Your partner and your toy collection.

Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I don't have a in person partner but my Master loves my toys - the more and bigger, the better!
02/20/2011
Contributor: Astia Astia
My husband loves toys, using them on me and having some (most, even the most phallic ones, but shhhh =P) of them used on him. He just laughs whenever I get a new order in and have to move everything to a bigger box
02/20/2011
Contributor: TeaganChase TeaganChase
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Originally posted by Astia
My husband loves toys, using them on me and having some (most, even the most phallic ones, but shhhh =P) of them used on him. He just laughs whenever I get a new order in and have to move everything to a bigger box
I am very close to that point. I've already had to move them from a drawer to a storage box. And I fear my latest order when it arrives will make me have to buy yet another one for them
02/20/2011
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
My significant other was brought up very sexually conservative and, before me, has never seen a sex toy in real life. He's not threatened by them, but is semi-hesitant to use them during sex or foreplay. He's also extremely practical, and having lots of things that are, essentially, used for the same purpose is unnecessary.

But he does realize that they are a "passion" (used loosely) of mine, and doesn't disrespect them or disrespect me because of them.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I had a significant collection when I started dating my present b/f. He was initially intimidated by toys but has really come around...when he travels, he will sometimes buy me a new toy and now he frequently chooses a toy, cleans and lubes it and places it on the nightstand, ready for play.
My b/f also says toys have made it easier on his jaw as he says, he doesn't have to work as hard.
02/20/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Ehehehe... We totally just had a toy collection night. He loved it. It was a surprise to him that I have been collecting so many lately, and that I've been involved in the EF review program so am getting some discount/free toys. Oh man we had fun. Started the evening with me giving him a BJ but using the Tentacle dildo.... and it just rolled on from there! He's really happy that I've gotten into butt plugs and the like, because it means that it's far easier to have anal intercourse now.
02/20/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
He was like... you have boxes and boxes more of these, don't you? I want to see them!
02/20/2011
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
My dominant enjoys my toys. He sees them as something more for him to use on me.
02/20/2011
Contributor: teeny <3 teeny <3
My man has mixed emotions about by toy arsenal and is trying to be a good sport.

He takes it as a good sign that I have such a strong sex drive, and is ok with small pocket rockets and bullets. But he's worried about being replaced and gets insecure when he sees anything insertable.

It's frustrating and I have to remind him that my dildos can't hold me and tell me I'm beautiful and loved like he does. My new strategy is to hold an actual full size vibrator against my clit, rather than a small bullet, during sex. I'm hoping overtime maybe he'll get more comfortable seeing me interact with dildos and vibrators and will warm up to the idea of using them together.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
My partner gets intimidated, especially the more my collection grows. He wonders why I would want to play with so many different vibrators, especially when my sex drive tends to be lower than most. But they're all so different!
02/20/2011
Contributor: Elbert's Angel Elbert's Angel
My husband didn't know what hit him or what to make of it when all the toys first starting appearing, but we are very good at communicating and after I explained that he was fantastic and very very good that the toys were just meant as a added bonus for us to explorer with, he got into it. Now he loves them so much he is not only going out and buying new toys for us but sex furniture as well.
03/15/2011
Contributor: Lily Night Lily Night
My boyfriend really loves when I get new toys. In fact, hes the one who stumbled upon eden and told me about this site and now we both share this account and write review for our respective purchases. I think it works out wonderfully because he's usually the one to see the great deals and tell me about them. Sometimes he's even more excited than me to get a new toy. I think he likes knowing that I can have fun on my own too. I don't think guys should see it as a threat. Instead they should see it as a way to make the bedroom more fun for the both of them.
03/15/2011
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by TeaganChase
I'm just curious to know how everyones partner looks at their toy collection. Do they see it as a threat? Do they enjoy them as much as you? Are they as excited as you are when a new one arrives?

I just placed a massive order using the ... more
hubby loves my toy collection, he always gets me new ones to use with me
11/28/2012
Contributor: Mr. John Mr. John
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Originally posted by TeaganChase
I'm just curious to know how everyones partner looks at their toy collection. Do they see it as a threat? Do they enjoy them as much as you? Are they as excited as you are when a new one arrives?

I just placed a massive order using the ... more
No exact count, but we have a ridiculous amount of toys from most of the Nob Essence line, Njoy line, Lelo Insignia line, Vixskin (full line), Tantus (too many), We-vibe Salsa's and Tango's, Phallix Glass dichroic, vacuum pump toys, Hitachi w/ speed control and many silicone accessories, Liberator shapes such as the Hitachi axis, Bonbon, Wing, and various wedges, Throe and Splash, etc. etc.. Most of these still sit unopened, or just not used. Truth be told, my wife covets her Eroscillator above all others. She's happy, so I'm happy. But I also from time to time remind her she has other options. Oh! She at least still uses me.
03/18/2013
Contributor: StarrStacked StarrStacked
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Originally posted by TeaganChase
I'm just curious to know how everyones partner looks at their toy collection. Do they see it as a threat? Do they enjoy them as much as you? Are they as excited as you are when a new one arrives?

I just placed a massive order using the ... more
I don't think the bf gets excited when I get new toys but he does enjoy using them so who knows?
03/21/2013
Contributor: kurtster79 kurtster79
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Originally posted by TeaganChase
I'm just curious to know how everyones partner looks at their toy collection. Do they see it as a threat? Do they enjoy them as much as you? Are they as excited as you are when a new one arrives?

I just placed a massive order using the ... more
It is our collection and I pay for the toys in it
03/21/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
My husband doesn't care for my toys. He doesn't mind that I have them or want more. He doesn't really care to use them on me, or want to hear about them. He thinks I'm a crazy freak, because I like to chill out around the house with a butt plug in. *shrugs* I wish he was more into it.
03/22/2013
Contributor: Match5444 Match5444
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Originally posted by TeaganChase
That is hilarious. But I agree variety is the spice of life I feel.
Menapause is painful. there's been no penatration for along while.as long as I can give her a good tounging to make her have an orgasm I'm happy.she loves to put her vibrator at the top of her clit and have me below licking both clit and her realistic dick vibrator. after each orgasm she holds it to my toung and tells me to keep licking till she's ready agian. if it makes her feel good I'll be her bi licker
09/07/2018
Contributor: Taz Demann Taz Demann
We have a really big tote we call the toy chest, it's full of different dildos and must weigh 50 lbs. She prefers the larger size (thick) dildo's and I enjoy using them on her. She shy when it comes to sex but tells me what she likes and at times what toy to use on her. The size doesn't bother me as I'm comfortable with her needs and support her in her efforts for sexual satisfaction. I love pleasing her and the rewards that effort brings to me.
09/08/2018