Although I do not switch, ever. I do Top from the Bottom a lot
. The other day, we were going at it, and all of a sudden I realized I was almost giving him orders. I mean, not "orders" but strong suggestions. I apologized and he laughed and did what I asked for anyway. We have the kind of relationship where I can ask for things, I try not to get bossy, though.
Sometimes he picks the activities and the toys, other times he leaves it completely up to me, "What do you want?" I always feel on the spot. "What do I want?" I kind of (really) like it when he makes most of the decisions. Unless he picks the hard Marble G Spotter and I'm not in the mood for Full Frontal Cervix Attack. He hasn't quite mastered the art of using really hard toys. ("Honey, rocking
is good, thrusting
is for silicone." That's probably one of the reasons I haven't gotten an NJoy toy
(Steel dildo) yet. I really was thinking about it for my Holiday Coupon purchase, but in the end, I didn't get one.
Maybe next time.