Girls Lieing bout masturbating

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Girls Lieing bout masturbating

cobiffle cobiffle
Idk if its just me but i have found it that girls are more willing to lie about doing this type of things. The thing is though when you come onto sites like these, a lot of women are very open about everything and go into details. Is it that they just tried to hide it in public but internet they are more free even though a lot more people can see
03/01/2011
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Eden C. Eden C.
I think that most people masturbate. I did, however, have a roommate who claimed she did not masturbate. At first, I didn't believe her, but after living with her for a year, I believe she was telling the truth.
03/01/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm open about it everywhere.
I love playing, I have a good collection of toys and I wouldn't stop for anyone....hehehe.
03/01/2011
toxie m toxie m
Well, this site is also not a very good sample of ALL girls and women. It's a sex toy site- the vast majority of women on here masturbate and are open about it. If they weren't comfortable with that kind of thing, they wouldn't be here. So while some women out in the real world may be deceptive about their self-lovin', it's completely possible that they honest-to-god don't masturbate. I have a handful of female friends who don't do it or do it very rarely, or just started doing it very recently and aren't comfortable talking about it openly. Stats from EF really aren't very representative of women on the whole.

That said, a lot of women are shy about the subject and might just say they don't masturbate in order to avoid talking about it. Fair enough, it's pretty personal.

Guys, generally speaking, start masturbating at an earlier age than girls and have more time to get the hang of it and be comfortable with it. It's also just more socially accepted (and expected) for them.
03/01/2011
liilii080 liilii080
In general, talking about sex, like talking about money, can be taboo. There are a lot of social, cultural, and religious beliefs that govern the way people think, feel, and talk about sex and masturbation. If someone lies about it, they have their reasons and that is their business. I don't think anyone should be put on the spot or chastised for not wanting to discuss it. Maybe they are ashamed or embarrassed or believe the old lines like they'll go blind. Who knows? But, whether they do or do not lie is not for me to judge and what difference does it really make in the grand scheme of things?
03/01/2011
Istanbull Istanbull
My wife won't talk about it and swears she doesn't but every once in a while I see the toys in our toy box have been moved, and not by me.
03/02/2011
potstickers potstickers
I think a lot of girls say they don't because they've been taught it's not socially "accepted," and only guys can masturbate.
03/02/2011
sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by cobiffle
Idk if its just me but i have found it that girls are more willing to lie about doing this type of things. The thing is though when you come onto sites like these, a lot of women are very open about everything and go into details. Is it that they ...
I think that until a woman is comfortable with her body she tends to get embarassed about masturbation. Once she figures it out, its on!
03/05/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
I think a lot of women claiming they don't masturbate comes from being raised to believe that anything sexual is "dirty" or "wrong" and that "ladies don't do that". It takes a while to form your own beliefs about such things.
03/05/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I know a lot of people who do it but are worried about talking about it in case they get judged. They are afraid that people will see them in a negative light because they masturbate. Until society is more open about women masturbating as they are about men, there will be judgement and people who are afraid to speak up.
03/05/2011
viciouschristine viciouschristine
I've tried bringing up masturbation in conversations with my closest female friends, and they all seem to think it's "totally gross" and something that only guys do. I'd love to see the day when that stereotype is shattered, and every woman finally understands that masturbating is *definitely* not just for guys and is anything but gross - it's a way for women to understand and love their own bodies.
03/11/2011
aBeastlyLittleThing aBeastlyLittleThing
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Originally posted by cobiffle
Idk if its just me but i have found it that girls are more willing to lie about doing this type of things. The thing is though when you come onto sites like these, a lot of women are very open about everything and go into details. Is it that they ...
i think most people masturbate, or have in the past at least...but girls definitely tend to lie more from what i've seen. idk...i think it's the social stigma kindof...that girls who are open about their sexuality are automatically whores. it's sad, really. men can talk openly about jacking off, but when women mention it, they're sluts who sleep with everyone they meet. women should be able to have openly healthy sexual appetites the same way men can.

p.s. i am soo open about it! i'll talk about it in front of ANYONE. gramma? hell yeah! i don't put y toys away when i have company. if the last place i used one was on the couch, you'll have to sit on the other cushion.
03/15/2011
purplekidney purplekidney
She: That whole phrase "X% of women masturbate and (100-X)% lie" is so not true. I didn't masturbate at all until I was 20 or so, and then tried it only very occasionally only at his suggestion. I can probably count on one hand the times that I've masturbated.

For some reason, I don't count "mutual masturbation" as masturbation because it's usually foreplay and we're always helping each other out. If that counts, then you can basically disregard all that above. I don't think I've ever bothered lying about it though if masturbation ever came up.
04/11/2011
Ansley Ansley
It's a very private activity and most people wouldn't share those things unless you were being affected by them. It's really no one's business and it shouldn't come as such a shock that the loudest voices claiming they don't are the ones who do it the most.

