Fortunately, my hubby is pretty considerate. He rarely does something I'm not fond of.
As for the hygiene comments, good hygiene is a must for me as well. I'm one of those girls that doesn't like doing naughty things during that time of the month because no matter how clean I am, I still feel icky. Really, the only main thing my hubby does that annoys me is whine about "all the rides being closed". I'm sorry, but I'm miserable and feel gross, he can handle a week of satisfying himself. Even then though, he's usually not too pushy.