hey Inq,

Don't take my words too seriously, I'm just razzing your bones !
02/24/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Sounds like the belly flip is pretty popular

I haven't done it in front of the husband either. BUT, I have been thinking about taking control of his hand one night (as he's playing with me) and then flipping over, using his hand ...
Cant lie! Thats kinda hot id be down with that.
02/24/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Cant lie! Thats kinda hot id be down with that.
Problem would be though... the second you would start getting really wet and bucking your hips I would be all begging to go down on you. Id probably never get around to finishing you that way.
02/24/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Problem would be though... the second you would start getting really wet and bucking your hips I would be all begging to go down on you. Id probably never get around to finishing you that way.
LOL LOL LOL. seems like a fair/good reaction to me. Ha!!! I am definitely going to give it a try now.
02/24/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
You're kidding me right ? She doesn't hold and fondle you every night ?

If not then I suggest you fondle her up there and down there as soon the two of you get in bed. She should reciprocate. If not then start a thread asking for ...
We don't live together and really!? Did you honestly think that would bother me? I'm a big boy and I can handle some good natured ribbing. It's all good O.H. Also, the sink and brushing the teeth thing, she doesn't like to be bothered when she is brushing her teeth. Something about a fear of choking...

Good tip though. I'm gonna have to keep that in mind.
02/24/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
We don't live together and really!? Did you honestly think that would bother me? I'm a big boy and I can handle some good natured ribbing. It's all good O.H. Also, the sink and brushing the teeth thing, she doesn't like to be bothered ...
Hey Inq,

Just playing it safe. Never know what side of bed ones gets up on. I just saw a friend blow up at this guy yesterday at the gym. Over a simple question. I stepped in to avoid fisticuffs.

Also I've had another person blow up at something I said. And I mean blow up ! I actually stayed away from the forum for about a month.
02/25/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Hey Inq,

Just playing it safe. Never know what side of bed ones gets up on. I just saw a friend blow up at this guy yesterday at the gym. Over a simple question. I stepped in to avoid fisticuffs.

Also I've had another person ...
Awww, but you have always been so helpfu. I find that hard to believe I see you as a big softie
02/25/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Just yesterday asked Ow if she ever fingers herself anywhere but in the shower.

She pulled out her latest toy, the Infinity Rechargeable Vibrator. Turned it on played with the 10 patterns for about 30 mins. I guess that was my answer.

Here's the link to her latest and our next item to review:
link

I can tell you now it will get a high rating. I performed the finger test in her afterwards.... wet, wet, very wet

And she hates it when I wipe my finger on her !

Now tell my none of you have every wiped it on your partner.
03/02/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Just yesterday asked Ow if she ever fingers herself anywhere but in the shower.

She pulled out her latest toy, the Infinity Rechargeable Vibrator. Turned it on played with the 10 patterns for about 30 mins. I guess that was my answer. ...
Again, I love her spunk Quite the minx you have

I'm with her on the personal 'goo' lol. I don't particularly want mine on me but I don't mind his lol. I guess I have a wee bit of a double standard As long as it doesn't go cold! No cold goo...I'm out lol
03/02/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Just yesterday asked Ow if she ever fingers herself anywhere but in the shower.

She pulled out her latest toy, the Infinity Rechargeable Vibrator. Turned it on played with the 10 patterns for about 30 mins. I guess that was my answer. ...
Can't say I have ever wiped my finger on my partner. Usually she is wiping me off her. She doesn't like that too much.
03/03/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Again, I love her spunk Quite the minx you have

I'm with her on the personal 'goo' lol. I don't particularly want mine on me but I don't mind his lol. I guess I have a wee bit of a double standard As long as it ...
"No cold goo..."
03/03/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Can't say I have ever wiped my finger on my partner. Usually she is wiping me off her. She doesn't like that too much.
Has she ever put it in your mouth after wiping you off of her ? I will admit quite a few times I've put hers in my mouth.

When I wipe her's on her, it to show her I know she was cumming or near cumming. Lol, takes a lot to make her cum. She's no "Easy comer" by a long shot.

03/03/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Has she ever put it in your mouth after wiping you off of her ? I will admit quite a few times I've put hers in my mouth.

When I wipe her's on her, it to show her I know she was cumming or near cumming. Lol, takes a lot to make ...
O.H., your wife makes you work for her orgasm. That is super hot! I like a little challenge some times. Throw in a little "dirty talk" and its a real good time!

I thought I was the only one. Sometimes I will also "taste" my partner. I try to sneak it in when I'm going down though. It will be like an "oops, I slipped " moment.
03/04/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
I've never had my husband blatantly do a finger taste before. I think if he did, I would FALL OUT! It would definitely catch my breath and be super HOT!!!! how's a girl supposed to work now lol (as I repeatedly cross my legs)
03/04/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
O.H., your wife makes you work for her orgasm. That is super hot! I like a little challenge some times. Throw in a little "dirty talk" and its a real good time!

I thought I was the only one. Sometimes I will also "taste" my ...
No, not super hot. At least not for me. More like tiring. Thay's where the Drei is suppose to come in. Like tag team effort.

Esp after a hard day or work and then returning from the gym. Y, dirty talk helps. Makes me instead of her cum faster though.
03/04/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
No, not super hot. At least not for me. More like tiring. Thay's where the Drei is suppose to come in. Like tag team effort.

Esp after a hard day or work and then returning from the gym. Y, dirty talk helps. Makes me instead of her cum ...
I love it!!!
03/04/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
I've never had my husband blatantly do a finger taste before. I think if he did, I would FALL OUT! It would definitely catch my breath and be super HOT!!!! how's a girl supposed to work now lol (as I repeatedly cross my legs)
Bring an extra pair to work.

How about tonight, after prep you do the dipping and let him taste it. It may lead to something. It's like a measurement.


Hey, for the rest of you readers, we're just funning with one another. A fun forum is better than no forum.

If admin wants us to stop, they'll let us know.
03/04/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
Now there's an idea OH!!!

Who wants a boring forum??? Not THIS girl. That's why I visit . Nobody wants a party pooper I like fun
03/05/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Now there's an idea OH!!!

Who wants a boring forum??? Not THIS girl. That's why I visit . Nobody wants a party pooper I like fun
Well, what was his verdict? Did he like the taste of it ? Did he ask for seconds ? That's a smiley asking for more.
03/06/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Well, what was his verdict? Did he like the taste of it ? Did he ask for seconds ? That's a smiley asking for more.
I was the Virgin Mary this week. Lol we had 000 action lol I'm hoping to rectify that here soon so stay tuned and I will let you know. It's been a hell of a week so I have some inner vixen to burn off.
03/06/2015
The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Sounds like the belly flip is pretty popular

I haven't done it in front of the husband either. BUT, I have been thinking about taking control of his hand one night (as he's playing with me) and then flipping over, using his hand ...
this is a great idea to do the belly flip is awesome
03/08/2015
Andykh Andykh
My wife does it and she really likes it and most of the time I enjoy watching her while she is doing it. Before she started doing this tho I told her I thought it was hot and the rest has been history
03/29/2015
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