I don't go around asking people if they masturbate and if the subject comes up and they deny it, that's on them. I deny the things I do if it comes up and I'm not comfortable sharing.
04/11/2011
Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
My Mom (now) seems to be completely against masturbating or even sex in general, but she had several toys and magazines which I discovered when I was young and explained to me that masturbating or being aroused by either gender was perfectly Ok.



That was about as much as I got of a sex talk from my Mom, but it was good advice!

As far as lying, I think that many girls are likely told that it's not Ok or that it's dirty so they feel shameful and think need to lie to be accepted.
04/11/2011
oohlookasquirrel oohlookasquirrel
I'll bet a lot of the "no, I don't masturbate" girls/women are actually "no, I don't want to talk about my sex life with you" women.
04/17/2011
(k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
Sadly, society has taught us that sexuality should be kept secret. It's unladylike to talk about your masturbation habits.
That's why I'm so grateful for this website, where they promote openness, self acceptance, and safety.
12/06/2011
Lindsey123 Lindsey123
I have toys. I have lingerie. I don't masturbate. I don't like it. I haven't for years. I don't care if people do, or talk about it. It's just not something I'm into.
12/06/2011
toxie m toxie m
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Originally posted by Lindsey123
I have toys. I have lingerie. I don't masturbate. I don't like it. I haven't for years. I don't care if people do, or talk about it. It's just not something I'm into.
Thanks for adding your voice to this conversation, Lindsey123. Being the community that it is, EF is heavily biased in the other direction but I think it's really valuable to have someone come out on the other side of the generalization and say, "Hey, I exist, thanks."

Just because masturbation is enjoyed by many people (and if you spend too much time on here, it may seem like ALL people), you can't assume that anyone who says they don't do it is lying. It takes all types, and making assumptions about other people's personal lives really doesn't help anything.
12/07/2011
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
I have two female friends that I KNOW do not masturbate. It kind of weirds me out because I do it so much.
12/07/2011
Vanille Vanille
I don't lie about doing it, I just don't talk about it. My sex life is private.
12/07/2011
PeachieClean PeachieClean
I've never met a girl who claimed not to masturbate. It may just be where I live, but everyone I know is pretty open about it. Even the "good girls" since masturbating is considered "better" than sleeping with 10-12 people in a month.
12/07/2011
Collogue Collogue
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Originally posted by cobiffle
Idk if its just me but i have found it that girls are more willing to lie about doing this type of things. The thing is though when you come onto sites like these, a lot of women are very open about everything and go into details. Is it that they ...
I don't like lying about masturbating, but depending on the context I won't go into personal details with everyone
12/07/2011
interestingstuff interestingstuff
I have only talked to one friend about masturbating, and although I could not say outright that I masturbated, I told her that EVERYONE does it, and made mucho emphasis on EVERYONE. I think she got the point.
12/08/2011
MelSC MelSC
I find I am a lot more open online than I am in person (though it does depend on who I am talking to) but even in real life I wont deny or lie about anything regarding masturbation.
12/08/2011
LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
everyone masterbates one point in their life. I sure hells do and love it.
12/08/2011
Chirple Chirple
Some people just don't have a high sex drive or don't realise what they can do. Before toys, I was NEVER able to get myself off - so why bother ? It was boring.

I think it's, in general, harder for a girl to "get to know herself" and achieve pleasurable results. If you can't get your body to get into it, what's the point ?


I do believe there are people that don't, for whatever reason. And even if girls that do talk about this with female friends, I doubt most would talk about it with guys that they are not in an intimate relationship with.

If someone asked me if I did, I wouldn't lie, but I'd tell them it was none of their damn business. People who aren't so assertive might lie to avoid having a conversation they're not comfortable with, and I think that's understandable.
12/08/2011
Teaser Teaser
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Originally posted by LilLostLenore
everyone masterbates one point in their life. I sure hells do and love it.
I'm not sure that EVERYONE masturbates, but I think that the majority do, and I think that the percentage is higher with men than woman. I think that the sex drive may be stronger in men than woman, so it's just on their minds more often, therefore they do it more. I know that my wife does (or at least used to) do it, and I certainly still do. That said, I have a co-worker (male) who said he doesn't do that stuff anymore. (I don't even remember how that came up...)
12/08/2011
ijako9 ijako9
My wife never has she just tells me she likes it so much when I play with her that she doesn't need to. That's fine with me
12/08/2011
SweetSurprise SweetSurprise
Im pretty open about it to my friends and extremely open about it with the boyfriend. Since I found this site its helped me open up. Some girls really dont and some are just shy. They might only want to share it with certain people.
12/08/2011
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