Women: What does Ejaculate feel like?

newlady newlady
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I can feel it. I have feeling for the entire length of my vagina and even my cervix.

It feels like hot, liquid love being shot inside of you. MMMMMM. I LOVE it. But, we use withdrawal as a birth control method, so the only time we do it is ... More
Wow. That's almost exactly like me!
I do miss it too...I find condoms don't allow me to feel all the contours and ridges of his penis and the smell...yuk. But at this age, I really am not going to take a chance, so condoms it is! I have never minded the clean up. No big deal, really.
02/16/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Owl Identified
This is funny, my mother was explaining the "let down" thing from breastfeeding to me yesterday. She said it's like Valium, lol.
It actually releases chemicals into your body which are almost identical to Valium. I used to doze during milk ejection (or letdown) all the time. Some of the chemicals released during milk letdown are the same as those shot into your system during orgasm. I think it's only one of myriad reasons why a new breastfeeding mother's sex drive is usually low. That, and she has a human being to keep alive ALL by herself.
02/16/2011
Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
More so than the feel of ejaculation itself, I think the best difference between a condom vs no condom would be the skin on skin sensation.
As others have stated, you can feel the hardness as they get close and sometimes even the pulsing, but not really the cum itself. Until it seeps out.
02/16/2011
Chilipepper Chilipepper
It was mostly psychological in my case. The fact that he's in me, giving me his offering, knowing that a powerful part of his body now belongs to me ... I think I enjoyed his orgasm more than him.

I like the feeling of skin-on-skin. The warmth is more intimate. There's a charge in knowing that you're in contact with the most sensitive part of their body. And when he pulses and shoots ... the 'knowing' is indescribable.
02/16/2011
TeaganChase TeaganChase
I personally HATE condoms. Even thin ones. They feel weird, they smell, and like someone else said it's like fucking a baggie.
I love the feeling of when my bf comes in me. We've had the talk of if it happens that just the way it is. Boom we're parents. Neither of us mind. So we never use condoms. And im not on birth control.
Personally I can't actually feel the semen squirting out but I can feel his penis contracting. And right before I can tell a noticeable difference in how hard he is. I love it. The closeness it brings is amazing too.
Afterwards when he pulls out it immediately starts dripping out. Very much like during your period where it feels like a jumbo amount is leaking but it's never really that much. We both get up and clean ourselves off though anyway. So that's no big deal. I go pee so no UTIs and squeeze like kegels and mostly it all comes out. I have super strong muscles though from years of gymnastics. After that we snuggle and come down.
02/16/2011
Liz2 Liz2
I did use condoms prior to my IUD. He now ejaculates in my vagina, I don't feel the moment of ejaculation but I can tell from his throbbing cock, that he is about to come. I do use my Kegels, I feel as I am just squeezing everything out of him. Yea, I usually get up and pee and cleanup as I don't want to sleep in the wet spot. I don't enjoy wetness in my panties or leaking semen down my leg as both have occurred.
I don't find ejaculate gross but I just don't want it hanging around...
02/16/2011
loveshocks loveshocks
My boyfriend and I recently stopped using condoms, we use them for anal but not vaginal sex.

It doesn't really feel like much to me. I mostly just feel his body, muscle movements, things like that, but that's really more of a pressure thing. The feeling of the ejaculate doesn't ever really register in my mind unless it's near the entrance of my vagina or coming out.
02/16/2011
toxie m toxie m
I find that I like some parts of it - I like the feeling of closeness psychologically and like I'm accepting all of him. I don't mind the dripping out afterwards - it's akin to that sudden flow/leaking feeling when you start your period and it's just a sudden "well, gotta get me to some kleenex, asap". In the past (and sometimes still) I find that I'm slightly physically irritated by ejaculate. I'm much sorer if we go for a 2nd round and he came in me the first time. Not exactly sure why this is, but it's the main reason I sometimes would rather him finish somewhere else.
02/16/2011
sweet seduction sweet seduction
For me it's more of a closeness thing than the actually feeling but I love it. Then again I now have a 5 month old
02/16/2011
sbon sbon
Like you, I've never felt it. I can't imagine it would be that bad though.
02/17/2011
girl next door girl next door
Haven't done it and won't until I am married most likely and wanting to get pregnant.
02/17/2011
Astia Astia
The main difference I've noticed is that the twitching is stronger, plus I can feel a warmth radiating through me from it. It does tend to ooze out, kinda gross but usually save it for the shower, so not a big deal really. =P
02/17/2011
pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I've never experienced a guy coming inside me-without a condom. I'm saving that for marriage. I've heard horror storied about it:

It's gross
Feels weird
Oooozing
Etc.

I'm curious...
Have you done it? Do ... More
I think it feels amazing! Especially after really hot sex with someone you love! Its very intimate to be because it is not done regularly.
02/17/2011
Fun Lover Fun Lover
Feeling it will depend on the amount, and force of the orgasm. I love it when my husband cums inside me, because I feel I have taken care of him, and it shows our love for each other. I know when he cums inside me he feels satisfied and cleanup is no big deal.
02/17/2011
KikiChrome KikiChrome
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Originally posted by Rockin'
I don't know cervical biology. Pressure seems to be the key to a lot of pleasure and pain in that area, though. I've always had a female gyn, and almost always I've experienced discomfort (I liken it to a gentle testicle tap). I feel ... More
Funny thing is, I know my cervix is very sensitive too (hurts like heck and makes me nauseous even when faced with a gentle touch, let alone a Pap smear)(don't even get me started on biopsies!)... but I still can't really feel a man ejaculating inside me. The only thing I can feel is the heat of it and a bit of a pulsation from him.

