Would it bother you for your partner to get a massage from someone of the opposite sex?

Martiniman Martiniman
I'm not necessarily talking about an erotic massage, but one at a spa. Even so, they are nude under a sheet with someone of the opposite sex rubbing their body for pleasure. Does that or would that bother you? If so, do you ask your partner to choose a same sex masseuse or do you grin and bare it?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, it bothers me.
No, I'm ok with it.
13  (42%)
I answered yes and I ask my partner to choose a same sex masseuse.
I answered yes, but I grin and bare it.
My partner has never had a massage, but I'd be ok with it.
13  (42%)
My partner has never had a massage, but an opposite sex masseuse would bother me
1  (3%)
Other...please give details.
4  (13%)
Total votes: 31
Poll is closed
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indiglo indiglo
I'd have no problem with it. Many places you do leave your underwear on down below, and they still drape you with a sheet. (And one across your breasts for women.) At least where I've gone that's how they do it. Anyhoo, I used to get professional massages on a regular basis (from a man - he was the owner & the person they send all the tough cases to, or people with certain issues to), it felt amaaaaaazing and I always felt better for several days afterward.

There was nothing sexual about it, he was just doing his job and he was super professional. In fact, the statement you had to sign at that place said that if YOU did or said anything sexual you'd be asked to leave. It's a really swanky place and they keep everything on the up and up.

I'd have no problem if my man went and got a professional massage in the same way from a woman. He's never had one, but it wouldn't bother me. I'd probably be jealous that I didn't get a massage though! LOL
01/09/2013
ne1469694u ne1469694u
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
I'm not necessarily talking about an erotic massage, but one at a spa. Even so, they are nude under a sheet with someone of the opposite sex rubbing their body for pleasure. Does that or would that bother you? If so, do you ask your partner to ... More
yes
01/09/2013
BlooJay BlooJay
My girlfriend has never gotten a massage, but I don't think it would bother me if she got a massage from a male.
01/09/2013
Flower1 Flower1
I'd be okay with it.
01/09/2013
Rossie Rossie
It doesn't bother me, because we get couples massage in the same room. And like indiglo said, we have our underwear on.
01/09/2013
Mwar Mwar
I'm going to sound weird I bet. I wouldn't mind if he did, but I'd like to get one are the same time in a couple's massage setting. He can have the pretty lady and i'll take the hunky man. Then we go home and have awesome sex!

Who's with me? Anyone?
01/09/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
No..she gets them already, but doesn't bother me
01/09/2013
rosythorn rosythorn
I don't care, it's like if he had a female doctor.
01/09/2013
FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
id be ok with it
01/09/2013
Gracie Gracie
A good massage therapist is a good massage therapist. Gender is irrelevent!!!
01/09/2013
nikki0668 nikki0668
I would be okay with it.
01/09/2013
Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
No biggie. It is not like he is getting a "massage" at some "rub-n-tug" joint.
01/09/2013
LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
Haha! I don't have that kind of self esteem issues. She can even massage his ass. I personally don't think it's a complete massage without getting my ass rubbed. The muscles on there get more tense than one would think.
01/09/2013
novanilla novanilla
If someone got mad about this that would be dumb.
01/09/2013
amazon amazon
Works for me
01/09/2013
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
Maybe if they flirt with them and stuff
01/09/2013
Hermosura21 Hermosura21
Ill be.ok.
01/09/2013
KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
doesnt bother me. i trust him
01/10/2013
chicmichiw chicmichiw
As in, from a registered masseuse or just from another girl in a social setting? The first wouldn't bother me, the second...hmm!
01/10/2013
Edeneve Edeneve
I only know about spa massages to be for working out aches & pain. and, underwear is typically worn.
01/10/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I have no problem with it.
01/11/2013
Total posts: 22
Unique posters: 22