If your truly a great lover can you please anyone

CrystaCat CrystaCat
If your truly a great lover can you please anyone? I believe you should be able too but very unlikely. For your partners sake we will say I sure hope not! Just kidding. What do you think?
12/23/2011
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Elnoa Elnoa
I doubt it. People are so varied in their sexual proclivities, no one person could live up to everyone's expectations. I guess if you are counting "everyone" as a certain group of people, then maybe.
12/24/2011
indiglo indiglo
What makes a great lover is someone who listens to what works for each individual the're with. As Elnoa said, since each individual is different, no one can magically be this fantastic lover who pleases every single person beyond their wildest dreams the first time they're together.

When in a relationship, while you can really have good sexual chemistry in the beginning, I think that it takes a little while of getting to know each other to really become a GREAT lover with that person. You have to get comfortable together and communicate before you can be a GREAT lover to the person you love.

As long as someone is generous and willing to listen, they can become a great lover to each person they're with. But to just say you can please any person that walks in off the street is impossible, because without knowing them, you can't know what will please them.
12/24/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
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Originally posted by indiglo
What makes a great lover is someone who listens to what works for each individual the're with. As Elnoa said, since each individual is different, no one can magically be this fantastic lover who pleases every single person beyond their wildest ... More
I agree with everything that's been said thus far...

I also believe it's possible to be an incredible lover and not be able to satisfy everyone even when you are considerate and generous, because there are some people who are just never satisfied and some people who send mixed messages (by faking orgasm or pretending to enjoy things they don't.)
12/24/2011
CrystaCat CrystaCat
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Originally posted by indiglo
What makes a great lover is someone who listens to what works for each individual the're with. As Elnoa said, since each individual is different, no one can magically be this fantastic lover who pleases every single person beyond their wildest ... More
I like your thinking!!!!!!!!1
12/26/2011
Gracie Gracie
I think it is more about the quality of the connection that the partners share, not about a skill set.
12/26/2011
Katelyn Katelyn
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Originally posted by Elnoa
I doubt it. People are so varied in their sexual proclivities, no one person could live up to everyone's expectations. I guess if you are counting "everyone" as a certain group of people, then maybe.
So true, I have had sex with people that are "great lovers" and I haven't cum. I think it's better to be with someone who you like or love and that will turn me on so much that they don't have to be a "great lover".
12/26/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
Straight out NO. Not everyone is the same and will go for what a "great lover" offers. Besides, there has to be far more than just the pleasure to TRULY please me!
12/26/2011
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I think the only real qualitative measure for a great lover is enthusiasm for pleasing your partner. Since every person is different, every partner is going to be different.
12/26/2011
CrystaCat CrystaCat
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Originally posted by hyacinthgirl
I think the only real qualitative measure for a great lover is enthusiasm for pleasing your partner. Since every person is different, every partner is going to be different.
This is true, I like your thinking. Also you may think your lover is really great when someone else thinks they are no so great. How can someone be compared to someone else as well if they have never had better?
12/26/2011
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