Truthfully though, I used condoms religiously, so the only time I've ever gone "bareback" it wasn't really by choice. I don't dislike the sensation, but I'm pretty indifferent to it.

It certainly does make things feel a little more intimate, which I guess would be a good thing in the right circumstances.
02/18/2011
KikiChrome KikiChrome
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I've actually found male doctors are MUCH more gentle during PAP smears. Being a nurse, I am not a big fan of female doctors. IMO, they think every other woman is a "baby" and don't empathize with any pain they don't have ... More
And I've had good and bad doctors of both genders, but I hear what you're saying. Empathy certainly helps.

The worst gynecologist I ever had (who told me I was "unbalanced" when I said how much the procedure was hurting, left me bleeding for a week and didn't so much as apologize) was a woman.
02/18/2011
Liz2 Liz2
This thread is interesting in that when we used condoms, I always thought I was kinda weird in that ribbed or textured condoms never did anything for me, from this thread, I don't think I am alone. Anyway, I now have an IUD.
02/18/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by KikiChrome
And I've had good and bad doctors of both genders, but I hear what you're saying. Empathy certainly helps.

The worst gynecologist I ever had (who told me I was "unbalanced" when I said how much the procedure was hurting, ... More
I'm sorry you had to go through that. Pain is not something that someone not experiencing it should judge. If something hurts, it hurts one's "balance" has nothing to do with it.

But, I've worked with doctors who act like anything short of losing a limb without anesthesia should be experienced as painless by the patient.
02/18/2011
KnK KnK
I've never had it without a condom precisely because of the very idea of having a goopy feeling in there just grosses me out. I think I would likewise wait until it was with someone I was planning on having kids with or that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with them and they got snipped if we decided we didn't want kids. I have no idea if I want kids or not yet...I'm not ready to be a mother.
02/18/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by KnK
I've never had it without a condom precisely because of the very idea of having a goopy feeling in there just grosses me out. I think I would likewise wait until it was with someone I was planning on having kids with or that I wanted to spend the ... More
JFTR, a vasectomy does not reduce the amount of ejaculate noticeably. Sperm are very small, and even in quantities of several hundred million, they make up almost no visible amount of ejaculate. Most of ejaculate is prostate fluid. A lot of men think they will not have any ejaculate when they have a vasectomy, but the volume is the same.
02/18/2011
Airekah Airekah
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I've never experienced a guy coming inside me-without a condom. I'm saving that for marriage. I've heard horror storied about it:

It's gross
Feels weird
Oooozing
Etc.

I'm curious...
Have you done it? Do ... More
I have done it, I would not say that I like it or dislike it. For me it doesn't add to stimulation or make anything better on my part. However, the aftermath is disgusting. There is leaking and oozing. It doesn't really feel any different than female ejaculation leaking out, so there is no weird feeling. It's just unpleasant momentarily.
02/18/2011
Kaltir Kaltir
It depends on how hard/how much he cums. If it's been a little while and he cums very hard, then I love the way it feels! Every time he cums he thrusts one last time, as forceful as he can, getting as deep as he can (and only because some post say they can only feel it if their partner isn't as deep, I have to say, it's not for lack of depth, lol), and he holds it there. It's on of my favorite feelings
02/18/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by P'Gell
JFTR, a vasectomy does not reduce the amount of ejaculate noticeably. Sperm are very small, and even in quantities of several hundred million, they make up almost no visible amount of ejaculate. Most of ejaculate is prostate fluid. A lot of men ... More
The volume of ejaculate generally goes down as men age - some erroneously blame it on their vasectomy - but as you say, it doesn't have anything to do with it.
02/18/2011
CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I've never experienced a guy coming inside me-without a condom. I'm saving that for marriage. I've heard horror storied about it:

It's gross
Feels weird
Oooozing
Etc.

I'm curious...
Have you done it? Do ... More
O I love it! It feels great. Most of the time we end up finishing at the same time and everything is so slippery and wet. He says it feels great inside and I like to please
02/21/2011
CSEA CSEA
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Originally posted by Dame Saphir
My boyfriend and I have both had very safe sexual histories, have been tested for everything, and I'm on birth control, so we rarely use condoms.

When he comes, it feels warm, but I can feel the contraction of his muscles more than I can ... More
Lol yes! It always oozes out
02/21/2011
Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
ive always wondered the same thing
04/17/2011
Mommy2 Mommy2
I have done it and and like it and dont like it at the same time. I like the way it feels but its messy which I hate!
04/17/2011
Batty Harlot Batty Harlot
I haven't had my man finish off inside me without a condom, but I've always been curious about it. My friend has and she said she hated it. She could feel it oozing inside her, and it tickled in a really annoying way because there was nothing she could do to stop it.
04/17/2011
mandiegk mandiegk
I never feel it when it happens. But I agree with others, it always oozes out and gets a little messy.
04/18/2011
link82 link82
Never experienced this...
04/19/2011
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